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"Nobody said it has to be filth all the time but not having versatility in your sex life must be dull? " People can be versatile without gimmicks | |||
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"Apologies, (sex) same old missionary position.. with no imagination or incline to explore and experiment." Aaah, you've met my ex husband then? | |||
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"Sex that involves no twists or kinkiness, and no S&M. Basically plain regular sex. Typically sweet and happy and very lovey-dovey. I agree with all apart from the Lovey-dovey stuff " I don't always get tied up and flogged when I have sex. Doesn't mean it's lovely dovey x | |||
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"Sex that involves no twists or kinkiness, and no S&M. Basically plain regular sex. Typically sweet and happy and very lovey-dovey. I agree with all apart from the Lovey-dovey stuff I don't always get tied up and flogged when I have sex. Doesn't mean it's lovely dovey x" what is vanilla please | |||
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"But that’s exactly what I mean.. “you don’t always” the fact that you do or that you would even consider it means that you’re prepared to try different things.. maybe I’m not making myself clear.. how do people just do the same thing and not want to try different things? That’s the point I’m trying to make " i think you have a very odd perception of what other people do or don't do...i've never heard of anyone 'just doing the same thing'..even what you call 'vanilla' covers a huge array of things.. | |||
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"How can some people just do vanilla? I know it takes all sorts to make the world go round but vanilla.. Really? " Why does it bother you what other people do? If they’re happy with it, why not? | |||
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"But that’s exactly what I mean.. “you don’t always” the fact that you do or that you would even consider it means that you’re prepared to try different things.. maybe I’m not making myself clear.. how do people just do the same thing and not want to try different things? That’s the point I’m trying to make " It's just their mind set. I have friends that could never have sex again and when they do it's covers up ...lights out. They get embarrassed if sex is ever mentioned on group chat and don't give it another thought. I have other friends who enjoy sex. Have it regularly and talk about their sex life...not much but just general chat. Then there's me. One isn't more happy than the other x | |||
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"I think you are all misunderstanding me.. " in what way? your post was very clear.. | |||
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"I think you are all misunderstanding me.. " Just reacting to the op dude. Nothing to do with you. Just what you wrote and how you wrote it | |||
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"I think you are all misunderstanding me.. " oh your talking about the price of vanilla it's price is at a global high so looking for alternatives then ? | |||
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"Vanilla is underrated on here. Best sex I've ever had was vanilla... and yes, you certainly should explore other positions and kinkiness. But damn! Nothing quite like really deep fucking a long term lover in missionary position, her knees up so you can get really deep, and then cumming inside her. I'd leave Fab for that any day... and happily never look back, an utterly contented man " Exactly. My BDSM quiz came out as 90 something percent vanilla lol, and I don't need any kink to have fabulous sex! Nearly all the ladies will say missionary allows the maximum bodily contact with passionate kissing right through as well - beats me how anyone could NOT love it as part of normal repertoire! | |||
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"Vanilla is underrated on here. Best sex I've ever had was vanilla... and yes, you certainly should explore other positions and kinkiness. But damn! Nothing quite like really deep fucking a long term lover in missionary position, her knees up so you can get really deep, and then cumming inside her. I'd leave Fab for that any day... and happily never look back, an utterly contented man " ...but can I still have fun in a club occasionally? | |||
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"I quite like missionary position. It doesn't always have to be fingers up the arse spit in your mouth sex ya know! " Sounds great though!! X | |||
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"Vanilla is underrated on here. Best sex I've ever had was vanilla... and yes, you certainly should explore other positions and kinkiness. But damn! Nothing quite like really deep fucking a long term lover in missionary position, her knees up so you can get really deep, and then cumming inside her. I'd leave Fab for that any day... and happily never look back, an utterly contented man ...but can I still have fun in a club occasionally?" Shhh it'll be our little secret | |||
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"But that’s exactly what I mean.. “you don’t always” the fact that you do or that you would even consider it means that you’re prepared to try different things.. maybe I’m not making myself clear.. how do people just do the same thing and not want to try different things? That’s the point I’m trying to make " I'm quite regimented in what I like, it's been the same for 15 years or so since I first discovered that sex gave me orgasms and I didn't just have to lay there! I'll try different things but to guarantee me to cum I need the guys full body weight on top of me with his hand round my throat or over my mouth and for me to reach down and rub my bean. I have had orgasms in other positions but my sure fired tried and tested position has not changed. | |||
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"But that’s exactly what I mean.. “you don’t always” the fact that you do or that you would even consider it means that you’re prepared to try different things.. maybe I’m not making myself clear.. how do people just do the same thing and not want to try different things? That’s the point I’m trying to make " I like to explore and experiment but just don't see any point in wasting any head space thinking about others who don't, or for that matter, those who are far more adventurous than me. Why would I? - someone else's sex life has nothing to do with me. The important thing is compatibility - two people who are both content with their version of vanilla would consider they had fantastic sex and that's all that matters, not other people's opinion of them. | |||
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"But that’s exactly what I mean.. “you don’t always” the fact that you do or that you would even consider it means that you’re prepared to try different things.. maybe I’m not making myself clear.. how do people just do the same thing and not want to try different things? That’s the point I’m trying to make I'm quite regimented in what I like, it's been the same for 15 years or so since I first discovered that sex gave me orgasms and I didn't just have to lay there! I'll try different things but to guarantee me to cum I need the guys full body weight on top of me with his hand round my throat or over my mouth and for me to reach down and rub my bean. I have had orgasms in other positions but my sure fired tried and tested position has not changed. " Marry me | |||
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"How can some people just do vanilla? I know it takes all sorts to make the world go round but vanilla.. Really? " Chocolate ice cream is way better | |||
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"Vanilla is underrated on here. Best sex I've ever had was vanilla... and yes, you certainly should explore other positions and kinkiness. But damn! Nothing quite like really deep fucking a long term lover in missionary position, her knees up so you can get really deep, and then cumming inside her. I'd leave Fab for that any day... and happily never look back, an utterly contented man ...but can I still have fun in a club occasionally? Shhh it'll be our little secret " Ok, I won’t tell...promise | |||
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"People that can't just enjoy this bother me more" Indeed. We've been vanilla for many years and have enjoyed an increasingly sexy relationship. If you've never experienced that you've missed out. | |||
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"Apologies, (sex) same old missionary position.. with no imagination or incline to explore and experiment." This post reveals why it's never worked for you. Are you REALLY that sexually boring in a relationship? Wow! | |||
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"But that’s exactly what I mean.. “you don’t always” the fact that you do or that you would even consider it means that you’re prepared to try different things.. maybe I’m not making myself clear.. how do people just do the same thing and not want to try different things? That’s the point I’m trying to make I'm quite regimented in what I like, it's been the same for 15 years or so since I first discovered that sex gave me orgasms and I didn't just have to lay there! I'll try different things but to guarantee me to cum I need the guys full body weight on top of me with his hand round my throat or over my mouth and for me to reach down and rub my bean. I have had orgasms in other positions but my sure fired tried and tested position has not changed. Marry me" You'd squash me if you were on top of me! | |||
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"But that’s exactly what I mean.. “you don’t always” the fact that you do or that you would even consider it means that you’re prepared to try different things.. maybe I’m not making myself clear.. how do people just do the same thing and not want to try different things? That’s the point I’m trying to make I'm quite regimented in what I like, it's been the same for 15 years or so since I first discovered that sex gave me orgasms and I didn't just have to lay there! I'll try different things but to guarantee me to cum I need the guys full body weight on top of me with his hand round my throat or over my mouth and for me to reach down and rub my bean. I have had orgasms in other positions but my sure fired tried and tested position has not changed. Marry me You'd squash me if you were on top of me!" You'd enjoy your final moments though | |||
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"But that’s exactly what I mean.. “you don’t always” the fact that you do or that you would even consider it means that you’re prepared to try different things.. maybe I’m not making myself clear.. how do people just do the same thing and not want to try different things? That’s the point I’m trying to make I like to explore and experiment but just don't see any point in wasting any head space thinking about others who don't, or for that matter, those who are far more adventurous than me. Why would I? - someone else's sex life has nothing to do with me. The important thing is compatibility - two people who are both content with their version of vanilla would consider they had fantastic sex and that's all that matters, not other people's opinion of them." I don’t mind exploring sex, and trying new things excite me. But it seems to me, esp on fab that sensual sex is ‘different’ or even concidered to be a kink. I like what you wrote -fantastic sex is what matters. If the ‘vanilla’ isn’t working, try something else. Everyone has an imagination. ... | |||
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"I’ve had amazing sex in vanilla relationships. A sex life is what you and your partner make of it, it’s not defined by terminology. " This | |||
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"I think the OP is getting a bit of a hard time here. I get where he is coming from. I wouldn't enjoy a sex life without some kink and adventure! Seb" It's just different strokes for different folks isn't it. Some people only eat cornflakes for breakfast while other enjoy smashed avacado pea shoots and quails eggs. | |||
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"I think the OP is getting a bit of a hard time here. I get where he is coming from. I wouldn't enjoy a sex life without some kink and adventure! Seb" Nobody has given anyone a hard time have they? | |||
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"Vanilla is underrated on here. Best sex I've ever had was vanilla... and yes, you certainly should explore other positions and kinkiness. But damn! Nothing quite like really deep fucking a long term lover in missionary position, her knees up so you can get really deep, and then cumming inside her. I'd leave Fab for that any day... and happily never look back, an utterly contented man ...but can I still have fun in a club occasionally? Shhh it'll be our little secret Ok, I won’t tell...promise " Just as long as I don't come home to find you still dishevelled lying on the bed freshly filled with your lovers cum. Then I'd have to give you a real seeing to. Just so you didn't ever do it again... well not much | |||
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"Vanilla is underrated on here. Best sex I've ever had was vanilla... and yes, you certainly should explore other positions and kinkiness. But damn! Nothing quite like really deep fucking a long term lover in missionary position, her knees up so you can get really deep, and then cumming inside her. I'd leave Fab for that any day... and happily never look back, an utterly contented man ...but can I still have fun in a club occasionally? Shhh it'll be our little secret Ok, I won’t tell...promise Just as long as I don't come home to find you still dishevelled lying on the bed freshly filled with your lovers cum. Then I'd have to give you a real seeing to. Just so you didn't ever do it again... well not much " Throw the quilt over me when you’re done, I’ll need a nap. | |||
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"Vanilla is underrated on here. Best sex I've ever had was vanilla... and yes, you certainly should explore other positions and kinkiness. But damn! Nothing quite like really deep fucking a long term lover in missionary position, her knees up so you can get really deep, and then cumming inside her. I'd leave Fab for that any day... and happily never look back, an utterly contented man ...but can I still have fun in a club occasionally? Shhh it'll be our little secret Ok, I won’t tell...promise Just as long as I don't come home to find you still dishevelled lying on the bed freshly filled with your lovers cum. Then I'd have to give you a real seeing to. Just so you didn't ever do it again... well not much Throw the quilt over me when you’re done, I’ll need a nap. " If ever the phrase "get a room you two" was ever more appropriate | |||
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"Vanilla is underrated on here. Best sex I've ever had was vanilla... and yes, you certainly should explore other positions and kinkiness. But damn! Nothing quite like really deep fucking a long term lover in missionary position, her knees up so you can get really deep, and then cumming inside her. I'd leave Fab for that any day... and happily never look back, an utterly contented man ...but can I still have fun in a club occasionally? Shhh it'll be our little secret Ok, I won’t tell...promise Just as long as I don't come home to find you still dishevelled lying on the bed freshly filled with your lovers cum. Then I'd have to give you a real seeing to. Just so you didn't ever do it again... well not much Throw the quilt over me when you’re done, I’ll need a nap. If ever the phrase "get a room you two" was ever more appropriate " It’s the usual problem, distance. | |||
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"I quite like missionary position. It doesn't always have to be fingers up the arse spit in your mouth sex ya know! " Lololo. I quite like the cowgirl. | |||
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"A thread like this would be more interesting if it didn't become a debate about definition. I am not a definition-fascist, and dislike labels, but isn't vanilla sex simply one-to-one heterosexual sex without kinks? As such it offers very considerable variety. " Exactly!! I've been doing that for over 40 years and still love every second, and there's still plenty to keep it fresh and new ground if I want! I'm really glad I am not someone that needs more and more to get me off, I can think of nothing worse. | |||
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"Vanilla is underrated on here. Best sex I've ever had was vanilla... and yes, you certainly should explore other positions and kinkiness. But damn! Nothing quite like really deep fucking a long term lover in missionary position, her knees up so you can get really deep, and then cumming inside her. I'd leave Fab for that any day... and happily never look back, an utterly contented man ...but can I still have fun in a club occasionally? Shhh it'll be our little secret Ok, I won’t tell...promise Just as long as I don't come home to find you still dishevelled lying on the bed freshly filled with your lovers cum. Then I'd have to give you a real seeing to. Just so you didn't ever do it again... well not much Throw the quilt over me when you’re done, I’ll need a nap. If ever the phrase "get a room you two" was ever more appropriate It’s the usual problem, distance. " Oh! Well if that's the only mitigating factor I'll jump in the car. See you in about 3 hours. You do do overnighters don't you? | |||
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"A thread like this would be more interesting if it didn't become a debate about definition. I am not a definition-fascist, and dislike labels, but isn't vanilla sex simply one-to-one heterosexual sex without kinks? As such it offers very considerable variety. " So, you find definitions boring, but have completely failed to add anything to the discussion except another definition. Well done. | |||
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"A thread like this would be more interesting if it didn't become a debate about definition. I am not a definition-fascist, and dislike labels, but isn't vanilla sex simply one-to-one heterosexual sex without kinks? As such it offers very considerable variety. So, you find definitions boring, but have completely failed to add anything to the discussion except another definition. Well done." | |||
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"I quite like missionary position. It doesn't always have to be fingers up the arse spit in your mouth sex ya know! " That teld him! | |||
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