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Ask a girl to verify by phone and they vanish?!

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By *ouTease OP   Woman
over a year ago

Tilbury

Am I the only one who gets this? I’m a bi girl seeking a bi girl, from previous experience and finding I’ve been chatting to a guy or the male part of a couple pretending to be the female, I like to confirm early on during message exchanges that I am talking to a girl... but as soon as I ask to they go silent ??

This must happen with 9 out of 10 ‘girls’ that I talk to. Shyness or non-genuine profiles?

Surely there aren’t that many fake profiles on here? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most likely a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be a bloke smashing his pud while reading about what you would be doing with each other

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I’m genuine and never phone verify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, I talk on the phone for a living and it’s too much like hard work to have to do it in my free time too

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Totally get why you ask for this however it's not something XX is prepared to do.

Sometimes females are actually females but likelihood most 'female' profiles aren't so keep using the site how you feel comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm well aware of fake profiles so I make the effort to prove I'm real. If they won't make the effort to suggest some other way of making you feel at ease then don't feel bad- it's their issue not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm well aware of fake profiles so I make the effort to prove I'm real. If they won't make the effort to suggest some other way of making you feel at ease then don't feel bad- it's their issue not yours. "

Same here. I'm quite happy to prove who I am by phone or whatever means the other person is comfortable with.

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By *ouTease OP   Woman
over a year ago

Tilbury

Interesting mix of replies. Don’t get me wrong, I’m as nervous as hell making or receiving that first call but once the ice is broken it’s so much easier.

I just don’t want to waste a week messaging and looking forward to a potential meet and then radio silence... but also appreciate everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I absolutely hate talking on the phone and never have for any meet ,so I can sort of understand why some don't .

Go with your instincts and you wont go far wrong.

Miss

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP if you are just looking for girl on girl play you might be more successful attracting the genuine ladies from a single female profile rather than from a couples profile.

Most single ladies on here tend to search for other single ladies if they only want girl play and will only look at couples profiles if they actually want to meet and play with a couple.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Interesting. While I can understand people not liking talking in the phone to verify I also find it strange that they wouldn't given that there are so many fakes and people don't want to waste their time emailing with a sad wanker pretending to be a girl!

It would be lovely if we could just trust everyone is genuine but those sad dickheads spoil it for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is a girl she may not feel comfortable giving her number out early on in a conversation.

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

Happy to verify by cam but I never give out my number! I did once and ended up having to go to the police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

arrange face to face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate talking on the phone, but I'm not fake.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Understand not wanting to give out number but you then end up in a catch 22.

However, if one party is willing then the other can withhold number. People just want to hear a girls voice!

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

So.. 9/10 people that refuse to talk on the phone are fake.

Seems like a pretty good discriminator to me. Carry on doing what you’re doing OP, you’re looking for girls, why would you want to speak to a load of sad old fake blokes anyway!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Understand not wanting to give out number but you then end up in a catch 22.

However, if one party is willing then the other can withhold number. People just want to hear a girls voice!"

I agree, I'm not looking for a long conversation, I just want to confirm that the lady does actually exist. Most 'couples' disappear when I ask for this!

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