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Spur of the moment meet or planned meet

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby

I do like a spur of the moment meets more as the intensity of if it can be so erotic.

But also a planned meet being organised a week or 2 in advance can be a great build up.

What's your choice.

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

We are looking more at spur of the moment meets pre planned seem to result in no shows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre-planned for new meets every time. Spur of the moment only with regulars as they are guaranteed to show. That said I had a 3 some that happened as last minute when a pre-planned meet was in the swing and some time out and chat went in direction of interests. I suggested a 3some was an interest. She agreed and she messaged a mutual friend (whom I'd only been chatting with before this). A great night had by all as a result.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Pre planned - safety is paramount. Spur of the moment never works out well for me

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

short notice with regular meets.

others only planned and after a bit of chatting, social and stuff. a fuck and go with new ones is pretty unsatisfactory for me I found...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"short notice with regular meets.

others only planned and after a bit of chatting, social and stuff. a fuck and go with new ones is pretty unsatisfactory for me I found..."

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Has to be pre-planned for us but that brings the added danger of a cancellation. It happens more often than we would like but we still need to pre plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre planned for me. Every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always planned. With loads of chats, socials, friendship, fucking and fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always spur of the moment for us. If it was pre planned the chances are by the time it came to meet I wouldn't be in the mood for it

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Planned, i like to chat and get to know someone first, plus gotta love some flirting and teasing and build that chemistry x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I feel more couples are spur of the moment as they have each to back them up, single females? Not so much, I would NEVER to a spur of the moment meet and that suits me just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment due to lack of free time.. our meets are a spur of the moment thing ..

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By *ev and TrevCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Has to be planned for us due to childcare and the fact that we don't accommodate so usually book a hotel.

Most of the messages we receive though are from people wanting to meet now (even though ther profile says we don't!)

It does come with issue of no shows though far more often than we'd like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either as long as there's a chat 1st

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Prefer planned, enjoy getting to know someone, building the anticipation and having something to look forward to - would only consider something last minute if circumstances allowed and it was someone I had met before.

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby

Love seeing all the different preferences. And how people like to live their swinging life.

Either for me so long as it's fun and more important safe as well.

Regardless of planned or spur of the moment I like to meet in a public place

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Only ever in a club if there is someone there I have good chemistry with & private meets only with people I know & Gomez always knows where I am & who I’m with.

Too many risks in spur of the moment play with a stranger for me to be comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spur of the moment with a few messages. Not into long drawn out chats. Often find they are time wasters. Very exciting and erotic

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I'm bad at making plans, so it's usually spur of the moment for me

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Always planned and following time spent chatting.....except for the spur-of-the-moment meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done both and had good fun on both. Just seems at the moment unplanned is good. Last meet we didn't know the lady had a hairy one and hubby loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done both but do prefer the build up to a planned one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us planned meets do not work.Had plenty some good,some awful.It really is about being in the moment.Together.At the same time.

Much more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned meets ideally. But I seem to get the feeling that on Fab unless it's arranged to be at a club most of the meets just end up being more spur of the moment than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instashag for us.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Spur of the moment .... no time to get cold feet .....

We all get the colly wobbles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous meets are the best in our experience x

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By *rBBMrsLDCouple
over a year ago

Seaford

Love an impromptu

Exciting and horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard to have a spur of the moment meet. Between family and work it's very hard to plan meets. I'd imagine on the spur of the moment would be good though and exciting.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

The last spur of the moment meet I did, was one of the worst meets I did. They were a young married couple, and had been let down last minute by a guy, so logged a status update saying they were looking for someone. I messaged them, and about 30 minutes later, I was at their house! She was actually really quite stunning, but d*unk. She didn't kiss, and she didn't do bj's. The situation didn't turn me on at all, so I thanked them for their time, and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter what we try we dont get any meets x

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By *arkliverpoolMan
over a year ago

whiston / the lakes sometimes

Both lol if I can get a meet

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Both. However lately we’ve had loads of time wasters, no shows or cancellations so you can never tell which is best.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"Always spur of the moment for us. If it was pre planned the chances are by the time it came to meet I wouldn't be in the mood for it "

Exactly this ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both. However lately we’ve had loads of time wasters, no shows or cancellations so you can never tell which is best. "

Mostly happens with spontaneous meets, especially with single guys.

For us planned with cpls but spontaneous meets with regulars is a huge turn on.

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