FabSwingers.com forum: workmates

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Kay has expressed an interest in one of my workmates recently and i'm sure he would be interested too. He doesn't know we are swingers, i'm just wondering what other do in this situation? Let her have him? how has this affected peoples friendships and work lives? I know it will be a purely personal decision in the end and you cant really advise too much, im just wondering about other peoples experiences

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By *razycoupleniCouple
over a year ago

belfast

I wouldn’t risk that to be honest. To close to home and whatnot. What happens if they aren’t up for it, you have a falling out etc etc. To many risks for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too close to home! Don't let her get involved as sooner or later it will go 'tits up', plus the possibility of a relationship developing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

no one thinks this is a good idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no shortage of men for her to choose from on fabs, keep your swinging friends & others separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible idea. Don’t mix work or friends, ever. Maybe friends in certain circles sure, but people you work with?

Its the same as never date somebody you work with, it will just end in tears! C x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"no one thinks this is a good idea?"

Do you?

There's the possibility that it will be a great experience, your work mate will be discreet, won't get attached in any way to your wife and your relationship with him will continue as before.

Then there's the possibility that one or more of the above won't happen.

Your call really as you said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no. Our rule is to keep vanilla and swinging friends separate.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

You've said "let her have him?" He's not yours to give! Plenty of guys on here who'd love to, so why risk drama.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Work should be kept at work

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

How much do you value your friendship and your privacy? It may start off well but if it all goes wrong later you will have to work with him and would he be discreet. Personally vanilla friends, work and family do not mix with our swinging activities.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"How much do you value your friendship and your privacy? It may start off well but if it all goes wrong later you will have to work with him and would he be discreet. Personally vanilla friends, work and family do not mix with our swinging activities. "

I was wondering the same - you two may be discreet but would he?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It should be kept as a fantasy I think.

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

we have actually converted a couple of friends into this amazing world.... so it dose work. You just have to be careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make friends from your swinging, don't make swingers from your friends.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The work colleague might not be able to handle the emotional maturity needed to allow NSA to happen and might get clingy, and then freak out and make a complaint for some jealously inspired reason.

I’d not mix work and play.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Don't s**t on your own doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooo work and play mixed is a band combination

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"no one thinks this is a good idea?"

How would you honestly feel if he blabbed about it at work and all your colleagues knew about your swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"let her have him" is he a bone or a donut?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

""let her have him" is he a bone or a donut?

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By *ndulge101Couple
over a year ago

Village life in West Yorks

Know of two cpls do this ended in one of the guys taking the others wife house and family

Thing is the guy still works for the company and now works direct underneath him and sees him every day

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

"Kay has expressed an interest in one of my workmates recently and i'm sure he would be interested too. He doesn't know we are swingers, i'm just wondering what other do in this situation? Let her have him? how has this affected peoples friendships and work lives? I know it will be a purely personal decision in the end and you cant really advise too much, im just wondering about other peoples experiences"

Absolutely would not risk it. No friends or anyone too local, it can cause immense issues.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

prsonally would not take the risk, too close to home but if it works for you go for it

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