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Too Many Veris?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been told I have too many verifications on my profile. Not all are meets some are socials and friends when we meet at the Playgrounds Event Swingles once a month

So question being do to many veris put you off?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Some it will some it won't - for me it's not so much the quantity of veris I look at but the detail within them.

If they show the person is meeting someone different for sex several times a week it wouldn't be a match for what I'm looking for - similarly overly graphic veris that detail exactly what happened on the meet are not for me either.

So they're a good guideline in addition to the profile blurb etc but the number doesn't necessarily matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t please everyone......

Just enjoy your swinging adventure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some it will some it won't - for me it's not so much the quantity of veris I look at but the detail within them.

If they show the person is meeting someone different for sex several times a week it wouldn't be a match for what I'm looking for - similarly overly graphic veris that detail exactly what happened on the meet are not for me either.

So they're a good guideline in addition to the profile blurb etc but the number doesn't necessarily matter."

Well said

That's why I display , some read them and are entertained by them , always think there a good representation of one self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a lot of verifications because we have had a lot of sex partners. Well we are swingers - what do people expect? If people are put off by the fact that we are promiscuous then they are obviously looking for something different from what we’re looking for, which is fine. But I would wonder what they are doing on a swingers site if they disapprove of promiscuity.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a lot of verifications because we have had a lot of sex partners. Well we are swingers - what do people expect? If people are put off by the fact that we are promiscuous then they are obviously looking for something different from what we’re looking for, which is fine. But I would wonder what they are doing on a swingers site if they disapprove of promiscuity.

Mrs"

I don't think they know what they are doing on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv got quite a few only bn told a handful of times that bn put off I think if people give them I'm going to show them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a lot of verifications because we have had a lot of sex partners. Well we are swingers - what do people expect? If people are put off by the fact that we are promiscuous then they are obviously looking for something different from what we’re looking for, which is fine. But I would wonder what they are doing on a swingers site if they disapprove of promiscuity.

Mrs"

People want different things. Sone people seek multiple meets with different people, others want repeat meets with far fewer people. Being the latter is still swinging and doesn't mean you disprove of promiscuity

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By *aitinkCouple
over a year ago

York

I am always astonished by folks who take the material on here too seriously. It's the internet, anybody and their aunt is posting so creating rules like too many/too few veris/friends cocks/cunts seems a bit too controlling. Enjoy being on here, proceed cautiously and above all, have lots of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same problem, to be honest I prefer someone with a lot of veri since it shows that, that person doesn’t let you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a lot of verifications because we have had a lot of sex partners. Well we are swingers - what do people expect? If people are put off by the fact that we are promiscuous then they are obviously looking for something different from what we’re looking for, which is fine. But I would wonder what they are doing on a swingers site if they disapprove of promiscuity.

Mrs

People want different things. Sone people seek multiple meets with different people, others want repeat meets with far fewer people. Being the latter is still swinging and doesn't mean you disprove of promiscuity "

I would probably say our level of promiscuity is in the ‘repeat meets with far fewer people’ camp, but over the years the numbers add up, and we do enjoy the odd club night where lots happens. But if someone felt that we’ve fucked too many people over the years for us to be considered suitable candidates to be one of their regular few meets, I would guess that either they disapproved of our sexual history or felt uncomfortable with our sexual history.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told I have too many verifications on my profile. Not all are meets some are socials and friends when we meet at the Playgrounds Event Swingles once a month

So question being do to many veris put you off? "

I don't know about too many veries but you look really cool XXX

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I have a fair amount of veris that are a mixture of just social or play. I haven't posted all as some of them don't really say anything.

I personally don't judge people on the amount of veris they have but when someone interests me I will see who verified them as that can give me some hint as to what kind of people they gravitate to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told this recently, despite several being from the same two women who left and rejoined several times. Meh, what you gonna do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some it will some it won't - for me it's not so much the quantity of veris I look at but the detail within them.

If they show the person is meeting someone different for sex several times a week it wouldn't be a match for what I'm looking for - similarly overly graphic veris that detail exactly what happened on the meet are not for me either.

So they're a good guideline in addition to the profile blurb etc but the number doesn't necessarily matter."

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