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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Meeting someone new is a part of what this site is about & going for a social is a major part of that. Putting aside what it ultimately might or might not lead to, what is your ideal social? Would love to know what opinions people have

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A coffee in a cafe

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

A massive ice cream sat at the side of a lake or river. With somebody who is really fun and makes me laugh. Oh and in the sunshine also.

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By *ecky2000Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

A few drinks in a quiet pub so you can hear each other talk and lots of good banter then maybe a few shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realistically, coffee somewhere.

But, Ideally, it would be late night drinks at a nice bar where i can have a few rum and s. Rum makes me frisky. The “it’s just a social” could quite easily turn into “fuck me now Roger!” If i find them attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Realistically, coffee somewhere.

But, Ideally, it would be late night drinks at a nice bar where i can have a few rum and s. Rum makes me frisky. The “it’s just a social” could quite easily turn into “fuck me now Roger!” If i find them attractive.

"

Rum and pepsi. Wouldn’t let me say the other cola

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


" A massive ice cream sat at the side of a lake or river. With somebody who is really fun and makes me laugh. Oh and in the sunshine also."

Blimey, a couple of days sunshine and you want more, more, more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Realistically, coffee somewhere.

But, Ideally, it would be late night drinks at a nice bar where i can have a few rum and s. Rum makes me frisky. The “it’s just a social” could quite easily turn into “fuck me now Roger!” If i find them attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A few drinks in a quiet pub so you can hear each other talk and lots of good banter then maybe a few shots "

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Ours would be in a swingers club, so if we click there's option of play straight away and if not there's other people there who we might click with.

Bit of banter over a diet Pepsi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting someone new is a part of what this site is about & going for a social is a major part of that. Putting aside what it ultimately might or might not lead to, what is your ideal social? Would love to know what opinions people have "

Casual coffee or drink in a quiet but nice place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A coffee and a bun or a cheeky wee glass of wine with nibbles in a nice wee quiet coffee shop or bar would be perfect I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee shop or a wine bar, late morning, by a river....

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

In their bed.

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

Anything really just so we could see if we click. I like some sort of connection before any possible fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting someone new is a part of what this site is about & going for a social is a major part of that. Putting aside what it ultimately might or might not lead to, what is your ideal social? Would love to know what opinions people have "
drink in a coffee shop or a nice pub maybe something to nibble on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dingy recesses of a bar. It quickly becomes apparent by the body language that we're into each other, smiles, big lingering eyes, leaning into each other. The conversation takes an ever more flirtatious tone. I sidle up to her as we laugh, touching her on her arm. She puts her hand on my thigh. We stop for a moment, our eyes locked on each other, our breath raising as we realise the attraction that's swelling between us. Then I lean forward towards her lips. I linger for a brief moment and then we kiss. At first a few soft tentative kisses. Then deeper and more desirous. More suggestive of fucking.

Her hand slips up my thigh to feel my hard cock. In return I slip my hand over her thigh. Hidden under the table, away from the gaze of others in the bar, she discreetly parts her legs, giving me the chance to slip my hand further still down deep between her thighs, deep into her warmth.

Not wanting to attract attention, we pull away for a moment, laughing and taking a drink. But we're too far gone now. Our hearts are racing, our lips are burning, our eyes are dark with desire, and our breath is hot and wet in anticipation.

So, soon we are kissing passionately in the gloom of our little corner. Discreetly touching each other in naughty places. My cheeky fingers manages to find their way to her skin. She beams a wide smile at me and tells me I'm a very naughty boy and, at that, my fingers slip down into her knickers and into her gorgeous wetness. Kissing even more passionately than ever, I pull away, pull my fingers out, and then put them in my mouth to taste her for the first time.

She gets super turned on by this and we're soon kissing passionately again, the taste of her swapping between us. She finally breaks away, leans over to my ear and whispers "I want you inside me".

Well you did ask what my ideal would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind a coffee or even pub drinks

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve had many pleasant coffees or drink in pubs.

I haven’t yet met for a walk, but I think that would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A secluded country pub so you have the option of driving to a secluded spot or a walk in the long grass for some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paintballing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would going for a carvery be too much. Ive a hankering for pub grub. Or more civilised a pub by a river, or a teashop run by sweet old ladies with china cups.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Coffee, a drink (which is a pain as I don't drink)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting to have a social so an ideal one would be the one that actually happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" A massive ice cream sat at the side of a lake or river. With somebody who is really fun and makes me laugh. Oh and in the sunshine also."

Sounds perfect!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"The dingy recesses of a bar. It quickly becomes apparent by the body language that we're into each other, smiles, big lingering eyes, leaning into each other. The conversation takes an ever more flirtatious tone. I sidle up to her as we laugh, touching her on her arm. She puts her hand on my thigh. We stop for a moment, our eyes locked on each other, our breath raising as we realise the attraction that's swelling between us. Then I lean forward towards her lips. I linger for a brief moment and then we kiss. At first a few soft tentative kisses. Then deeper and more desirous. More suggestive of fucking.

Her hand slips up my thigh to feel my hard cock. In return I slip my hand over her thigh. Hidden under the table, away from the gaze of others in the bar, she discreetly parts her legs, giving me the chance to slip my hand further still down deep between her thighs, deep into her warmth.

Not wanting to attract attention, we pull away for a moment, laughing and taking a drink. But we're too far gone now. Our hearts are racing, our lips are burning, our eyes are dark with desire, and our breath is hot and wet in anticipation.

So, soon we are kissing passionately in the gloom of our little corner. Discreetly touching each other in naughty places. My cheeky fingers manages to find their way to her skin. She beams a wide smile at me and tells me I'm a very naughty boy and, at that, my fingers slip down into her knickers and into her gorgeous wetness. Kissing even more passionately than ever, I pull away, pull my fingers out, and then put them in my mouth to taste her for the first time.

She gets super turned on by this and we're soon kissing passionately again, the taste of her swapping between us. She finally breaks away, leans over to my ear and whispers "I want you inside me".

Well you did ask what my ideal would be "

Perfect ... that is an ideal social

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Let just go dancing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee in my kitchen then straight to business. No point wasting time.

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West


" A massive ice cream sat at the side of a lake or river. With somebody who is really fun and makes me laugh. Oh and in the sunshine also.

Sounds perfect!"

To me too

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Coffee in my kitchen then straight to business. No point wasting time."

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve just had a meet where we went for a drink, some food and then onto a concert. We built a connection during the meal and drinks and then in the concert, where we stood up, it was quite dark so we were able to explore with our hands, lean in to talk, keep eye contact and kiss...it set the scene for when we got home...

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Nice pub where it's easy to have a chat over a drink

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A coffee or a g&t, depends what time of day it is, somewhere fairly quiet so we could have a good chat.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Dinner for two .. breaking the ice over a glass of vino, back to chez boudoir .. thoroughly enjoyed it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A drink in a bar, chatting getting to know each other, little smiles, flirts so you know your interested in each other, sitting closer, leaning in for a kiss, slowly to start with then getting hotter. So much so you know you have to stop or it will no longer be just a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best and most amazing social I had was met in Leeds station, went for a coffee, got on that well, strolled around Leeds. Ended up in Harvey Niks for lunch, then cocktails round Leeds. Think our Social lasted all day!! We ended up seeing each other for two years

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"A drink in a bar, chatting getting to know each other, little smiles, flirts so you know your interested in each other, sitting closer, leaning in for a kiss, slowly to start with then getting hotter. So much so you know you have to stop or it will no longer be just a social "

Exactly this, with the difference that my socials have been preceded by a good build up with lots of suggestive flirting. Things then develop in such a way that it often becomes much more than just a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paintballing."

I did airsoft on one lol

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

I wouldn't wanna do a pub social first. That's a bit hard in my town, that's all that is basically here haha. A coffee and lunch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice quiet country pub or decent coffee shop so we could relax and talk while at the same time the lady still felt comfortable and safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In their bed."

The perfect place to show your social side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A drink in a bar, chatting getting to know each other, little smiles, flirts so you know your interested in each other, sitting closer, leaning in for a kiss, slowly to start with then getting hotter. So much so you know you have to stop or it will no longer be just a social "

I had one like that in Canary Wharf once. We ended up getting a train to his and spent the night having sex.

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire


"Nice pub where it's easy to have a chat over a drink "

Just this

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By *lim Jim 68Man
over a year ago

Guernsey

A quite corner in a pub, where shouting wasn't requi_ed...on comfy leather chairs.

One real first meet was in a car park, followed by a sea swim! Unusual, but a great social and now we're good friends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A drink in a bar, chatting getting to know each other, little smiles, flirts so you know your interested in each other, sitting closer, leaning in for a kiss, slowly to start with then getting hotter. So much so you know you have to stop or it will no longer be just a social

I had one like that in Canary Wharf once. We ended up getting a train to his and spent the night having sex. "

It took all my will power not to take things further after my most recent social believe me . But I have rules that I keep to on fab - keeps me sane . There is only one person who I've agreed to break my rules with but that's purely due to distance

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If we don't know the couple then a quiet pub somewhere where we can chat and really get to know one another. Hopefully lots of laughter and good conversation.

Our best social todate was with some very very good friends of ours where we went out for the evening a few drinks and a lovely meal in a restaurant. It all help build the anticipation for the rest of the evening.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

perfect social is usually a coffee or a drink simply to see if we get on. that being said I once had a meet and we had a brilliant night out- one of the few occasions a had more d*unk before play. that was pub and then cocktail bar - more of a date than a social.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"perfect social is usually a coffee or a drink simply to see if we get on. that being said I once had a meet and we had a brilliant night out- one of the few occasions a had more d*unk before play. that was pub and then cocktail bar - more of a date than a social."

Always helps when the pub you arranged to meet in hasn't closed down too

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"A drink in a bar, chatting getting to know each other, little smiles, flirts so you know your interested in each other, sitting closer, leaning in for a kiss, slowly to start with then getting hotter. So much so you know you have to stop or it will no longer be just a social

I had one like that in Canary Wharf once. We ended up getting a train to his and spent the night having sex. "

Which is exactly why most people are here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" A massive ice cream sat at the side of a lake or river. With somebody who is really fun and makes me laugh. Oh and in the sunshine also."

Oh yes! Can I come? Please, please??!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ideal social is Hi, would you like a drink? Yes. Kiss. Lets go to bed!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"My ideal social is Hi, would you like a drink? Yes. Kiss. Lets go to bed!"

Cha-ching!

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