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"I'm not bi I am straight " not even a teeny beeny bit bi? You know, rimming men’s arses, type of thing? There again, I can imagine a straight man in a D/s type relationship being ‘forced’ to do it but I’d still wonder. | |||
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"It is called "FAB STRAIGHT" i.e. bent as a nine bob note! "  | |||
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"I'm not bi I am straight " Then why refer to yourself as a man? You clearly don’t see yourself as female so if you’re rimming men that’s same sex play. | |||
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"I'm not bi I am straight Then why refer to yourself as a man? You clearly don’t see yourself as female so if you’re rimming men that’s same sex play. " I'm a straight man cross dresser | |||
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"If you are playing with men and women you are bi,straight men do not play with men." It's not voluntarily i am ordered to do it by my master | |||
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"If you are playing with men and women you are bi,straight men do not play with men. It's not voluntarily i am ordered to do it by my master " You want anally penetrating (fucked) by a guy whilst he wanks you off? ..... My, the definition of "straight" sure has changed lately! | |||
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"If you are playing with men and women you are bi,straight men do not play with men. It's not voluntarily i am ordered to do it by my master You want anally penetrating (fucked) by a guy whilst he wanks you off? ..... My, the definition of "straight" sure has changed lately! "Yes I'm straight and I am in a relationship with a woman | |||
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"If you are playing with men and women you are bi,straight men do not play with men. It's not voluntarily i am ordered to do it by my master You want anally penetrating (fucked) by a guy whilst he wanks you off? ..... My, the definition of "straight" sure has changed lately!
Yes I'm straight and I am in a relationship with a woman"Ummm being fucked by a guy whilst he wanks you off (which is great btw) makes you Bi regardless of you relationship with a woman | |||
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""Straight men who love men rimming them" so you're talking about a guy who is not forced to receive an ass licking? That guy would be bi, you may be "straight" in the domme world but realistically you're not." I'm straight it's my sexuality | |||
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"It seems nobody here has ever encountered a troll before which is rather astonishing. Stop feeding the troll guys " I was just thinking the same thing after I posted my response! | |||
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"He’s having us on. Has to be. Nobody is this dense. C x" There was a thread before where a guy said he loves to suck dick but he's not bi or gay and some people agreed so I wouldn't be surprised if he's being serious. I dunno why people are afraid to admit they're gay or bi. It's either they're afraid to admit it or they have no understanding of the word straight. | |||
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"My sexuality is my business " Yes but you don't get to redefine the English language around your own fantasy world. | |||
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"My sexuality is my business Yes but you don't get to redefine the English language around your own fantasy world. " In my experience the English language is always being redefined, reinvented and augmented. IE something that is Bad or Sick is now great. Go figure. | |||
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"My sexuality is my business Yes but you don't get to redefine the English language around your own fantasy world. In my experience the English language is always being redefined, reinvented and augmented. IE something that is Bad or Sick is now great. Go figure." I teach English, and this isn’t true. A words difinition and meaning will never change, however it can have alternate meanings when used in a different context or setting. So bad being good, is a slang term. Bad still means bad, and good still means good. Bisexual however and straight are not the type of word that will be redefined in this way. If you are straight, it means you find women sexually attractive and not men. You can still say a man is good looking, or find qualities and admiration in a man, but you wouldn’t engage sexually with them. There is one caveat to this and that’s sword play. Men usually expect in a MMF that they may clash swords, and thats usually something agreed on early. It’s more of a comfort thing than a sexuality thing. Clashing of swords is straight, grabbing it and wanking it off isn’t. You can’t just redefine the English language the way you’re suggesting. C x | |||
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"My sexuality is my business Yes but you don't get to redefine the English language around your own fantasy world. In my experience the English language is always being redefined, reinvented and augmented. IE something that is Bad or Sick is now great. Go figure." Ok, well how about we bet £1,000 each that if we stand on Reading high street and ask the first 200 people who walk by "is a man straight if he puts his penis in another mans ass?" Then the majority will say "no"? | |||
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"My sexuality is my business " I believe you've stood your ground rather nicely. Some of the thoroughly confused here will also never grasp how a woman can have a penis. Quaint really. | |||
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"My sexuality is my business Yes but you don't get to redefine the English language around your own fantasy world. In my experience the English language is always being redefined, reinvented and augmented. IE something that is Bad or Sick is now great. Go figure. I teach English, and this isn’t true. A words difinition and meaning will never change, however it can have alternate meanings when used in a different context or setting. So bad being good, is a slang term. Bad still means bad, and good still means good. Bisexual however and straight are not the type of word that will be redefined in this way. If you are straight, it means you find women sexually attractive and not men. You can still say a man is good looking, or find qualities and admiration in a man, but you wouldn’t engage sexually with them. There is one caveat to this and that’s sword play. Men usually expect in a MMF that they may clash swords, and thats usually something agreed on early. It’s more of a comfort thing than a sexuality thing. Clashing of swords is straight, grabbing it and wanking it off isn’t. You can’t just redefine the English language the way you’re suggesting. C x" My bet is open to you as well if you'd care to put your money where your thumbs are. | |||
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"My sexuality is my business I believe you've stood your ground rather nicely. Some of the thoroughly confused here will also never grasp how a woman can have a penis. Quaint really. " That’s not quite the same, and you know it. If you are born a man and chose to live as a woman, there are a LOT of complexities that will define your gender. I will openly call anybody trans he or she or pinapple depending on THEIR preference, not my own. However... If a man sticks his tongue up another mans arse, it doesn’t matter if he’s Norman Bates or wearing a tshirt that reads “no homo”... that’s going to raise questions on your sexuality. Remember, there are trans women who were born men that do NOT want male sexual attention because that’s not who they are. But does that mean we have to call them gay and stick them in a corner because they wear women’s clothes? Sexuality is a big topic, it can be easy or very difficult to understand. But this case? It’s very easy... C x | |||
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"My bet is open to you as well if you'd care to put your money where your thumbs are." The issue with your street corner vote is that those people will more than likely never have or will enage in those activities, and so their vote will be biased. It would be like asking my grandad if two men can love each other, it’s the wrong audience. C x | |||
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"My bet is open to you as well if you'd care to put your money where your thumbs are. The issue with your street corner vote is that those people will more than likely never have or will enage in those activities, and so their vote will be biased. It would be like asking my grandad if two men can love each other, it’s the wrong audience. C x" It's a question about the English language, as daily speakers of it - they have all the relevant experience necessary. I'm happy to disregard answers from non-native speakers. | |||
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"My bet is open to you as well if you'd care to put your money where your thumbs are. The issue with your street corner vote is that those people will more than likely never have or will enage in those activities, and so their vote will be biased. It would be like asking my grandad if two men can love each other, it’s the wrong audience. C x" His point is that the meaning of all words is defined by what people think they mean. If 99% of people in the UK in 2018 believe that anyone who has sex with someone with the same genitals of them is Gay or bi then that's what it generally means in the UK in 2018. Obviously smaller groups and sub cultures can define words in different ways if they like and they often do, but if we are talking about what words "really" mean in any given society the only way is by counting heads. | |||
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"My bet is open to you as well if you'd care to put your money where your thumbs are. The issue with your street corner vote is that those people will more than likely never have or will enage in those activities, and so their vote will be biased. It would be like asking my grandad if two men can love each other, it’s the wrong audience. C x His point is that the meaning of all words is defined by what people think they mean. If 99% of people in the UK in 2018 believe that anyone who has sex with someone with the same genitals of them is Gay or bi then that's what it generally means in the UK in 2018. Obviously smaller groups and sub cultures can define words in different ways if they like and they often do, but if we are talking about what words "really" mean in any given society the only way is by counting heads. " Exactly, the words gay and awful have changed their meaning over time because most people agree they have. If most people agree that straight guys may put their willies into mens bums then i'll lose a grand. But i want the chance to win one too... | |||
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"My bet is open to you as well if you'd care to put your money where your thumbs are. The issue with your street corner vote is that those people will more than likely never have or will enage in those activities, and so their vote will be biased. It would be like asking my grandad if two men can love each other, it’s the wrong audience. C x His point is that the meaning of all words is defined by what people think they mean. If 99% of people in the UK in 2018 believe that anyone who has sex with someone with the same genitals of them is Gay or bi then that's what it generally means in the UK in 2018. Obviously smaller groups and sub cultures can define words in different ways if they like and they often do, but if we are talking about what words "really" mean in any given society the only way is by counting heads. Exactly, the words gay and awful have changed their meaning over time because most people agree they have. If most people agree that straight guys may put their willies into mens bums then i'll lose a grand. But i want the chance to win one too..." Indeed, but as per our recent discussion, usage can be illogical. If I used to only fuck men forty years ago but now only fuck women, you wouldn't call me bi or Gay now. On the other hand if I murderded someone forty years ago and hadn't murderded anyone since, you'd still call me a murderer. | |||
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"I'm not bi I am straight Then why refer to yourself as a man? You clearly don’t see yourself as female so if you’re rimming men that’s same sex play. I'm a straight man cross dresser" Who agrees to sexual acts with other men. You’re bisexual. Simple as that. | |||
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