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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby

Is being a short guy a huge turn off to women and coupled.

Genuine question because obviously I'm only short and granted I'm no Adonis or ought infact pretty average of say well apart from my height that is lol.

But is it one of the main reasons you are put off from a profile at all.

Is there many women or couples who like or don't mind a single guy being short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always check the height so it's important to me

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

My wife is 4 or 5 inches taller than me. Much more if she is wearing heels.

It is a problem in the real world as much as it is in the fab world.

Having said that other positives can overcome that one negative.

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"I always check the height so it's important to me "

Lol understandable

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

It's only important to people it matters to.

Like cock size, cock shape, facial hair, body size, shape colour

I'm 6ft 2 and athletic build I'm not going to appeal to everyone, but I appeal to some. That's all that matters

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

It's only important to people it matters to.

Like cock size, cock shape, facial hair, body size, shape colour

I'm 6ft 2 and athletic build I'm not going to appeal to everyone, but I appeal to some. That's all that matters

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Height is a big issue and one of our main requirenents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 6,6 never been a issue for me as things are in proportion lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me my "thing" is tall guys but that's because I'm of a fuller figure and tall guys have longer arms

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"For me my "thing" is tall guys but that's because I'm of a fuller figure and tall guys have longer arms "

I get that but like me alot of short guys have stronger arms lol

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By *oobs1Woman
over a year ago

Sussex

As long as someone is not shorter than me, it’s all good to go

I’ve had play partners the same height at 5ft 6 and other up too 6ft. Both has its advantages x

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’m 6ft 3 but at the end of the day we are all the same size lying down hunni ...

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

I’ll be honest yes, never realised at first but we now have a rule that only 6ft or taller for single

Guys

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"I’m 6ft 3 but at the end of the day we are all the same size lying down hunni ... "

Haha that's what I say lol

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By *ekyllnHideCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it is an issue for many women

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

u are same height as me

no problem for me had lots of meets

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Is it and 'issue'

Or a preference?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm taller than Dick in my heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never check the height but I'm 5ft1 so most people are taller than me anyway.

I know it bothers some of my taller friends.

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By *ucy83SOWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I prefer guys to be as tall or taller then me, it’s just a preference thing.

However I’m surprised how many guys on here that are 6ft + on their profile but in reality when I meet them are shorter then me....it’s really not worth lieing about something as fundamental as height!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I do like a man who’s taller but it’s not set in stone. There are other things that more than compensate!

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"I prefer guys to be as tall or taller then me, it’s just a preference thing.

However I’m surprised how many guys on here that are 6ft + on their profile but in reality when I meet them are shorter then me....it’s really not worth lieing about something as fundamental as height!"

Wow why would anyone lie about their height lmfao

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I prefer guys to tower over me so I feel all girly

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Is being a short guy a huge turn off to women and coupled.

Genuine question because obviously I'm only short and granted I'm no Adonis or ought infact pretty average of say well apart from my height that is lol.

But is it one of the main reasons you are put off from a profile at all.

Is there many women or couples who like or don't mind a single guy being short."

We don’t mind at all .

Only last night S had some awesome fun with a guy who was only 5 foot 4 , so it’s no issue for us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most guys prefer to be taller than my knees upwards unless they like a clit round the ears?

Sorry I'm d*unk lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s important to me. I’m quite tall so usually prefer men 6ft plus

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Not to tall but, taller than me

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Anyway OP it doesn't appear to matter to people who have met you

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Yes. If it starts with a 6 it’s a no from me

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"Anyway OP it doesn't appear to matter to people who have met you "

All my meets recently not been from here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short guys just don’t do it for me sorry to say , just my preference

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By *ubenesque.Woman
over a year ago

over by there


"I prefer guys to be as tall or taller then me, it’s just a preference thing.

However I’m surprised how many guys on here that are 6ft + on their profile but in reality when I meet them are shorter then me....it’s really not worth lieing about something as fundamental as height!"

This! Do they think you won't notice you are taller than them!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a 6 footer i would prefer a man who was taller than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d pick a shorter woman every time. But that’s just my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer taller men, that's just how it is, have never been attracted to short men even though I'm only 5'1 myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that women won't meet a shorter than them guy and some shorter woman only have eyes for taller than me guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. If it starts with a 6 it’s a no from me"

I’d say you’re very much in the minority on that one GNG!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes , though have met ladies 5'10+ At the end of the day we are the same laying down

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Is being a short guy a huge turn off to women and coupled.

Genuine question because obviously I'm only short and granted I'm no Adonis or ought infact pretty average of say well apart from my height that is lol.

But is it one of the main reasons you are put off from a profile at all.

Is there many women or couples who like or don't mind a single guy being short."

Doesn’t seem to have put people off meeting you!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I always used to say height was an issue.

I'm just over 6' & never found men shorter than me attractive.

But since joining here, I'll admit I've changed my opinion slightly.

I've met several guys that are shorter than me, but I'd say it was their personality that attracted me, after that their height didn't seem to matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is an issue OP are you thinking of a growth spurt?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I just love tall men. Not sure why but i do.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Sorry OP

Short guys do nothing for us and small mans syndrome is a terrible affliction

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Yes I always look at height as in the real world Im attracted to taller men

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Im 5'3" everyones tall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer guys to tower over me so I feel all girly "

Can I wear heels?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Psychologically I really need a man to be a fair bit taller than me. And as I wear heels for swinging, that adds another 3 or 4 inches to the requirement. So in do check. I wish I were a bit shorter because then I’d have more choice of men. On the other hand if I were shorter, the really tall men would be out range.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love talk guys but I’ve also played with plenty of guys shorter than me.

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

In regards to meets from here then absolutely not it doesn't/shouldn't matter at all, it's a sex site. In my dating life then yes it matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you got to have the height size and be very attractive to be luck on this site

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"In regards to meets from here then absolutely not it doesn't/shouldn't matter at all, it's a sex site. In my dating life then yes it matters."

That’s where you are wrong

Tinder etc then yes

Fabs then if it’s swingers it’s not just a sex site.

Those who are, know the difference.

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"For me my "thing" is tall guys but that's because I'm of a fuller figure and tall guys have longer arms "

Ace il remember that way of putting it!! I feel even bigger with a short guy. Maybe daft but i do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you got to have the height size and be very attractive to be luck on this site "

I don't have height or good looks , think it maybe luck I have no idea how this site works lol

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Is being a short guy a huge turn off to women and coupled.

Genuine question because obviously I'm only short and granted I'm no Adonis or ought infact pretty average of say well apart from my height that is lol.

But is it one of the main reasons you are put off from a profile at all.

Is there many women or couples who like or don't mind a single guy being short."

My mate at uni was short but he was a prolific fanny rat. The women loved him.

If you got the gift it don't matter how tall or short you are. A sparkle in the eye and a real character adds 6 inches to any man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not been with a taller woman before, I'd probably be a bit scared tbh

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

I'm attracted to big tall gentlemen, but personality, along with a sizable endowment, goes a very long way lol.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Im tall enough for standy upsy sex

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It matters to some....I like smaller guys, 5'4" and above is all ok with me.

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By *x3anteexxCouple
over a year ago

NW Cheshire

We had a fabulous MMF with a shorter single guy last week, we were all the same height once we were all lying down... Didn't even cross our minds in the heart of the action. xx

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Being over 6' in my heels, 5'11" without, I need a guy to be 6' or over x

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

I’m a shorter chap and I’ve met some lovely ladies that tower over me I still insist they wear heels and never make allowances for me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you got to have the height size and be very attractive to be luck on this site

I don't have height or good looks , think it maybe luck I have no idea how this site works lol "

i've been here 3 year no luck but that life since moving back in all honest my oversea swinger knew how to have fun in life because life is too short so enjoying it while we all can with no regrets

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Been only 5’ don’t like my men too tall but guess when lying down not too important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh anything over 50ft gives me vertigo

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"In regards to meets from here then absolutely not it doesn't/shouldn't matter at all, it's a sex site. In my dating life then yes it matters."

I think that's a fair and reasonable approach. I have played with several taller women over the years. Had it been in a dating context it may have been an issue and that's fine by me.

When it comes to romance I don't feel a need or desire to be taller than the woman I am with.....just as well really lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lots of messages from shorter guys, not that many from taller guys.

I’ve never dated a guy that has been near my height. 5ft 11 is the tallest guy i’ve dated.

I tend to be more concerned with if they’re a decent bloke rather than if i can look them in the eye when talking.

There is someone out there for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it is, sometimes it isn't.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Have to say it is a problem for me

At least you are honest tho OP as on here I have met many a guy that’s 5’11 that really is 5’8

I have never understood the point of that ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I am 5'11" I don't often meet men shorter than 5'10"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height is not a deal breaker in whether I meet someone. If I enjoy speaking to them and fancy them, their height isn't really a factor for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm five foot, so I'm always the shorter one, I'd never meet anyone smaller, the role of little spoon is always mine

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

Huge issue for me

I don’t want to feel like I’m about to fuck a teenager.

I wish I was shorter, that’s for sure

I love a really tall guy who makes me feel short

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I've never been with a woman who's taller than me. Until I get knee'd in the bollocks and double over, then they're always taller than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I don’t want to feel like I’m about to fuck a teenager.

"

I wish people could think a bit before talking, or in that case before writing.

How humiliating is that comment.

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire


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I don’t want to feel like I’m about to fuck a teenager.

I wish people could think a bit before talking, or in that case before writing.

How humiliating is that comment.

And there was me thinking we were all entitled to our opinion.

That’s how it would make me feel and if you don’t like it ......

"

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"

I don’t want to feel like I’m about to fuck a teenager.

I wish people could think a bit before talking, or in that case before writing.

How humiliating is that comment.

And there was me thinking we were all entitled to our opinion.

That’s how it would make me feel and if you don’t like it ......

"

Many women are turned off by shorter guys, just like the majority of men are turned off by BBWs. Doesn't mean you have to be rude about it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height isn't an issue for me and isn't one of my "attractive to me" criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a thing for me but then I’m 6’1! Whenever I look at profiles, height is the first thing I look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to feel protected, fragile or small. I am me, gloriously tall, round, and smiles all the way! And so I don't need you to somehow alter that perception in order to find you attractive.

If you're intimidated by my height... well, how sad. I'm gentle, thoughtful and kind.

You do, however, need a big personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who care so much about height are mostly the type of people that I wouldn't want to meet anyway, even if I wasn't short

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"People who care so much about height are mostly the type of people that I wouldn't want to meet anyway, even if I wasn't short "

At the end of the day, there are deep rooted reasons for this preference in evolutionary psychology, so it's not something to take offence over. Female preference is also less fixed than male preference, so there are plenty of women who won't be bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter as long as you don't have a really quiet, shy personality to go with it.

I don't want to feel like I'm overbearing when I meet someone and if I'm towering over someone and they're meek to go with it, then it just wouldn't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who care so much about height are mostly the type of people that I wouldn't want to meet anyway, even if I wasn't short

At the end of the day, there are deep rooted reasons for this preference in evolutionary psychology, so it's not something to take offence over. Female preference is also less fixed than male preference, so there are plenty of women who won't be bothered."

Oh I know, don't worry I don't take offence to it. I used to when I was younger but I've accepted that everyone has preferences and so I don't don't worry about them.

What I meant by my first post was that if I saw on a profile that I had to be a certain height or look a certain way or do something etc, then it feels like I'm just ticking boxes and that I have to earn the ability to speak to them which doesn't feel right to me, so if I see a profile with a list of requirements, even if I fit the bill, I won't message them

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"People who care so much about height are mostly the type of people that I wouldn't want to meet anyway, even if I wasn't short

At the end of the day, there are deep rooted reasons for this preference in evolutionary psychology, so it's not something to take offence over. Female preference is also less fixed than male preference, so there are plenty of women who won't be bothered.

Oh I know, don't worry I don't take offence to it. I used to when I was younger but I've accepted that everyone has preferences and so I don't don't worry about them.

What I meant by my first post was that if I saw on a profile that I had to be a certain height or look a certain way or do something etc, then it feels like I'm just ticking boxes and that I have to earn the ability to speak to them which doesn't feel right to me, so if I see a profile with a list of requirements, even if I fit the bill, I won't message them "

But you wouldn't meet any type of woman!? I don't think it's an especially rational preference in today's world, but i understand the natural origins of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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But you wouldn't meet any type of woman!? I don't think it's an especially rational preference in today's world, but i understand the natural origins of it. "

No I have preferences like everyone does, I'm just saying that when a profile lists them like "you must be..." I feel it makes the owner of that profile seem a bit high maintenance and only interested in certain characteristics which I think would ruin the fun.

But back to the height issue, I completely understand why it's a thing and why it's so attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It is important to me. I'm tall and broad and it takes a tall man (5'10 + but ideally over 6) to make me feel sexy. And i just find tall men really sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height is important to me because I'm pretty tall for a woman (5ft9) and I'm also large (size 20) and so I prefer a taller, bigger man because it makes me feel more feminine if that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Height is important to me because I'm pretty tall for a woman (5ft9) and I'm also large (size 20) and so I prefer a taller, bigger man because it makes me feel more feminine if that makes sense?"

Exactly this!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Height is the first thing I look at so yes.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I’m 6ft 3 but at the end of the day we are all the same size lying down hunni ... "

That's a ridiculous and untrue statement along with age is just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 6ft 3 but at the end of the day we are all the same size lying down hunni ...

That's a ridiculous and untrue statement along with age is just a number. "

I hate that saying . I have had sex with shorter men and you can notice the difference

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I’m 6ft 3 but at the end of the day we are all the same size lying down hunni ...

That's a ridiculous and untrue statement along with age is just a number.

I hate that saying . I have had sex with shorter men and you can notice the difference "

How so? I've not found any difference personally.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Height is important to me because I'm pretty tall for a woman (5ft9) and I'm also large (size 20) and so I prefer a taller, bigger man because it makes me feel more feminine if that makes sense?"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me my "thing" is tall guys but that's because I'm of a fuller figure and tall guys have longer arms "

I also love a tall guy....I'm a full figure girl so like a guy who feels big and strong....I'm worried I'd be too big for a short skinny guy and might crush him with my big butt lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I’m 6ft 3 but at the end of the day we are all the same size lying down hunni ...

That's a ridiculous and untrue statement along with age is just a number.

I hate that saying . I have had sex with shorter men and you can notice the difference

How so? I've not found any difference personally. "

I'm quite fat: short and fat men don't work for me they either get lost or can't reach my nooks and crannies.

#keepingitreal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 6ft 3 but at the end of the day we are all the same size lying down hunni ...

That's a ridiculous and untrue statement along with age is just a number.

I hate that saying . I have had sex with shorter men and you can notice the difference

How so? I've not found any difference personally.

I'm quite fat: short and fat men don't work for me they either get lost or can't reach my nooks and crannies.

#keepingitreal"

I like a man towering above me and it just doesn't work if they are shorter than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am only short but i do like a tall man hence Jay is 6ft 4. Tallest guy ive met was 6ft 7 and size 18 shoe. No didnt have a cock to match. But i have met shorter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m normal height but extra curvy and thus I prefer my men to be taller and well built (not muscled up more the rugby type), mainly so I look a little smaller than I am next to them!(;

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

One thing I've discovered is my height bothers other people more than it bothers me!

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Is height an issue?

It is when you fall off a ladder.

Mr NotSoNewWalesCouple

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By *jl1972Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"People who care so much about height are mostly the type of people that I wouldn't want to meet anyway, even if I wasn't short "

Well said.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Never fails to amaze me how some people get arsey if they're excluded by preferences whilst having their own.

I'm going to rail against anyone with their upper age limit set at 50...I won't as people are allowed - without challenge to pick their sexual partners as they see fit!

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

For me it is. I typically won't meet anyone under 6ft and I def won't meet anyone shorter than me.

Everyone is different tho

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I’m 6ft 3 but at the end of the day we are all the same size lying down hunni ...

That's a ridiculous and untrue statement along with age is just a number.

I hate that saying . I have had sex with shorter men and you can notice the difference "

I too have noticed a difference when the male is around my height. It just doesn't really work.

That and the laws of physics must apply ergo you are the same height standing up or lying down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^

I agree with this. I wear heels, and am not "slight". 5' 10" is my lower limit, but men often lie.

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby

I completely understand the issue with height and if say because of it I would hazard a guess and say around 70% of women on here would not entertain me because of it.

But fortunately that is not the case when I go to clubs because they clearly take not notice of that and more about my actual personality and most women I've played with at clubs have been taller than me which is not hard lol.

And seen their profiles on here afterwards and most say must be taller than them lol.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I completely understand the issue with height and if say because of it I would hazard a guess and say around 70% of women on here would not entertain me because of it.

But fortunately that is not the case when I go to clubs because they clearly take not notice of that and more about my actual personality and most women I've played with at clubs have been taller than me which is not hard lol.

And seen their profiles on here afterwards and most say must be taller than them lol.

"

Whilst that is your experience I wouldn't play with someone shorter than me.

It's no different to people liking or disliking bbw and no one is up in arms about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a guy to be taller than me. Makes me feel all protected and feeble female

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"I completely understand the issue with height and if say because of it I would hazard a guess and say around 70% of women on here would not entertain me because of it.

But fortunately that is not the case when I go to clubs because they clearly take not notice of that and more about my actual personality and most women I've played with at clubs have been taller than me which is not hard lol.

And seen their profiles on here afterwards and most say must be taller than them lol.

Whilst that is your experience I wouldn't play with someone shorter than me.

It's no different to people liking or disliking bbw and no one is up in arms about that. "

I'm to short to get up in arms about anything. And I've slept with a fare few bbw in my time I'm more about personality not a judgemental person in any shape of form in all honesty

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I completely understand the issue with height and if say because of it I would hazard a guess and say around 70% of women on here would not entertain me because of it.

But fortunately that is not the case when I go to clubs because they clearly take not notice of that and more about my actual personality and most women I've played with at clubs have been taller than me which is not hard lol.

And seen their profiles on here afterwards and most say must be taller than them lol.

Whilst that is your experience I wouldn't play with someone shorter than me.

It's no different to people liking or disliking bbw and no one is up in arms about that.

I'm to short to get up in arms about anything. And I've slept with a fare few bbw in my time I'm more about personality not a judgemental person in any shape of form in all honesty "

It seems as though you're angling for an argument with anyone who differs from your perspective .

Yes personality is pivotal however they could be the nicest person in the world but if shorter than me "friend zone"

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"I completely understand the issue with height and if say because of it I would hazard a guess and say around 70% of women on here would not entertain me because of it.

But fortunately that is not the case when I go to clubs because they clearly take not notice of that and more about my actual personality and most women I've played with at clubs have been taller than me which is not hard lol.

And seen their profiles on here afterwards and most say must be taller than them lol.

Whilst that is your experience I wouldn't play with someone shorter than me.

It's no different to people liking or disliking bbw and no one is up in arms about that.

I'm to short to get up in arms about anything. And I've slept with a fare few bbw in my time I'm more about personality not a judgemental person in any shape of form in all honesty

It seems as though you're angling for an argument with anyone who differs from your perspective .

Yes personality is pivotal however they could be the nicest person in the world but if shorter than me "friend zone" "

Lol no not at all in the least argumentative person in world. Not got time in my life for all that.

I just say it how I see it and if someone don't like that or my opinion so be it makes no difference in my life or theirs.

We all have our own preference and nothing wrong in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to like women under 5’4”. I’ve been with 5’0” to 5’7”.

But I have no problem with women who are of different sizes and builds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always used to say height was an issue.

I'm just over 6' & never found men shorter than me attractive.

But since joining here, I'll admit I've changed my opinion slightly.

I've met several guys that are shorter than me, but I'd say it was their personality that attracted me, after that their height didn't seem to matter "

Spot on ma’m...I get the height issue but it’s just part of a package. Depending on what you are looking for in the experience, height is just a factor albeit a very important one for most ladies. Again everyone is entitled to their preference same as, if a guy prefers slimmer vs curvy or faboulous. I for one have preferences but most importantly is that can I have a good banter or conversation before the meet/play otherwise it’s mindless fuckery with no passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I completely understand the issue with height and if say because of it I would hazard a guess and say around 70% of women on here would not entertain me because of it.

But fortunately that is not the case when I go to clubs because they clearly take not notice of that and more about my actual personality and most women I've played with at clubs have been taller than me which is not hard lol.

And seen their profiles on here afterwards and most say must be taller than them lol.

Whilst that is your experience I wouldn't play with someone shorter than me.

It's no different to people liking or disliking bbw and no one is up in arms about that.

I'm to short to get up in arms about anything. And I've slept with a fare few bbw in my time I'm more about personality not a judgemental person in any shape of form in all honesty

It seems as though you're angling for an argument with anyone who differs from your perspective .

Yes personality is pivotal however they could be the nicest person in the world but if shorter than me "friend zone" "

Love the “friend zone” been there done that and have loads of t-shirt to boot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a shorter chap and I’ve met some lovely ladies that tower over me I still insist they wear heels and never make allowances for me either "

From what I hear from the ladies about you Luther, you rock. Will definitely be taking note on the 18th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make up for my height else where

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