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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby

Yes I suppose this is a bit of a moan lol.

All my meets are from POF these days now not able to get any meets on here for what ever reason.

And no I don't send slutty perv messages on POF as I don't on here either.

Any other fellas on here find it's easier to get a meet on POF than what it is on here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off topic a wee bit but I'm honest with friends about meeting guys for NSA but usually say it was off Tinder which they don't bat an eyelid at. If I mentioned this site they'd freak out though! Think the end game is the same for a lot of people but the approach maybe varies depending which one you're on at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on pof and tinder for 4 years not a single meet from either.

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby

Most my friends know I'm on here POF n Tinder lol.

I actually don't go on POF for sex but more often than not that is how it ends up like last night met for a drink then wake up next morning in her bed after hours of sexy fun and then morning sex lol.

Just think for most single guys it's easier on POF than it is on here and if say the ratio of men to women is the same lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on pof and tinder for 4 years not a single meet from either."

I was about to message you then I read your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I suppose this is a bit of a moan lol.

All my meets are from POF these days now not able to get any meets on here for what ever reason.

And no I don't send slutty perv messages on POF as I don't on here either.

Any other fellas on here find it's easier to get a meet on POF than what it is on here lol.

"

Honestly I get one night stands off Pof and match and long term relationships from swinging sites....

I think people are more honest on swinging sites than vanilla dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first got tinderised in a foursome.

I also hate it when guys see me on pof and ask me if im on fab. That's not the correct etiquette. And you may as well ask if you saw me in Harrods.

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"I've been on pof and tinder for 4 years not a single meet from either.

I was about to message you then I read your profile."

Lol

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By *evonmail41Man
over a year ago

Yeovil

If only there was a pof for married people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes men message me on fab asking me for a relationship or dinner.

Men message me on pof asking if they can fuck me.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I don't even get messages on pof. Least people on here send messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I suppose this is a bit of a moan lol.

All my meets are from POF these days now not able to get any meets on here for what ever reason.

And no I don't send slutty perv messages on POF as I don't on here either.

Any other fellas on here find it's easier to get a meet on POF than what it is on here lol.

Honestly I get one night stands off Pof and match and long term relationships from swinging sites....

I think people are more honest on swinging sites than vanilla dating sites "

I agree my face and work colleagues etc are on the other sites, can't be as honest in saying I really don't want romance, just sex ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"I don't even get messages on pof. Least people on here send messages"

I send messages on here n never get a reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on pof and tinder for 4 years not a single meet from either.

I was about to message you then I read your profile.

Lol"

I’d be interested to see your pof profile, I bet you’ve put more effort into it than you have on here, any money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send me a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get out what you put in.....fab profile no effort what you expect....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on pof and tinder for 4 years not a single meet from either.

I was about to message you then I read your profile."

Is it bad I had to check what my profile actually says?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"You get out what you put in.....fab profile no effort what you expect...."

I did put loads of effort in before only just changed my bio so the no effort story is nonsense I've found out. Been on FAB a long time and know a bio does not make much difference in a lot of cases.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We’ve only ever been on fab .

It would be good if there was another site like the ones that cater for singles , which also catered for married couples too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes"

Gets the job done I suppose so can't complain

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"You get out what you put in.....fab profile no effort what you expect....

I did put loads of effort in before only just changed my bio so the no effort story is nonsense I've found out. Been on FAB a long time and know a bio does not make much difference in a lot of cases."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gets the job done....Really

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

this is the only dating/meeting site I'm on! could not deal with any more messages! but have to say OP maybe people look at yr pics? pics of your last lover/meet are not too well received on here.

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"this is the only dating/meeting site I'm on! could not deal with any more messages! but have to say OP maybe people look at yr pics? pics of your last lover/meet are not too well received on here."

Again I get what's been said here but only recently have I put pics like that on here so again pics so the issue I've found. There is no one key to success on here. Just pointing out that I've had more meets/sex this past month than I have off fab in the past few yrs. God knows why lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky you.....

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I first got tinderised in a foursome.

I also hate it when guys see me on pof and ask me if im on fab. That's not the correct etiquette. And you may as well ask if you saw me in Harrods."

I thought I saw you at the cheese counter, looking for that rare variety of foreskin cheese alright. Missed you at the Ferrari counter

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By *endrix30Man
over a year ago

dudley


"Yes I suppose this is a bit of a moan lol.

All my meets are from POF these days now not able to get any meets on here for what ever reason.

And no I don't send slutty perv messages on POF as I don't on here either.

Any other fellas on here find it's easier to get a meet on POF than what it is on here lol.

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I almost joined pof a couple of years ago but didn't bother as it was expensive. Is it still costly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I suppose this is a bit of a moan lol.

All my meets are from POF these days now not able to get any meets on here for what ever reason.

And no I don't send slutty perv messages on POF as I don't on here either.

Any other fellas on here find it's easier to get a meet on POF than what it is on here lol.

I almost joined pof a couple of years ago but didn't bother as it was expensive. Is it still costly?"

Pof is free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There all good in one way or another right? It can be Hard work finding a nice reply at times but when it happens and you hit it off, I'm sure it don't matter what site

My best ever meet was from pof so I have a soft spot for it although I don't bother with it no more

I deleted both But once your gone, you suddenly feel like your missing out on something, so it came down to it And i chose to jump back on fab

It is about making an effort on your profile I agree but to do so

Sometimes it's less privert ?

I dunno about you lot but I like to be a bit discreet, behind closed doors it's different, don't help with getting replies obviously but

I'm just like half of you lot

Fancy a bit of extra excitement on the side of everyday life

Doesn't make me a nutta

There's plenty of nut jobs out there tho so always stay safe and tell someone where your going when ever you do go meet

Always have a taxi waiting lol

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Just tried join POF on basis of this thread. Because I'm married, it redirects me to Ashley Madison. Eh, I don't think so!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you are only looking to meet single women, I’m not surprised you are having more success on a dating site than a swinging site. There are considerably more women on dating sites, so obviously going to be easier for a single guy.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see how POF can be the new Fab though. Not unless POF starts accepting couples and openly allows the promotion of swinging activities.

Mrs

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"You get out what you put in.....fab profile no effort what you expect....

I did put loads of effort in before only just changed my bio so the no effort story is nonsense I've found out. Been on FAB a long time and know a bio does not make much difference in a lot of cases."

Should have used Non-Bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You get out what you put in.....fab profile no effort what you expect....

I did put loads of effort in before only just changed my bio so the no effort story is nonsense I've found out. Been on FAB a long time and know a bio does not make much difference in a lot of cases."

But do you put the pics from here on tinder or pof??

That could also be part of your problem?

Plus a lot of people that come on here looking for more than just vanilla sex.

I think you'll also find it more likely that you'll be telling a woman on there that your after love and romance, but in fact you just want sex and you stand more of a chance you'll get yourself a bunny boiler because you fucked and then show no interest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

putting it bluntly OP your pics could be the reason for no meets alot of people find action pics a turn off and I very much doubts that you have them pics on pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

POF is wank

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Surely it's harder to get group meets on those sites which are set up primarily for dating and therefore one on ones?

Surely fab is about the group sex and therein lies the difference. This gets blurred for some singles esp the ones only looking for other singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I suppose this is a bit of a moan lol.

All my meets are from POF these days now not able to get any meets on here for what ever reason.

And no I don't send slutty perv messages on POF as I don't on here either.

Any other fellas on here find it's easier to get a meet on POF than what it is on here lol.

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I was on pof looking for a relationship I had loads of dates an hardly slept with any. My mates slept with every date they had. I come on here an they go mad. My point is most women wouldn’t dream of coming here, they think it’s sleazy etc. But are happy to go on dates an sleep around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes men message me on fab asking me for a relationship or dinner.

Men message me on pof asking if they can fuck me."

FAF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on pof and tinder for 4 years not a single meet from either."

Same exept its only been a few weeks max one month for me.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I don't even get messages on pof. Least people on here send messages"

Same either that or it's people that have messaged ten times already.

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows


"putting it bluntly OP your pics could be the reason for no meets alot of people find action pics a turn off and I very much doubts that you have them pics on pof "

This especially as they are bb pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way to go on the upbeat positive bio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on pof and tinder for 4 years not a single meet from either."

Aww poor you. You need to come back to the uk, I'm sure you'll have more luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even get messages on pof. Least people on here send messages"

Strange as you’re quite a hottie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I used POF for dating, failed and deleted.

Then realised I couldn’t date vanilla so now stuck in limbo-land! Can’t date off here or on traditional sites?!?!

On here, it’s simple... sex and swinging clubs.

I like complication free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"putting it bluntly OP your pics could be the reason for no meets alot of people find action pics a turn off and I very much doubts that you have them pics on pof

This especially as they are bb pics "

I wanted to make the same point as these so . Action pics bb are the worse kind for me x

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We have way more meets from tinder and bumble and even Grindr than on here .

You get to see the face first and that is a massive problem on here . We won’t message anyone that doesn’t have a face pic. So it means there very few people that we will interact with .

Also with tinder and bumble you get to choose who messages you. So only the people that you like rather than hundreds of people you wouldn’t .

We are honest on our profiles and say we are only looking for sex and friendships . And it doesn’t seem to bother males or females .

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

If you’re having much better luck on POF, perhaps your approach is better suited on there. Approaching swingers is much different than approaching hookups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I used POF for dating, failed and deleted.

Then realised I couldn’t date vanilla so now stuck in limbo-land! Can’t date off here or on traditional sites?!?!

On here, it’s simple... sex and swinging clubs.

I like complication free "

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

I'm on pof as well, but I prefer the pics on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends what you are looking for OP. Your profile states that you are interested in gang bangs, group sex, threesomes, clubs and swapping. Such activities can’t really be achieved via a dating site. You also have 27 verifications many of which suggesting you are quite the party animal. So doesn’t sound like you are doing to badly to me. However if your interests have now moved away from swinging and into one-to-one meets, then that probably makes sense to use a dating site, as dating sites are more geered up for this, and have more women. Let’s face it, with swingers sites, most of the women are part of a couple, which is not what you want.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even get messages on pof. Least people on here send messages"

I'm very unsuccessful on conventional dating sites, and not much more successful on here, but at least as someone else has said people are more honest about their status and what they want

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby

Yes I use a different approach for POF because yes it's about dating obviously.

My point is being missed.

Why is it I get more sex through a dating site than i do a swingers site.

All it's your pics or your bio on herecare the issue is rubbish I'm afraid to say. I've had the no sex pics on my profile before on here and the so called putting effort in bio on here and even then did not work.

Oh and I've met quite a few women from POF who are on here as well that when I've messaged them on here they just delete my message but on POF they actually messaged me first.

And also I don't always end up with vanilla sex as was weds night was far from vanilla lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had meets on both and also recognised quite a few from here on pof but prefer here as I'm not looking for a relationship and we all know where we stand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are people wherever you meet them aren't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I use a different approach for POF because yes it's about dating obviously.

My point is being missed.

Why is it I get more sex through a dating site than i do a swingers site.

All it's your pics or your bio on herecare the issue is rubbish I'm afraid to say. I've had the no sex pics on my profile before on here and the so called putting effort in bio on here and even then did not work.

Oh and I've met quite a few women from POF who are on here as well that when I've messaged them on here they just delete my message but on POF they actually messaged me first.

And also I don't always end up with vanilla sex as was weds night was far from vanilla lol."

It’s very simple. You get more sex from a dating site because there are more women on dating sites and more even male to female ratios. For men looking for only single women, swingers sites will be somewhat cluttered up by women

like myself who are part of a couple. The two types of sites overlap but do have very different specialities. Its up to you to decide what you want and what it is you want and which type of site best achieves that.

Mrs

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby

I do use POF to actually meet someone not for sex by the way haha. It's just how it happens.

And I also tell my dates I'm a swinger as well by the way

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By *endrix30Man
over a year ago

dudley


"Yes I suppose this is a bit of a moan lol.

All my meets are from POF these days now not able to get any meets on here for what ever reason.

And no I don't send slutty perv messages on POF as I don't on here either.

Any other fellas on here find it's easier to get a meet on POF than what it is on here lol.

I almost joined pof a couple of years ago but didn't bother as it was expensive. Is it still costly?

Pof is free"
It was expensive a couple of years ago when i looked at it so i gave it up as a bad job, is it completely free now, including messaging ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does sadden me that there is a view that it should be easier to get sex on a swingers site than dating site. That misses the point of what swinging is all about.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could tell you exactly why you don't get meets on here if you ask me to.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I could tell you exactly why you don't get meets on here if you ask me to. "

Is it because no-one knows where the underworld actually is?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"It does sadden me that there is a view that it should be easier to get sex on a swingers site than dating site. That misses the point of what swinging is all about.

Mrs"

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby

I'm not saying it should be easy on here far from it but by the same token it should not be easier on a dating site lol.

I have had meets on here as you can see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do use POF to actually meet someone not for sex by the way haha. It's just how it happens.

And I also tell my dates I'm a swinger as well by the way "

I had observed from your verifications and interests that you were also a swinger. Don’t know if you are still interested in swinging, but swinging activities will be harder to achieve via POF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not saying it should be easy on here far from it but by the same token it should not be easier on a dating site lol.

I have had meets on here as you can see.

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For one-to-one meets I would have thought it would be much easier on a dating site. Why do you think it shouldn’t be?

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby

Like I say this is probably a moan on my part lol.

But it's mainly to me intriguing as how I get more sex on a dating site I use to actual find a partner for life because that is my personal goal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could tell you exactly why you don't get meets on here if you ask me to.

Is it because no-one knows where the underworld actually is?"

When their time is up I guide them to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t see how POF can be the new Fab though. Not unless POF starts accepting couples and openly allows the promotion of swinging activities.

Mrs"

I got approached by a swingging couple on tinder. That threw me back

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"I'm not saying it should be easy on here far from it but by the same token it should not be easier on a dating site lol.

I have had meets on here as you can see.

For one-to-one meets I would have thought it would be much easier on a dating site. Why do you think it shouldn’t be?"

Because on a dating site it's not about the sex is it it's about meeting for a date. I don't arrange to meet women on POF for sex it's just 8 times out of 10 that's how it ends up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not saying it should be easy on here far from it but by the same token it should not be easier on a dating site lol.

I have had meets on here as you can see.

For one-to-one meets I would have thought it would be much easier on a dating site. Why do you think it shouldn’t be?

Because on a dating site it's not about the sex is it it's about meeting for a date. I don't arrange to meet women on POF for sex it's just 8 times out of 10 that's how it ends up."

Yes because most single women are looking for relationships, they don't want just sex but end up being used the same way as they would had they been on here in the first place. Fab and tinder and the like are the new sex sites, guys are still looking for just fucks under the guise and pretence of wanting a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does sadden me that there is a view that it should be easier to get sex on a swingers site than dating site. That misses the point of what swinging is all about.

Mrs"

Fab may originally of been set up as a swingers site but it's now more of a sex site and has been for a considerable amount of time, that's why people think it's easier to get sex on here than a dating site.

Sad if you're a genuine swinger but great if you're a single looking for NSA sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not saying it should be easy on here far from it but by the same token it should not be easier on a dating site lol.

I have had meets on here as you can see.

For one-to-one meets I would have thought it would be much easier on a dating site. Why do you think it shouldn’t be?

Because on a dating site it's not about the sex is it it's about meeting for a date. I don't arrange to meet women on POF for sex it's just 8 times out of 10 that's how it ends up.

Yes because most single women are looking for relationships, they don't want just sex but end up being used the same way as they would had they been on here in the first place. Fab and tinder and the like are the new sex sites, guys are still looking for just fucks under the guise and pretence of wanting a relationship. "

My last two girlfriends were from tinder.

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"I'm not saying it should be easy on here far from it but by the same token it should not be easier on a dating site lol.

I have had meets on here as you can see.

For one-to-one meets I would have thought it would be much easier on a dating site. Why do you think it shouldn’t be?

Because on a dating site it's not about the sex is it it's about meeting for a date. I don't arrange to meet women on POF for sex it's just 8 times out of 10 that's how it ends up.

Yes because most single women are looking for relationships, they don't want just sex but end up being used the same way as they would had they been on here in the first place. Fab and tinder and the like are the new sex sites, guys are still looking for just fucks under the guise and pretence of wanting a relationship. "

As I said I'm not using POF A FOR SEX I genuinely do meet to date and find more for a relationship but yes there is guys on there do like you say. I never send a smutty message on POF at all.

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over a year ago


"I'm not saying it should be easy on here far from it but by the same token it should not be easier on a dating site lol.

I have had meets on here as you can see.

For one-to-one meets I would have thought it would be much easier on a dating site. Why do you think it shouldn’t be?

Because on a dating site it's not about the sex is it it's about meeting for a date. I don't arrange to meet women on POF for sex it's just 8 times out of 10 that's how it ends up."

And balance that out with the relative lack of single women on swingers sites and you have answer as to why it’s difficult to find one-to-one meets. Choice for single men looking single women: fish in a massive fish pond with hundred of other fishermen but only 10 fish. That’s Fab. Or fish in a massive fishpond with hundreds of fish. POF is second fishpond. That’s why it’s easier to get a meet from POF, hense it’s name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not saying it should be easy on here far from it but by the same token it should not be easier on a dating site lol.

I have had meets on here as you can see.

"

Depends on the dating site ? pof is basically a sex site dressed up as 'dating' in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes"

Ooooh like to say your one sexy lady xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does sadden me that there is a view that it should be easier to get sex on a swingers site than dating site. That misses the point of what swinging is all about.

Mrs

Fab may originally of been set up as a swingers site but it's now more of a sex site and has been for a considerable amount of time, that's why people think it's easier to get sex on here than a dating site.

Sad if you're a genuine swinger but great if you're a single looking for NSA sex."

Well it’s obviously not great for many of the single guys who use it at a sex site, because there are way to many guys to go round for all to get some sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not saying it should be easy on here far from it but by the same token it should not be easier on a dating site lol.

I have had meets on here as you can see.

Depends on the dating site ? pof is basically a sex site dressed up as 'dating' in my eyes. "

I must be doing something wrong, I recently joined POF and Tinder and all I can find is women who want meaningful relationships, I’m yet to find someone on my swinging wavelength

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not saying it should be easy on here far from it but by the same token it should not be easier on a dating site lol.

I have had meets on here as you can see.

Depends on the dating site ? pof is basically a sex site dressed up as 'dating' in my eyes.

I must be doing something wrong, I recently joined POF and Tinder and all I can find is women who want meaningful relationships, I’m yet to find someone on my swinging wavelength "

They say that

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Dating sites like pof and Tinder were designed for singles to meet each other. Fabswingers was started to help swingers meet each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab's nsa sex with strangers is a predominantly male fantasy that appeals to very few women. Women prefer to be seduced, swept up by a man, enamoured, before choosing to let him be intimate with her. By saying up front "ok you can fuck me" they not only give over all their power in the situation, they diffuse all the delicious erotic tension, and drain all the charm out of the endeavor. Even swingers on here bemoan the loss of these things, so try to find ways to bring them back in.

So you're getting more sex on dating sites because there are far more women on those sites because they are far more appealing to them... and also because your whole approach is probably far more respectful, polite, charming and seductive

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"If only there was a pof for married people"

Most of them are married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I suppose this is a bit of a moan lol.

All my meets are from POF these days now not able to get any meets on here for what ever reason.

And no I don't send slutty perv messages on POF as I don't on here either.

Any other fellas on here find it's easier to get a meet on POF than what it is on here lol.

"

Which begs the question...

Why you here having a whine when you could be on pof having a fabulous time?

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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago

in lincs between lincoln grantham boston


" Dating sites like pof and Tinder were designed for singles to meet each other. Fabswingers was started to help swingers meet each other. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day it’s a mathematical equation as to why it’s easier for a single guy to get a meet on a dating site compared to a swingers site. Don’t know the exact statistics, but let’s say POF has a male:female ratio of maybe 3:2, and Fab has a single male:single female ratio in the region of 20:1, then it only takes a basic understanding of maths to work out which site is easier for a single man to meet a single woman. Now there are other benefits of Fab, more associated with swinging, which POF won’t offer. And there will be disadvantages of POF in that many single ladies will not be looking for nsa. So it’s up to the individual to decide what his needs are based on the advantages and disadvantages of both sites. But if the question is purely on numbers of meets, then I think dating sites would be a hell of a lot easier.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people on here are on POF I found it fairly straight forward to meet women on POF

I find it fairly straight forward to meet women on here, if your not getting meets then take a look at your own profile and think what other people might see.

It’s not for me to tell people what to put on their profiles. I looked at the OP’s profile and the first couple of pictures were of him slipping a thumb up a ladies bottom and cornholing another lady.

You got to ask yourself this question if I were a lady would this make me want to fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the men on POF have an awful attitude towards me and my look (big boobs must mean sexual objectification). I despair with it and have long learnt I just can't be arsed with the crudeness and bad manners, so I just don't bother. At least on here I get an element of respect (most of the time).

I have had relationships through fab and the clubs that for one reason or another came to end. But it wouldn't put me off starting one again.

I don't know who I will meet and where I will meet them that will make me develop a desire to share my life with. Could be at work. Could be at a bar. Could be through a friend. Or it just could be through a 'meet'. Who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved pof when I was on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people on here are on POF I found it fairly straight forward to meet women on POF

I find it fairly straight forward to meet women on here, if your not getting meets then take a look at your own profile and think what other people might see.

It’s not for me to tell people what to put on their profiles. I looked at the OP’s profile and the first couple of pictures were of him slipping a thumb up a ladies bottom and cornholing another lady.

You got to ask yourself this question if I were a lady would this make me want to fuck you.

"

Spot on. Some men think just because they're on here all charm and decorum can go out of the window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people on here are on POF I found it fairly straight forward to meet women on POF

I find it fairly straight forward to meet women on here, if your not getting meets then take a look at your own profile and think what other people might see.

It’s not for me to tell people what to put on their profiles. I looked at the OP’s profile and the first couple of pictures were of him slipping a thumb up a ladies bottom and cornholing another lady.

You got to ask yourself this question if I were a lady would this make me want to fuck you.

Spot on. Some men think just because they're on here all charm and decorum can go out of the window "

I think that’s another good point. To compare the success of 2 sites, you need to compare like for like with regards to profiles. The OPs Fab profile pics would not be allowed on POF, therefore it’s likely he has profile pics on POF that are more appealing.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the OP has over 30 veris that begs the question how much is he getting over on POF if he thinks he’s not getting much on fab

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

Well I’m a married bi guy who doesn’t use PoF or Tinder.

I’m doing OK on Fabs. IMO guys with limited success should get themselves to a club and meet people in the flesh

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

My guess is POF may not have quite so many married or attached guys pretending to be single as a face pic on POF is practically essential.

It's much easier to hide behind the "discretion" that is expected from people on Fab.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've found most on pof are on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I’m a married bi guy who doesn’t use PoF or Tinder.

I’m doing OK on Fabs. IMO guys with limited success should get themselves to a club and meet people in the flesh "

Steady on! That requires real-life social skills

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"A lot of people on here are on POF I found it fairly straight forward to meet women on POF

I find it fairly straight forward to meet women on here, if your not getting meets then take a look at your own profile and think what other people might see.

It’s not for me to tell people what to put on their profiles. I looked at the OP’s profile and the first couple of pictures were of him slipping a thumb up a ladies bottom and cornholing another lady.

You got to ask yourself this question if I were a lady would this make me want to fuck you.

Spot on. Some men think just because they're on here all charm and decorum can go out of the window "

This continually astonishes me. Their profiles and first messages are such a turnoff.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"My guess is POF may not have quite so many married or attached guys pretending to be single as a face pic on POF is practically essential.

It's much easier to hide behind the "discretion" that is expected from people on Fab.

"

Good point. I just rarely fancy anyone on there that contacts me in the age bracket I am looking to meet for a relationship.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"Well I’m a married bi guy who doesn’t use PoF or Tinder.

I’m doing OK on Fabs. IMO guys with limited success should get themselves to a club and meet people in the flesh

Steady on! That requires real-life social skills "

Shocking eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I've got much out of pof, tinder and in here. Not sure why.

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Personally I've got much out of pof, tinder and in here. Not sure why. "

pity they never verified you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I've got much out of pof, tinder and in here. Not sure why.

pity they never verified you"

I've had 2 meets from here since September and that was in the first 3 months of joining.

They weren't verified either. I'm cam verified if that even matters.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I've been on pof and tinder for 4 years not a single meet from either.

I was about to message you then I read your profile.

Is it bad I had to check what my profile actually says?"

Had to look then out of curiosity - really made me giggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a loving couple and have been together for over a year now and still going strong. We actually met one another through POF and are now enjoying ourselves as a couple on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since when has pof been free?

You have to pay to read messages, I hardly call that free!

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By *ur1ou2Man
over a year ago

Prudhoe

Whats POF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when has pof been free?

You have to pay to read messages, I hardly call that free!"

Sorry it’s free in the states

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Whats POF"

Plenty of fucks, way easier than here to get a meet apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats POF

Plenty of fucks, way easier than here to get a meet apparently"

Is it hell. Its just as bad.

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By *ongleggedfemaleWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

Used to get loads of meets on pof but rejoined recently and it was awful so left. And wanted you to pay.

Tinder is better. Had meets on there too.

Basically both shagging sites tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a Tinder account, but use POF mainly and I get the impression a lot of women on there don't really give a shit. A lot of profiles are either bare, have very little information on them or they just simply say ''ask''.

I tend not to message those women. I mean what am I supposed to say if their profile is empty?

Even those who have a full profile that I can respond to very rarely respond and if they do they tend to be timewasters.

All of my messages are respectful and different each time. My profile is pretty much the same as it is on here. I list my hobbies, what I do for a living, use humour.

Online dating is shit in general. I met my ex on POF, but in the past ten months we broke up, I haven't had much luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on pof and tinder for 4 years not a single meet from either.

I was about to message you then I read your profile."

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Whats POF

Plenty of fucks, way easier than here to get a meet apparently

Is it hell. Its just as bad.

"

You were bragging earlier on today you get lots of meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to get loads of meets on pof but rejoined recently and it was awful so left. And wanted you to pay.

Tinder is better. Had meets on there too.

Basically both shagging sites tbh."

Tinder, yeah, I can see that. But POF is a sex site? I don't know. I've always viewed it as a dating site and I use it with the intention of going on dates with potential to become something more.

A lot of profiles on there even say don't ask for nudes, I'm not here for sex and those profiles usually fall under the ''wants to date but nothing serious'' category.

A friend of mine claims he's had success on there meeting women just for sex, so I don't know really. He told me that those who have ''not on here for sex'' on their profiles are usually the ones who are on there for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is so true lol. I absolutely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No luck anywhere for me lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"Since when has pof been free?

You have to pay to read messages, I hardly call that free!

Sorry it’s free in the states "

It is in the UK too - I think people are confusing it with a site of a similar name. I quote from the real site in the UK:

You never have to pay to message anyone

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"A lot of people on here are on POF I found it fairly straight forward to meet women on POF

I find it fairly straight forward to meet women on here, if your not getting meets then take a look at your own profile and think what other people might see.

It’s not for me to tell people what to put on their profiles. I looked at the OP’s profile and the first couple of pictures were of him slipping a thumb up a ladies bottom and cornholing another lady.

You got to ask yourself this question if I were a lady would this make me want to fuck you.

Spot on. Some men think just because they're on here all charm and decorum can go out of the window

I think that’s another good point. To compare the success of 2 sites, you need to compare like for like with regards to profiles. The OPs Fab profile pics would not be allowed on POF, therefore it’s likely he has profile pics on POF that are more appealing.

Mrs"

I'm my friends only pics I have the same pics on here as I do on POF obviously not with my cock hanging put lol.

But you say about my pics on here with me fucking another woman. It seems more acceptable on here for women to put sex pics and playing pics up and it's appealing but when a man does it it's not right and seems frowned upon. I maybe wrong on that but that it the impression I'm getting.

There does seem a lot of things that people say men should not pit up on here or say a lot more on here bit single women and coupled are fine to either say very little on there bio and put what can only be described as hard core porn pics. Not that I'm complaining about the pics I like looking at them all but. As it is a swingers site aka sex site or what ever then it should be acceptable for everyone to put what ever up and not be judged on that.

Or am I wrong. I am however taking on-board all advice stated guys

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby

I'm also on my 3rd meet tonight this week from POF lol. But again it's a genuine date not out for sex but who knows lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people on here are on POF I found it fairly straight forward to meet women on POF

I find it fairly straight forward to meet women on here, if your not getting meets then take a look at your own profile and think what other people might see.

It’s not for me to tell people what to put on their profiles. I looked at the OP’s profile and the first couple of pictures were of him slipping a thumb up a ladies bottom and cornholing another lady.

You got to ask yourself this question if I were a lady would this make me want to fuck you.

Spot on. Some men think just because they're on here all charm and decorum can go out of the window

I think that’s another good point. To compare the success of 2 sites, you need to compare like for like with regards to profiles. The OPs Fab profile pics would not be allowed on POF, therefore it’s likely he has profile pics on POF that are more appealing.

Mrs

I'm my friends only pics I have the same pics on here as I do on POF obviously not with my cock hanging put lol.

But you say about my pics on here with me fucking another woman. It seems more acceptable on here for women to put sex pics and playing pics up and it's appealing but when a man does it it's not right and seems frowned upon. I maybe wrong on that but that it the impression I'm getting.

There does seem a lot of things that people say men should not pit up on here or say a lot more on here bit single women and coupled are fine to either say very little on there bio and put what can only be described as hard core porn pics. Not that I'm complaining about the pics I like looking at them all but. As it is a swingers site aka sex site or what ever then it should be acceptable for everyone to put what ever up and not be judged on that.

Or am I wrong. I am however taking on-board all advice stated guys"

I wasn’t passing an opinion your choice of pics. I was saying compare like with like. If your POF profile gets you more meets, then maybe your POF profile is more appealing. It’s just a thought. Though I still maintain that the main reason It’s easier on POF is because the ratios are more reasonable.

Mrs

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over a year ago


"I'm also on my 3rd meet tonight this week from POF lol. But again it's a genuine date not out for sex but who knows lol."

That’s great. Nothing wrong with dating. Lack of dating on a Fab is indeed one of the drawbacks (and something that irritates me) so a valid reason for pursuing dating sites.

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby


"A lot of people on here are on POF I found it fairly straight forward to meet women on POF

I find it fairly straight forward to meet women on here, if your not getting meets then take a look at your own profile and think what other people might see.

It’s not for me to tell people what to put on their profiles. I looked at the OP’s profile and the first couple of pictures were of him slipping a thumb up a ladies bottom and cornholing another lady.

You got to ask yourself this question if I were a lady would this make me want to fuck you.

Spot on. Some men think just because they're on here all charm and decorum can go out of the window

I think that’s another good point. To compare the success of 2 sites, you need to compare like for like with regards to profiles. The OPs Fab profile pics would not be allowed on POF, therefore it’s likely he has profile pics on POF that are more appealing.

Mrs

I'm my friends only pics I have the same pics on here as I do on POF obviously not with my cock hanging put lol.

But you say about my pics on here with me fucking another woman. It seems more acceptable on here for women to put sex pics and playing pics up and it's appealing but when a man does it it's not right and seems frowned upon. I maybe wrong on that but that it the impression I'm getting.

There does seem a lot of things that people say men should not pit up on here or say a lot more on here bit single women and coupled are fine to either say very little on there bio and put what can only be described as hard core porn pics. Not that I'm complaining about the pics I like looking at them all but. As it is a swingers site aka sex site or what ever then it should be acceptable for everyone to put what ever up and not be judged on that.

Or am I wrong. I am however taking on-board all advice stated guys

I wasn’t passing an opinion your choice of pics. I was saying compare like with like. If your POF profile gets you more meets, then maybe your POF profile is more appealing. It’s just a thought. Though I still maintain that the main reason It’s easier on POF is because the ratios are more reasonable.

Mrs"

No I don't think you was it means that seems to be the common perception on here as a whole if you get what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people on here are on POF I found it fairly straight forward to meet women on POF

I find it fairly straight forward to meet women on here, if your not getting meets then take a look at your own profile and think what other people might see.

It’s not for me to tell people what to put on their profiles. I looked at the OP’s profile and the first couple of pictures were of him slipping a thumb up a ladies bottom and cornholing another lady.

You got to ask yourself this question if I were a lady would this make me want to fuck you.

Spot on. Some men think just because they're on here all charm and decorum can go out of the window

I think that’s another good point. To compare the success of 2 sites, you need to compare like for like with regards to profiles. The OPs Fab profile pics would not be allowed on POF, therefore it’s likely he has profile pics on POF that are more appealing.

Mrs

I'm my friends only pics I have the same pics on here as I do on POF obviously not with my cock hanging put lol.

But you say about my pics on here with me fucking another woman. It seems more acceptable on here for women to put sex pics and playing pics up and it's appealing but when a man does it it's not right and seems frowned upon. I maybe wrong on that but that it the impression I'm getting.

There does seem a lot of things that people say men should not pit up on here or say a lot more on here bit single women and coupled are fine to either say very little on there bio and put what can only be described as hard core porn pics. Not that I'm complaining about the pics I like looking at them all but. As it is a swingers site aka sex site or what ever then it should be acceptable for everyone to put what ever up and not be judged on that.

Or am I wrong. I am however taking on-board all advice stated guys"

It's for everyone to choose the kind of pictures they want to put on their profile, bearing in mind the kind of people they are looking to attract. I personally hate action pics and explicit pics of any kind, but as with many other things on here I am sure I am in the minority and you would not be looking to attract my type in any case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just joined POF a few weeks back and the only message I've had was from a woman who looked like Les Dawson ... I politely declined to continue speaking to her.

I'm no oil painting but if that's the best I can get I think I'll give it up as a bad job and fall in love again with my right hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people on here are on POF I found it fairly straight forward to meet women on POF

I find it fairly straight forward to meet women on here, if your not getting meets then take a look at your own profile and think what other people might see.

It’s not for me to tell people what to put on their profiles. I looked at the OP’s profile and the first couple of pictures were of him slipping a thumb up a ladies bottom and cornholing another lady.

You got to ask yourself this question if I were a lady would this make me want to fuck you.

Spot on. Some men think just because they're on here all charm and decorum can go out of the window

I think that’s another good point. To compare the success of 2 sites, you need to compare like for like with regards to profiles. The OPs Fab profile pics would not be allowed on POF, therefore it’s likely he has profile pics on POF that are more appealing.

Mrs

I'm my friends only pics I have the same pics on here as I do on POF obviously not with my cock hanging put lol.

But you say about my pics on here with me fucking another woman. It seems more acceptable on here for women to put sex pics and playing pics up and it's appealing but when a man does it it's not right and seems frowned upon. I maybe wrong on that but that it the impression I'm getting.

There does seem a lot of things that people say men should not pit up on here or say a lot more on here bit single women and coupled are fine to either say very little on there bio and put what can only be described as hard core porn pics. Not that I'm complaining about the pics I like looking at them all but. As it is a swingers site aka sex site or what ever then it should be acceptable for everyone to put what ever up and not be judged on that.

Or am I wrong. I am however taking on-board all advice stated guys

It's for everyone to choose the kind of pictures they want to put on their profile, bearing in mind the kind of people they are looking to attract. I personally hate action pics and explicit pics of any kind, but as with many other things on here I am sure I am in the minority and you would not be looking to attract my type in any case"

I don't like them either. But as you say, those types of people wouldn't want to meet us so it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I suppose this is a bit of a moan lol.

All my meets are from POF these days now not able to get any meets on here for what ever reason.

And no I don't send slutty perv messages on POF as I don't on here either.

Any other fellas on here find it's easier to get a meet on POF than what it is on here lol.

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No, even in male mode I get more attention on here

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"I'm also on my 3rd meet tonight this week from POF lol. But again it's a genuine date not out for sex but who knows lol."

I quickly learnt on POF that while pretty much all women say “not interested in one night stands”, make a good impression and it’s oretty much guaranteed on the second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on pof and Tinder, I’ve not had any luck on either.

I get a lot more attention on here, for some reason...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You've probably got a greater level of variation of the types of meets you'll get on fab, than those others.

If you want to be fully honest about yourself, what you want and are interested in more than 1 on 1 mf sex, fab is likely the place that you can fit in. Not everyone is equal in each place, with equal chance of success - like life itself, the secret is finding out how you naturally can be successful. Astute people can also know when to stop flogging a dead horse. Know thyself, learn from your experience, or you'll become like the bluebottle fly which forever wastes energy flying into the window trying to make progress.

Ultimately it is just about you, your efforts and abilities to apply your wisdom with whatever intelligence you have. I meet people from real life, swinging clubs, fab and other avenues. They work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m on pof and Tinder, I’ve not had any luck on either.

I get a lot more attention on here, for some reason...

"

I’m sure you don’t have the same pics on Pof

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Just taken my first glance at POF. No transgender options so that's me locked out then...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Just taken my first glance at POF. No transgender options so that's me locked out then..."

Yeah i couldn't use it either, because I'm married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never actually met anyone from POF just for sex. Only found my 1st interracial relationship but that was it. Other than that, met one from meetme. But this.. since joined it's been nothing but a read lol

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Tried pof. Isn't for everyone. Wasn't for me. Never tried tinder. Going to the pub works though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer fab even though ive only had 1meet off here and 1 off pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tried pof. Isn't for everyone. Wasn't for me. Never tried tinder. Going to the pub works though."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find people of POF generally reply better! Mostly find folk on here don't reply at all to messages.

Which i find personally very rude, even if its a not, at least reply and say no thank you. It doesn't take much effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find people of POF generally reply better! Mostly find folk on here don't reply at all to messages.

Which i find personally very rude, even if its a not, at least reply and say no thank you. It doesn't take much effort. "

i like this comment xx

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I've found most on pof are on here. "

Same and they then query why I'm on POF 'cause apparently you can't be on FAB and POF! Clearly forgetting they are on both. (Admittedly I'm here more than there)

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I find people of POF generally reply better! Mostly find folk on here don't reply at all to messages.

Which i find personally very rude, even if its a not, at least reply and say no thank you. It doesn't take much effort. "

The day I made hot pics I got over 2000 messages in one day and that’s wth active filters

There’s only 1440 minutes in a day at a minute a reply there’s not enough time, then you keep having others roll in as you’re replying because you can spend about 3dats on an hot pics page, I’m sorry but I’ve got a life away from here, I want fun not a second admin job

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Least on here people are honest with whay they want.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Least on here people are honest with whay they want. "

Yep doo many bullshiters on POF

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

You can't really compare the two, one is a dating site and the other a swinging one. It all depends what you're looking for. If you're looking for some romance or just a quick leg over pof might deliver the better results. If you look for parties, good NSA sex and/or live out some kinks you're probably better of here.

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By *elbyfuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Selby

Result again it ended up on great sex and after tell8ng her about me swinging she wants to try it as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find people of POF generally reply better! Mostly find folk on here don't reply at all to messages.

Which i find personally very rude, even if its a not, at least reply and say no thank you. It doesn't take much effort. "

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

On POF long before my swinging days and always guaranteed sex if I wanted it. On fab mostly time wasters or no idea how to pleasure a woman. Clubs are the best option for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have used POF and found the reply rate to my sent messages was around 90%.

On here I am lucky if it's a 10% reply rate.

Not sure what that says about either site or about me but that's how I have found it to be.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I've had dates off Tinder and POF. I have had to make a resolution to stop shagging people on the first date, because it seems a lot of people do want a random fuck but won't admit it.

I actually want to date, but I dunno where I go for that...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I've had dates off Tinder and POF. I have had to make a resolution to stop shagging people on the first date, because it seems a lot of people do want a random fuck but won't admit it.

I actually want to date, but I dunno where I go for that... "

I dunno, pub?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I've had dates off Tinder and POF. I have had to make a resolution to stop shagging people on the first date, because it seems a lot of people do want a random fuck but won't admit it.

I actually want to date, but I dunno where I go for that...

I dunno, pub?"

If I wanted to date someone over 60, maybe....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Result again it ended up on great sex and after tell8ng her about me swinging she wants to try it as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

POF always had a reputation for being plenty of fucks. They were supposed to be changing that. From what a close friend who dates off there has told me, it’s the same as ever. Personally it sounds far less honest than here. Plus there are plenty of married people on there too.

OK Cupid seems to be good.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

Seems like a simple numbers game, far more single women on POF looking for men.

Odds are you will get more success. This site also has single women but they are dwarfed in number by single males.

Couples tend to balance themselves out. On here but I imagine on POF they are in the minority.

How many 3somes or Moresomes through POF, how many have you had on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"POF always had a reputation for being plenty of fucks. They were supposed to be changing that. From what a close friend who dates off there has told me, it’s the same as ever. Personally it sounds far less honest than here. Plus there are plenty of married people on there too.

OK Cupid seems to be good."

Less honest than on here? Do you really think that.

I would say the amount of fake or misleading profiles on here is much more than there are on POF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined pof. Lets see out of curiosity what messages i get.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"POF always had a reputation for being plenty of fucks. They were supposed to be changing that. From what a close friend who dates off there has told me, it’s the same as ever. Personally it sounds far less honest than here. Plus there are plenty of married people on there too.

OK Cupid seems to be good.

Less honest than on here? Do you really think that.

I would say the amount of fake or misleading profiles on here is much more than there are on POF. "

Yea honestly guys on POF are completely full of shit about their intentions

On here given the nature of the site they’re more honest about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not getting any offers on either site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"POF always had a reputation for being plenty of fucks. They were supposed to be changing that. From what a close friend who dates off there has told me, it’s the same as ever. Personally it sounds far less honest than here. Plus there are plenty of married people on there too.

OK Cupid seems to be good.

Less honest than on here? Do you really think that.

I would say the amount of fake or misleading profiles on here is much more than there are on POF.

Yea honestly guys on POF are completely full of shit about their intentions

On here given the nature of the site they’re more honest about it "

Even if they state their interest as casual /no commitment?

Can't be anymore honest than that.

As I say my reply ratio on there was much better than here. And before you ask why don't I go back there I stay here mainly for the forums and I have had a few excellent encounters from here so I continue to live on hope of finding more.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Least on here people are honest with whay they want.

Yep doo many bullshiters on POF "

Either they want they want the fairytale happy ending or a hook up. Was dating someone off there for 3 months and she decides to tell me she was engaged....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Least on here people are honest with whay they want.

Yep doo many bullshiters on POF

Either they want they want the fairytale happy ending or a hook up. Was dating someone off there for 3 months and she decides to tell me she was engaged...."

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree. I has more replies on pof. But hey staying positive

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"POF always had a reputation for being plenty of fucks. They were supposed to be changing that. From what a close friend who dates off there has told me, it’s the same as ever. Personally it sounds far less honest than here. Plus there are plenty of married people on there too.

OK Cupid seems to be good.

Less honest than on here? Do you really think that.

I would say the amount of fake or misleading profiles on here is much more than there are on POF.

Yea honestly guys on POF are completely full of shit about their intentions

On here given the nature of the site they’re more honest about it

Even if they state their interest as casual /no commitment?

Can't be anymore honest than that.

As I say my reply ratio on there was much better than here. And before you ask why don't I go back there I stay here mainly for the forums and I have had a few excellent encounters from here so I continue to live on hope of finding more. "

POF did away with that option years ago - it’s a dating site therefore geared towards commitment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"POF always had a reputation for being plenty of fucks. They were supposed to be changing that. From what a close friend who dates off there has told me, it’s the same as ever. Personally it sounds far less honest than here. Plus there are plenty of married people on there too.

OK Cupid seems to be good.

Less honest than on here? Do you really think that.

I would say the amount of fake or misleading profiles on here is much more than there are on POF.

Yea honestly guys on POF are completely full of shit about their intentions

On here given the nature of the site they’re more honest about it

Even if they state their interest as casual /no commitment?

Can't be anymore honest than that.

As I say my reply ratio on there was much better than here. And before you ask why don't I go back there I stay here mainly for the forums and I have had a few excellent encounters from here so I continue to live on hope of finding more.

POF did away with that option years ago - it’s a dating site therefore geared towards commitment "

I don't think it did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After my parents split my dad called to tell me he'd joined 'Plenty of Friends'

God love him...although he ended up getting more action than me I think!

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By *rStoner_bfdMan
over a year ago

Keighley/Shipley

Think i got my last reply on anything about xmas time think its the baby face lmao

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By *nglishdoodMan
over a year ago

Morristown


"Yes"

What? Who doesn't like maple syrup? Lol

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By *hocolate_HeavenMan
over a year ago

Birmingham and Dubai


"Yes I suppose this is a bit of a moan lol.

All my meets are from POF these days now not able to get any meets on here for what ever reason.

And no I don't send slutty perv messages on POF as I don't on here either.

Any other fellas on here find it's easier to get a meet on POF than what it is on here lol.

"

Maybe it’s to do with your false advertising and false promise?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

If I wanted to mislead single women into thinking that I was looking for romance to get a one night stand then I would probably give tinder and POF another bash.

As it is I'm much happier being honest on here as it caters much more to the kind of experiences I'm looking for.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

Gets the job done I suppose so can't complain "

WoW you are some catch ! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it's harder to get group meets on those sites which are set up primarily for dating and therefore one on ones?

Surely fab is about the group sex and therein lies the difference. This gets blurred for some singles esp the ones only looking for other singles "

Fab isn't just about group sex, surely it can be about whatever the individual wants it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"POF always had a reputation for being plenty of fucks. They were supposed to be changing that. From what a close friend who dates off there has told me, it’s the same as ever. Personally it sounds far less honest than here. Plus there are plenty of married people on there too.

OK Cupid seems to be good.

Less honest than on here? Do you really think that.

I would say the amount of fake or misleading profiles on here is much more than there are on POF.

Yea honestly guys on POF are completely full of shit about their intentions

On here given the nature of the site they’re more honest about it "

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