FabSwingers.com forum: Relationship

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

So confusing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a numbers game I've meet a few people on her some I'd entertain having a relationship with some not...

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

I have seen profiles on here from women seeking relationships- no idea if they succeeded or not.

To be honest. Try any conventional dating site and state what it is you want. Loads of guys on here use PoF to find sex dates so why not?

I've used Adult friend finder but it's expensive and hit and miss just like this site

Honesty is always the best policy so make it clear what you are looking for and be prepared for guys telling you what you want to hear to get into your pants

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look on here. There's a lot of people that have met on the forums and are now proper couples. One couple recently got married.

Just be aware that some people will say they want a relationship just to get a meet. But that's probably the same on all sites.

There's often threads in the forum for people looking to date. Or maybe try social events.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I’ve seen quite a few men saying they’re looking for a swinging relationship. Not sure if they mean it or not but certainly in their profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the same I can’t do the vanilla relationship they just don’t seem to last. I never thought I would enjoy being on this site as much as I do. I would like a relationship buts it finding a relationship that works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're far from alone in this. I'd love to find someone to explore this world together with, but I seemed to be doomed singledom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman was to write to me on here and ask me if I'd be up for going on a date I'd definitely consider it... and I wouldn't approach the date as some kind of lead up to a sexual encounter as socials usually are. I would date her in a vanilla way. But I might be unusual in that way

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I'd love to find a relationship on here. No bullshit to wade through, all out in the open. Tried a few times but it's always the same nonsense.

Given up looking now, too much of a headache. Just gonna have fun and keep an open mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

So confusing... "

Find somebody on here and become a couple.. happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it was just as hard to find the right person on here, as it is on any of the dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to find a relationship on here. No bullshit to wade through, all out in the open. Tried a few times but it's always the same nonsense.

Given up looking now, too much of a headache. Just gonna have fun and keep an open mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m the same I can’t do the vanilla relationship they just don’t seem to last. I never thought I would enjoy being on this site as much as I do. I would like a relationship buts it finding a relationship that works"

I have recently come to the same realisation myself recently. Had trouble finding someone with the same ideals

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you i will give it a go on here xx

Wish me luck xx

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

So confusing... "

Quite a few couples have met on here,

I met the mrs when she needed a lift to a party in Blackpool, and we have been together ever since and got married 2yrs ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I continue to dream of that kinky, gentleman Dom who has the hots for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s certainly a tricky one! Having spoke to a few people who thought this way, it boiled down to some having to give it all up to find love, or some finding love actually in places like this, clubs etc

But it is possible! Best of luck to you! C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

So confusing...

Quite a few couples have met on here,

I met the mrs when she needed a lift to a party in Blackpool, and we have been together ever since and got married 2yrs ago.

Aww I think you were one of the first couples that I knew to get together on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be my ideal as well: a relationship with sexual experimentation/ play with others.

I think clear communication and asking for what one wants will hopefully help bring such a person into your life. Ask for 100% of what you want and hopefully negotiate a win-win for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put a thread up here a few months ago about the same thing.

I’m also on POF but it’s tricky. You can’t exactly say “Hi I’m stuart 45 and I am looking for a partner for long term oh by the way, I want to watch her fucking other men....”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say it was just as hard to find the right person on here, as it is on any of the dating sites "

Yup

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

"So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

So confusing... "

We actually got put on a blind date from another couple we both knew from this world and two years later are now married. Advice is to enjoy life and you will be surprised what or who tips up

Mrmrscumalot

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

"So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

So confusing... "

I'd love to find the right person I wanted to be with in life, then when things are right and trust is there build into a swinging relationship, although I do think diving right in and meeting others straight away might not be the best idea.

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

"I put a thread up here a few months ago about the same thing.

I’m also on POF but it’s tricky. You can’t exactly say “Hi I’m stuart 45 and I am looking for a partner for long term oh by the way, I want to watch her fucking other men....”"

Well you don't have to be so blunt about it but why can't you? Everyone else on there goes into such great detail as to what they want why can't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in exactly the same position. I’m on Pof as well as here and frankly there are nicer guys on here than Pof! I’ve yet to meet anyone on here on this profile but I did date someone for a while from here. I just think why not? It’s on my profile, if guys aren’t interested they can pass me by and if they are we can chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

Hmmm

I think honesty like this is commendable and I think it will probably open the door for you on its own!

Sure you will have lots of offers, just try and out the idiots just like on pof xxx

So confusing... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same, would love to find a lady that was as kinky as me and build something special

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

You’ll find that spark with someone when you least expect it. I’m going to a wedding in October for a couple who met through swinging. It can happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had no luck on other sites, came on here wanting NSA fun and lots of it, and a year ago one of my meets became my other half and it's great, especially knowing that if we wanna play we can, together.

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

I came off here 1 year ago as i met some one through fabs. It was vanilla at first then went very physical. We attended clubs mostly but as everything things just phased out so now on look out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came off here 1 year ago as i met some one through fabs. It was vanilla at first then went very physical. We attended clubs mostly but as everything things just phased out so now on look out. "

Move closer hahha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

So confusing... "

if you get along with someone on here try a non sex meet, date type, you never know....

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Met my mr on here as a meet 5 years ago, we became FWBs went to clubs and parties together etc till he one day basically said do you want as we’re pretty much a couple anyway and we’ve been “official” for about 4months now, we play together and separately and it works for us

I wasn’t looking for it specifically but it’s transpired naturally over time

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We met on pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on tinder ...

It’s not easy. Or comfortable. But you have to be open from the start. We sensed a connection from how a gif conversation escalated.

But really, it’s a conversation you need very early doors. Maybe a warm up is to ask how important sexual comparability is in a relationship... and then ask what they need for comparability ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would date a man or woman on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for that special someone. I may find it here I may not. It'll happen when it happens

But I am absolutely done with the dating sites. They can be soul destroying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone on here nearly three years ago.

Started just as casual meets but became more. He wanted more than just fuck buddies so we became very close friends.

Last week he told me he couldn't handle that kind of friendship.

He got quite nasty about it and it's hurt like hell.

I'll be very careful indeed in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m also looking for the same, I like Vanilla but need more so I’d love to meet someone from here who was looking for a relationship but with the added ‘swing’ aspect or at least exploring together. After being on POF in the past, I would say the chances are better on here as people seem to be more open and honest about what they want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the lookout for a relationship and I'm on POF too but this is site is better..there's just nobody near me who wants the same

But I still meet and enjoy and just hope something comes of it one day!

My profile makes it clear that I'm happy to meet but an ultimately looking for something more..this way I find men more honest and don't tell me what I want to hear for the sake of it!

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I would say be upfront and honest about what you want from a relationship.. If they are not into it I am sure they will tell you, or maybe you bring a side out they never knew they had if the connections there.... And I think that is from any dating site. Best to be honest instead of wasting your time pretending to be something other than yourself.. Good luck..

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead

"I met someone on here nearly three years ago.

Started just as casual meets but became more. He wanted more than just fuck buddies so we became very close friends.

Last week he told me he couldn't handle that kind of friendship.

He got quite nasty about it and it's hurt like hell.

I'll be very careful indeed in the future "

Aww that's not nice for you. Hope you get through this ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

So confusing... "

Shame you are not closer as this is just what I am looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone on here nearly three years ago.

Started just as casual meets but became more. He wanted more than just fuck buddies so we became very close friends.

Last week he told me he couldn't handle that kind of friendship.

He got quite nasty about it and it's hurt like hell.

I'll be very careful indeed in the future

Aww that's not nice for you. Hope you get through this ok x

Thank you. I'll bounce back but might just take a little while. He really messed with me so I just need to get my head straight x

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

I've met quite a few women on POF recently and when I meet in person I tell them what I'm into as believe in honesty with them. And I'm surprised how many are intrigued by the swinging scene once explained what it is n is not lol. Still to find that one perfect woman though to enjoy life and swinging as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few men who have gone off me once I've mentioned what I like sexually or tried to introduce it , got fed up of the " your a bit too much for me " line .

Oh to find a like minded partner .....

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We both met on here 8 months ago and now just about to move into a new house we bought together. When it’s right, it’s right

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead

"I met someone on here nearly three years ago.

Started just as casual meets but became more. He wanted more than just fuck buddies so we became very close friends.

Last week he told me he couldn't handle that kind of friendship.

He got quite nasty about it and it's hurt like hell.

I'll be very careful indeed in the future

Aww that's not nice for you. Hope you get through this ok x

Thank you. I'll bounce back but might just take a little while. He really messed with me so I just need to get my head straight x"

I can understand that. These things are best done in your own way and time x

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By *ysteriousMaddieWoman
over a year ago

wigan

"I’m in exactly the same position. I’m on Pof as well as here and frankly there are nicer guys on here than Pof! I’ve yet to meet anyone on here on this profile but I did date someone for a while from here. I just think why not? It’s on my profile, if guys aren’t interested they can pass me by and if they are we can chat. "

I’m with you there!

There are some right weirdos on POF

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By *ensual_lover86Man
over a year ago

london

I would love to find a likeminded woman for a long term relationship but... how easy is that? Most of the ladies in here get bombed with messages and, as expected, they hardly ever reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to find a relationship on here. No bullshit to wade through, all out in the open. Tried a few times but it's always the same nonsense.

Given up looking now, too much of a headache. Just gonna have fun and keep an open mind

Just been through similar and see it as if it is meant to happen with someone it will xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

So confusing... "
well if you meet someone like minded on here and you get along fancy each other and the click and chemistry is there give it a go swinger

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By *ierre1Man
over a year ago

Hinckley

I'm looking for a relationship too. I'm on some of the vanilla dating sites but I always try to be upfront about enjoying the swinging lifestyle and 99% of the time it puts any potential partners off.

It's not the right place to look for a partner here nor is it too try and find someone like minded on Tinder etc. I know what you mean OP.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Relationships happen anywhere, why not here? OK it's not a dating site but neither is tescos and I know people that met there.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’ve met great guys on here. I’m on pof as well and not met anyone off it recently.

Funny thing is when someone recognises me on pof from Fab I get comments about being on both. It’s as if I can’t have fun while I look.

I’m undecided about a relationship. Not sure ihow serious I could be about one person. Scared of being hurt if it didn’t work out. So I’m dipping my toe in the water so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here and are in a very strong relationship. So it can happen

Hope you find what you are looking for.

Floppsy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve met great guys on here. I’m on pof as well and not met anyone off it recently.

Funny thing is when someone recognises me on pof from Fab I get comments about being on both. It’s as if I can’t have fun while I look.

I’m undecided about a relationship. Not sure ihow serious I could be about one person. Scared of being hurt if it didn’t work out. So I’m dipping my toe in the water so to speak.

I’ve given up with regular dating sites... given up with dating full stop haha.. but on here I would find it hard not to be cynical and wonder if they just want a fuck anyway? But then you never know who or what is around the corner!! Hope you have fun dipping your toes in!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relationships happen anywhere, why not here? OK it's not a dating site but neither is tescos and I know people that met there. "

That's a brilliant analogy! So true!!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I met my ex partner on here. Got engaged and had a great 18 months, neither of us was looking for a relationship at the time we met.

I would think that if you want a long term relationship with someone into the swinging lifestyle, then going on meets and seeing who you connect with is the best option.

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

Relationships apply within please ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on POF. Hubby was very clear from the very first date what he would like from a relationship and that spurred me on to be equally honest.

Within a month I was meeting guys and telling him all about it. It was liberating and wonderful and we were both loving life and living our relationship.

Honesty, as others have said is the most important thing and is what has made our relationship as strong as it now is.

I have no idea really if what I have written is helpful but I really enjoyed thinking about the early days of our relationship

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By *lick9Man
over a year ago

Stockport

i met a woman off here which was supposed to be a one off meet,or I should say I think we both thought that's all it would be. When you click with someone and find you really enjoy their company , you drift into a relationship and before you know it you have feelings for each other . I am as surprised as anyone as I did not think I would ever meet anyone on the same wavelength

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By *ierre1Man
over a year ago

Hinckley

"We met on POF. Hubby was very clear from the very first date what he would like from a relationship and that spurred me on to be equally honest.

Within a month I was meeting guys and telling him all about it. It was liberating and wonderful and we were both loving life and living our relationship.

Honesty, as others have said is the most important thing and is what has made our relationship as strong as it now is.

I have no idea really if what I have written is helpful but I really enjoyed thinking about the early days of our relationship"

I would love to meet a woman for the same kind of relationship you describe cuckel. How up front where you both on your profile on POF of what you were looking for ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We met on POF. Hubby was very clear from the very first date what he would like from a relationship and that spurred me on to be equally honest.

Within a month I was meeting guys and telling him all about it. It was liberating and wonderful and we were both loving life and living our relationship.

Honesty, as others have said is the most important thing and is what has made our relationship as strong as it now is.

I have no idea really if what I have written is helpful but I really enjoyed thinking about the early days of our relationship

I would love to meet a woman for the same kind of relationship you describe cuckel. How up front where you both on your profile on POF of what you were looking for ? "

We were both open on our profiles but I think there had to be some reading between the lines to completely understand what we meant.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"I’ve met great guys on here. I’m on pof as well and not met anyone off it recently.

Funny thing is when someone recognises me on pof from Fab I get comments about being on both. It’s as if I can’t have fun while I look.

I’m undecided about a relationship. Not sure ihow serious I could be about one person. Scared of being hurt if it didn’t work out. So I’m dipping my toe in the water so to speak.

Thanks. And it is true, you never know when you’ll meet that someone that makes your heart skip a beat.

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

I've recently met someone on POF and from the very first night I was completely open and honest with her about what I do and like and wow she wants to get involved with swinging as well. We have already set our boundaries of what we can and can't do.

It just goes to show it can happen when you least expect it and find someone on the same wave length as you as well. Or at least open enough to try it as well and see what happens.

Yayyyyyy.

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By *aintance_guyMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

So confusing... "

I definitely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

So confusing... well if you meet someone like minded on here and you get along fancy each other and the click and chemistry is there give it a go swinger

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By *lirtyfun!!Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

I feel similar, would like a relationship but it needs to be with a guy who's happy with this side of my personality. I'm unlikely to meet one on here given I've blocked men as I don't enjoy being bombarded. I've tried different things on dating sites from being honest from the start to going on a few innocent dates first. Either way, I haven't got very far! Was actually meant to see a guy tonight who I felt I got on really well with the first couple of times we met, but he didn't reply to my text earlier

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By *aintance_guyMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Going to be a lucky guy

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By *aintance_guyMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"I feel similar, would like a relationship but it needs to be with a guy who's happy with this side of my personality. I'm unlikely to meet one on here given I've blocked men as I don't enjoy being bombarded. I've tried different things on dating sites from being honest from the start to going on a few innocent dates first. Either way, I haven't got very far! Was actually meant to see a guy tonight who I felt I got on really well with the first couple of times we met, but he didn't reply to my text earlier

What man could resist with that strap on

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By *lirtyfun!!Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

What man could resist with that strap on"

Strangely, that's the only photo from here that he's seen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm

I'm also on pof.

However, it's not that I don't like vanilla, but just finding a partner that you can be honest with regarding your complete enjoyment of sex!

Worried I would get judged as a whore lol

I would happily be with just one guy, but in a relationship where sex and making love is recognised as very important.

Hmmm

Good thread op

I just want to meet a man who completely gets my need to be wrapped up in his arms, adored, protected but also completely desired and wanted.

Ermmm to much to ask lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happily be with just one guy, but in a relationship where sex and making love is recognised as very important.

Hmmm

Good thread op

I just want to meet a man who completely gets my need to be wrapped up in his arms, adored, protected but also completely desired and wanted.

Ermmm to much to ask lol?

This.

But with the occasional club visit please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happily be with just one guy, but in a relationship where sex and making love is recognised as very important.

Hmmm

Good thread op

I just want to meet a man who completely gets my need to be wrapped up in his arms, adored, protected but also completely desired and wanted.

Ermmm to much to ask lol?

This.

But with the occasional club visit please!"

I could fill the position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been into the swinging life style about 3 years. My ex introduced me and when we splite been at it alone.

So my question is how to find someone to be in a relationship with. I can't do a vanilla relationship and this isnt a dating site.

So confusing...

I agree it wouldn't be the best idea.

One problem I have when I talk to potential cucks is that they just want to get down to or talk about the nitty gritty straight away. But I want to meet someone with the full intention of having a cuckold relationship but get to know them first in a normal dating way.

Then again any potential cucks I have spoken to turned out to already be in a relationship so that'll be why they're not interested in me as a person I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am in exactly thw same position as yourself and the same resons for joining the site too.

its crazy but i have myself been on other dating websites and have then saw tge same people from those on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i am in exactly thw same position as yourself and the same resons for joining the site too.

its crazy but i have myself been on other dating websites and have then saw tge same people from those on here x "

You’ve probably seen me on them with my clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking for that special someone. I may find it here I may not. It'll happen when it happens

But I am absolutely done with the dating sites. They can be soul destroying."

Totally agree that dating sites are soul destroying....

Is there any swingles nights about...

playbabe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss, you'd be quite a catch for any guy. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i am in exactly thw same position as yourself and the same resons for joining the site too.

its crazy but i have myself been on other dating websites and have then saw tge same people from those on here x "

Just wow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was honest on my dating profiles I just got so many messages that wanted casual sex.at least on here I can assume people just want casual unles they tell me otherwise. Someone from here did ask me to date them but he wanted monogamy which I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we got lucky and met on here... 6 years and going strong x

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By *aintance_guyMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

What man could resist with that strap on

Strangely, that's the only photo from here that he's seen!"

Who

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