FabSwingers.com forum: Sex hang ups

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Reading through the forums you'd get the impression that everyone is super confident, skilled and completely at ease in all sexual situations.

However I'm sure everyone has hang ups of irrational or not fears. We are all human.

For me it's being naked.

What are yours?

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Mine used to be public nudity, I have since realised that everyone has their own version of what looks good and more importantly I dont care what other people think.

I still find myself socially inept. Apparently I manage fine but I'm secretly freaking out inside lol

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

not being naked. don't feel comfortable in sexy lingerie. ..

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Only performance issue are at the back of my mind just latly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do some times worry I have to big a dick and are to good in bed that that's my only hangup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're naturists, doesn't take much for us to strip naked.

We can see how its not for everyone though.

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By *WKinkMan
over a year ago

Bury

Being pleasured by someone else. Always feel guilty about it so sometimes don’t enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a visit from Mr soft a few months ago for no reason I could think of. Embarrassing and plays on your mind a bit.

Very occasionally I have concerns over penis size because I was mocked in person by a vile woman about it many moons ago. I know it's fine but that sort of thing sticks with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a visit from Mr soft a few months ago for no reason I could think of. Embarrassing and plays on your mind a bit.

Very occasionally I have concerns over penis size because I was mocked in person by a vile woman about it many moons ago. I know it's fine but that sort of thing sticks with you. "

I'm sure it does stick with you ... but press on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do naked. I cover myself in lingerie, would take a lot for me to feel comfortable enough with someone for me to strip completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting naked. I have self-esteem issues when it comes to my body.

I have social anxiety too, so talking to people I don't know is a bit tough sometimes. I'll be alright after ten minutes or so when the nerves start going.

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

"I don't do naked. I cover myself in lingerie, would take a lot for me to feel comfortable enough with someone for me to strip completely "

This for me too!

I’ll lose some lingerie as I lose my inhibitions during play, but as soon as it’s game over I’m grabbing for the robe .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tiddler being seen when it’s not erect haha

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By *atdancerCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sinderella:
"For me it's being naked."

_appy squirrel:
"not being naked."

So I started thinking of tying the aforementioned ladies together to make some sort of embarrassed / not embarrassed perpetual motion machine.

Then I realised my imagination had just tied two naked ladies together

With apologies for taking imaginary liberties,

Hat

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I dont mind naked... i get sometime hung up on my hairy chest.. as its not to everyones tastes.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Aside from the usual male hang ups - the biggest one for me is the whole social awkwardness of talking to people I've never met before with a view to having sex with them.

When I first went to a club I worried overly beforehand about getting naked but can distinctly remember the overwhelming feeling of liberation I felt the moment I dropped the towel to get in the hot tub, and now don't give it a moments thought.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Sinderella:For me it's being naked.

_appy squirrel:not being naked.

So I started thinking of tying the aforementioned ladies together to make some sort of embarrassed / not embarrassed perpetual motion machine.

Then I realised my imagination had just tied two naked ladies together

With apologies for taking imaginary liberties,

Hat"

not 2 naked ones... one naked and one in sexy lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the same for me, I have such a hang up about naked

"Reading through the forums you'd get the impression that everyone is super confident, skilled and completely at ease in all sexual situations.

However I'm sure everyone has hang ups of irrational or not fears. We are all human.

For me it's being naked.

What are yours? "

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