FabSwingers.com forum: Girlfriends 1st 3sum

By *ucker4AGusher OP Man
over a year ago

sunshine coast

need some advise to handle this right from a girls point of view. After a long convasation re 3sums, my GF has asked for her first one, she knows she'll enjoy it, but is nervous what it will do to us after the event?? help please

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over a year ago

When you say "what will it do to us" do you mean jealousy? You won't know til afterwards. A few thoughts, don't rush in to it, was it really just the one conversation. If so however long it was you probably need to revisit it. Probably several times. You need to talk about expectations and most of all about rules and boundaries. And you need to stick to them. If you do feel jealous afterwards it will be a whole lot worse of one of you overstepped an agreed mark.

And to throw a light curveball in to things, why a 3sum and not a 4sum? Personally I prefer a 4 sum far less scope for some to feel left out or that the other person is getting all the fun.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Well nerves are understandable but personally we know what we are comfortable and what we arent happy with. If we feel it could cause problems we just dont do it. We know each other very well though and dont believe swinging fun is worth risking heartache over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if youve got doubts now then your both not ready yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you say "what will it do to us" do you mean jealousy? You won't know til afterwards. A few thoughts, don't rush in to it, was it really just the one conversation. If so however long it was you probably need to revisit it. Probably several times. You need to talk about expectations and most of all about rules and boundaries. And you need to stick to them. If you do feel jealous afterwards it will be a whole lot worse of one of you overstepped an agreed mark.

And to throw a light curveball in to things, why a 3sum and not a 4sum? Personally I prefer a 4 sum far less scope for some to feel left out or that the other person is getting all the fun.

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Are you planning on meeting a male or female for your 3sum ?

Makes a difference, I think.

And also, if you doubting how you going to feel after the event maybe you both not ready to meet yet.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"if youve got doubts now then your both not ready yet"
i agree, i knew for sure when i did, it is a big step, better err on the side of caution and read more, or maybe try soft, but be sure xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say a 3some do you mean mff or mmf if so who will be the gelouse one afterwards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a whole suitcase of worries, best talked about rather than bottling it up to erupt later on. If either one of you feels uncomfortable it's easy - abort mission, talk some more, and try again at another time... if the person you plan your threesome with is understanding, they'll help you through the delicate stages in the right way.

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