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By *aughtydesires OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

First, I have to say that we totally agree with the risk that you take when you do bareback and the all idea about safe sex... But swapping the sex partner without changing in that moment the condom too, does not reduce any risk, apart from a unexpected pregnancy. Also using same hand to fingering more than one woman(for sure nobody will stop and wash his hands in between)or women sharing toys, and so on.. I ask because we were to a party where although all used protection, I noticed that no one bother to change the condom when he change his sex partner. So .. what's the point?

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

This is why I / we insist on a recent check-up before we will meet anyone, and one of the main reasons why we don't frequent clubs much.

Good points to raise, thanks.

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its about trust and people been honest thats the best protection , or like its just been said everyone everyone gets tested once a month and carries a cert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is exactly one of the reasons we dont full swap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are'nt you missing the point its not just about not doing the ultimate

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

At our Local Club if toys are used then condoms are used and changed between ppl who use them. The only think i never thought of was the use of hands and washing inbetween. Everything in life is a risk and as our GUM clinic says get checked about once every three months, more is a waste of time as most take three months to show up, so not sure why ppl get teasted once a month. Anyhow, as they said also depends how often you play to how often you should get tested. But when perhaps most of us were teenagers how often did we have unprotected sex and stuff. We see it as a Small risk as the GUM clinic said all but full penitration is a SMALL risk. Personally we are prepared to take that risk, if you never took risks life would be boaring. But everyone has to decide for themselves, what is too much for them.

So back to the Op's question the point is..... the risk is smaller then Full sex, so to some ppl that maybe worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was at a club once and a guy who had been having sex with a woman got off her and tried to carry on with me, it was only because someone in the room saw him and told me before he got in he still had the same comdon on he was using with someone else

To me thats a total lack of respect and worse than bareback, because at least if he had tried to fuck me bareback he was risking his own health too, where as what he was doing is basically saying...fuck you so long as im ok

i think guys who do that are the lowest

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds


"i was at a club once and a guy who had been having sex with a woman got off her and tried to carry on with me, it was only because someone in the room saw him and told me before he got in he still had the same comdon on he was using with someone else

To me thats a total lack of respect and worse than bareback, because at least if he had tried to fuck me bareback he was risking his own health too, where as what he was doing is basically saying...fuck you so long as im ok

i think guys who do that are the lowest"

Deffinatly,,, we had a Orgy the other week at a club, and each time a guy swoped he changed his condom. We tend to do loads of forplay and then start the condom thing at the end for the final Push so to speak lol x

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By *aughtydesires OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

I agree with you .. it's a lack of respect and at least they have to share the risk! And also I agree that being in life style always we will bee expose to a higher risk then someone who has a closed monogamous relationship. Being aware about that I assume also the risk involved.

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