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By *usband and wifey OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dundee

Probably a very popular question this but what does this actually mean on a profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a very popular question this but what does this actually mean on a profile?"

They do swinging for a job ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it means they work in an office/sales type environment rather than something where they get their hands covered in oil/tarmac/mud and so on.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Probably a very popular question this but what does this actually mean on a profile?

They do swinging for a job ... "

Wearing power suits with shoulder pads and briefcases, preparing power points and after action reviews.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll say it’s likely a profession that can get a lot of trouble involved if they were found out? We both work in education as teachers, so face pics and real names are never used online. C xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a very popular question this but what does this actually mean on a profile?"

Means they're not a pair of bams x

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I’ll say it’s likely a profession that can get a lot of trouble involved if they were found out? We both work in education as teachers, so face pics and real names are never used online. C xxx"

Is that you Mrs Smith? I thought I recognised you from parent teacher night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

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Ah, you must be one of them amateur swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

Ah, you must be one of them amateur swingers "

I'm afraid so

On the plus side, I have a lot to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a very popular question this but what does this actually mean on a profile?"

They’re mods on the site.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

They don't want no common people messaging them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It depends if they spell it properly. Wrongly spelt = idiot, correct spelling = buffoon.

It’s for people who want to meet people similar to them. What they ask for and what they get isn’t always what they wanted.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"They don't want no common people messaging them."

I wanna live like common people, I wanna do what ever common people do. I wanna sleep with common people, I wanna sleep with common people like you.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"They don't want no common people messaging them.

I wanna live like common people, I wanna do what ever common people do. I wanna sleep with common people, I wanna sleep with common people like you."

I'm professional don't you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s a teacher, she’s a matron.

We don’t call ourselves a professional couple, like everyone else we have jobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don't want no common people messaging them.

I wanna live like common people, I wanna do what ever common people do. I wanna sleep with common people, I wanna sleep with common people like you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They both play top flight football, possibly for the same team

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"He’s a teacher, she’s a matron.

We don’t call ourselves a professional couple, like everyone else we have jobs."

Ooh matron!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"He’s a teacher, she’s a matron.

We don’t call ourselves a professional couple, like everyone else we have jobs.

Ooh matron! "

Someone had to!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"They don't want no common people messaging them.

I wanna live like common people, I wanna do what ever common people do. I wanna sleep with common people, I wanna sleep with common people like you.

I'm professional don't you know!"

My mistake! I doff my cap to you, your highness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They think they're better than Everyone else ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They think they're better than Everyone else .."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He’s a teacher, she’s a matron.

We don’t call ourselves a professional couple, like everyone else we have jobs.

Ooh matron! "

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"They think they're better than Everyone else .."

Maybe they are, you'll have to shag them and find out.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"They don't want no common people messaging them.

I wanna live like common people, I wanna do what ever common people do. I wanna sleep with common people, I wanna sleep with common people like you.

I'm professional don't you know!

My mistake! I doff my cap to you, your highness "

Ooh you cheeky commoners.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

[Removed by poster at 09/05/18 12:36:22]

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"They don't want no common people messaging them.

I wanna live like common people, I wanna do what ever common people do. I wanna sleep with common people, I wanna sleep with common people like you.

I'm professional don't you know!

My mistake! I doff my cap to you, your highness

Ooh you cheeky commoners.

They are people who use this as a filter, both in who they seek, but by also those who are appalled by such labels...

See it works.

For us, can take it or leave it as we will be ourselves regards less. We prefer to establish a connection (or not) through our approach with others that appeal to us, what they offer us and what we can offer in return.

We have to say, direct contact in an organised social or club setting is a great leveler or indeed decisive in helping us all know if things are going to develop further."

oops Regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

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What utter rubbish! Maybe they are just looking for like minded people.

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away


"Probably a very popular question this but what does this actually mean on a profile?

They do swinging for a job ...

Wearing power suits with shoulder pads and briefcases, preparing power points and after action reviews. "

This is the correct answer

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Probably a very popular question this but what does this actually mean on a profile?"

They both charge?

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I'm not sure why so many dislike the term "professional couple* and the like. And it certainly doesn't mean anyone that uses it is egotistical and has an over inflated sense of self.

Well I would say that, I'm a professional guy after all

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"I'm not sure why so many dislike the term "professional couple* and the like. And it certainly doesn't mean anyone that uses it is egotistical and has an over inflated sense of self.

Well I would say that, I'm a professional guy after all "

Agreed.

People set standards that they won't break and its not just Professional types.

There are so many opposites here in fab land, that some form of discrimination will feature in rejecting a profile.

Can't imagine there's too many, will funk anybody type here, but no doubt there will be a few that prove me (mr) wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never associate the term with big heads, j just see it as I said before, that the job they are in makes their faces a risky business here. Is that really what people think? We don’t use the term to describe ourselves, but we are honwst about what we do C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

What utter rubbish! Maybe they are just looking for like minded people. "

Just because you might have a different opinion it doesn't mean mines is rubbish, it just means we don't agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

What utter rubbish! Maybe they are just looking for like minded people.

Just because you might have a different opinion it doesn't mean mines is rubbish, it just means we don't agree.

"

Why is it you have this opinion of people who describe themselves in this way? Is it because someone has acted a bit snooty or something?

Mrs

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

What utter rubbish! Maybe they are just looking for like minded people.

Just because you might have a different opinion it doesn't mean mines is rubbish, it just means we don't agree.

Why is it you have this opinion of people who describe themselves in this way? Is it because someone has acted a bit snooty or something?

Mrs"

From our prospective, a professional single or couple will know who doesn't fit with their choices and won't rise to any phrase or comments that basically call them snobs for having a standard they live by. They'll have their own "playdar" that to them needs no explanation, nor will it to those that wish to take thinks further.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Doh! things further...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

What utter rubbish! Maybe they are just looking for like minded people.

Just because you might have a different opinion it doesn't mean mines is rubbish, it just means we don't agree.

Why is it you have this opinion of people who describe themselves in this way? Is it because someone has acted a bit snooty or something?

Mrs

From our prospective, a professional single or couple will know who doesn't fit with their choices and won't rise to any phrase or comments that basically call them snobs for having a standard they live by. They'll have their own "playdar" that to them needs no explanation, nor will it to those that wish to take thinks further.

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Yes that level of confidence, to not care about untoward negative criticism, is certainly an ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get the impression that when people describe themselves as professionals they’re the sort of people who think that having a better than average salary , a new build 4 bedroom house and a car with a number plate that is supposed to resemble their name or initials makes them classy .... ah well keep it up if that’s what makes you tick

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By *ustJ0dieTV/TS
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

They work in an office.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always get the impression that when people describe themselves as professionals they’re the sort of people who think that having a better than average salary , a new build 4 bedroom house and a car with a number plate that is supposed to resemble their name or initials makes them classy .... ah well keep it up if that’s what makes you tick"

If the word ‘professional’ equates to money, then teachers and nurses would be earning a hell of a lot more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always get the impression that when people describe themselves as professionals they’re the sort of people who think that having a better than average salary , a new build 4 bedroom house and a car with a number plate that is supposed to resemble their name or initials makes them classy .... ah well keep it up if that’s what makes you tick

If the word ‘professional’ equates to money, then teachers and nurses would be earning a hell of a lot more!"

I live in London and most people working in central London would be considered ‘professionals’. I just don’t get why people have trouble understanding what it means or think people are being above themselves when they use that term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always get the impression that when people describe themselves as professionals they’re the sort of people who think that having a better than average salary , a new build 4 bedroom house and a car with a number plate that is supposed to resemble their name or initials makes them classy .... ah well keep it up if that’s what makes you tick

If the word ‘professional’ equates to money, then teachers and nurses would be earning a hell of a lot more!

I live in London and most people working in central London would be considered ‘professionals’. I just don’t get why people have trouble understanding what it means or think people are being above themselves when they use that term. "

Surely anyone who has a job they get paid for is a professional ?

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"I always get the impression that when people describe themselves as professionals they’re the sort of people who think that having a better than average salary , a new build 4 bedroom house and a car with a number plate that is supposed to resemble their name or initials makes them classy .... ah well keep it up if that’s what makes you tick

If the word ‘professional’ equates to money, then teachers and nurses would be earning a hell of a lot more!

I live in London and most people working in central London would be considered ‘professionals’. I just don’t get why people have trouble understanding what it means or think people are being above themselves when they use that term.

Surely anyone who has a job they get paid for is a professional ? "

Horses for courses mate. If that's where the bar is for you then that's great, not dissing you at all.

Others set it where it falls right for them. The other misconception that I (mr) think gets thrown into the mix is class, where going off track means there having fun with a bit of rough... I don't believe that its really no more than a noun that people use for preferences here.

Be it age, colour, sexual orientation, fetish yadda yadda yadda, we all have a filter that catches what we don't want, and professional in my view shouldn't really be thought of any differently.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I tend to avoid profiles that state this... we all work.. just because one has a professional job (what ever that means) doesnt mean they are a nicer person.

Just feels to me a bit "class society"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

What utter rubbish! Maybe they are just looking for like minded people.

Just because you might have a different opinion it doesn't mean mines is rubbish, it just means we don't agree.

Why is it you have this opinion of people who describe themselves in this way? Is it because someone has acted a bit snooty or something?

Mrs"

It's an observation based on certain professional people who have messaged me and also of some who use the forums. I have noticed that in most instances [ok not all] that they assume that because they use the term professional they are more important than others who use this site.

I just think its them being up their own arse, again my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

What utter rubbish! Maybe they are just looking for like minded people.

Just because you might have a different opinion it doesn't mean mines is rubbish, it just means we don't agree.

Why is it you have this opinion of people who describe themselves in this way? Is it because someone has acted a bit snooty or something?

Mrs

From our prospective, a professional single or couple will know who doesn't fit with their choices and won't rise to any phrase or comments that basically call them snobs for having a standard they live by. They'll have their own "playdar" that to them needs no explanation, nor will it to those that wish to take thinks further.

"

and from my prospective these people are content and secure in their line of work, success & achievements that they would then omit the word "professional" from their profile.

It's not on my profile, I don't see the need to have it there as the only way I am looking to impress people from this site will be when we are getting dirty with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

What utter rubbish! Maybe they are just looking for like minded people.

Just because you might have a different opinion it doesn't mean mines is rubbish, it just means we don't agree.

Why is it you have this opinion of people who describe themselves in this way? Is it because someone has acted a bit snooty or something?

Mrs

From our prospective, a professional single or couple will know who doesn't fit with their choices and won't rise to any phrase or comments that basically call them snobs for having a standard they live by. They'll have their own "playdar" that to them needs no explanation, nor will it to those that wish to take thinks further.

and from my prospective these people are content and secure in their line of work, success & achievements that they would then omit the word "professional" from their profile.

It's not on my profile, I don't see the need to have it there as the only way I am looking to impress people from this site will be when we are getting dirty with each other. "

Same here.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

What utter rubbish! Maybe they are just looking for like minded people.

Just because you might have a different opinion it doesn't mean mines is rubbish, it just means we don't agree.

Why is it you have this opinion of people who describe themselves in this way? Is it because someone has acted a bit snooty or something?

Mrs

From our prospective, a professional single or couple will know who doesn't fit with their choices and won't rise to any phrase or comments that basically call them snobs for having a standard they live by. They'll have their own "playdar" that to them needs no explanation, nor will it to those that wish to take thinks further.

and from my prospective these people are content and secure in their line of work, success & achievements that they would then omit the word "professional" from their profile.

It's not on my profile, I don't see the need to have it there as the only way I am looking to impress people from this site will be when we are getting dirty with each other. "

So do you filter out those who have it on theirs? Or is busy with work, the buzz word equivalent of the secret handshake among you professional types...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw, we must be a professional couple as we’re married

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


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From our prospective, a professional single or couple will know who doesn't fit with their choices and won't rise to any phrase or comments that basically call them snobs for having a standard they live by. They'll have their own "playdar" that to them needs no explanation, nor will it to those that wish to take thinks further.

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Very well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

What utter rubbish! Maybe they are just looking for like minded people.

Just because you might have a different opinion it doesn't mean mines is rubbish, it just means we don't agree.

Why is it you have this opinion of people who describe themselves in this way? Is it because someone has acted a bit snooty or something?

Mrs

It's an observation based on certain professional people who have messaged me and also of some who use the forums. I have noticed that in most instances [ok not all] that they assume that because they use the term professional they are more important than others who use this site.

I just think its them being up their own arse, again my opinion.

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I guess i haven’t been treated like that by people who describe themselves as professional. But if that’s your experience I understand. Hopefully it’s only a few that are like that.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It generally means that they have an inflated opinion of themselves and think they are more important than those who don't label themselves as professional.

What utter rubbish! Maybe they are just looking for like minded people.

Just because you might have a different opinion it doesn't mean mines is rubbish, it just means we don't agree.

Why is it you have this opinion of people who describe themselves in this way? Is it because someone has acted a bit snooty or something?

Mrs

From our prospective, a professional single or couple will know who doesn't fit with their choices and won't rise to any phrase or comments that basically call them snobs for having a standard they live by. They'll have their own "playdar" that to them needs no explanation, nor will it to those that wish to take thinks further.

and from my prospective these people are content and secure in their line of work, success & achievements that they would then omit the word "professional" from their profile.

It's not on my profile, I don't see the need to have it there as the only way I am looking to impress people from this site will be when we are getting dirty with each other.

So do you filter out those who have it on theirs? Or is busy with work, the buzz word equivalent of the secret handshake among you professional types... "

Haha well firstly I don't meet couples so no need to filter them out. As for single professional guys it all depends on how good looking they are of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Professional people are white collar workers

Non professional people are blue collar workers

In my experience sex is great with both collars...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a very popular question this but what does this actually mean on a profile?"
suited and booted sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all the same class naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're all the same class naked "

Gym fit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a very popular question this but what does this actually mean on a profile?"

It means no chavs.

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish


"I would say it means they work in an office/sales type environment rather than something where they get their hands covered in oil/tarmac/mud and so on."

I would say any one who earns there living from what they do ie there proffesion is a proffesional . I worked away for 37 years with the same organisation as a gardener geting my hands dirty sime times so i count myself proffessional

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By *aughty40sCplCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

In our case we use it as we’re both members of professional bodies as part of our jobs. It’s not an ‘office’ or ‘suit’ thing as professional bodies exist for people in trades, engineering, nurses, etc as well as more office based work. We don’t use it to seek to exclude people it’s just how we identify in our careers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're all the same class naked

Gym fit? "

What's the gym got to do with class?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're all the same class naked

Gym fit?

What's the gym got to do with class? "

They go to a classy gym?

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