FabSwingers.com forum: Let downs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How difficult is it to reply to a message. I'm fed up of talking to people organising meets and events then when you actually say ok you're invited they never message back. If your not interested don't bother talking to us you just waste our time. If you actually want to play great but don't build it up then panic and not even bother with a message to say you can't come. Rant over lol xxx

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

So many timewasters, dreamers and muppets on Fab, which is why I'm in favour of a mandatory joining fee to disuade as many as possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So many timewasters, dreamers and muppets on Fab, which is why I'm in favour of a mandatory joining fee to disuade as many as possible."

I think you would probably still get the dreamers but it might help with a few

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By *wappersrusCouple
over a year ago

shropshire

why can we not let the regulators here now of these people and if they get reported 3 times there profile is blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m predicting some serious single male bashing coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How difficult is it to reply to a message. I'm fed up of talking to people organising meets and events then when you actually say ok you're invited they never message back. If your not interested don't bother talking to us you just waste our time. If you actually want to play great but don't build it up then panic and not even bother with a message to say you can't come. Rant over lol xxx "

I'm sorry to hear you've experienced this too. We've just had exactly the same thing happen to us, it's so frustrating. I met the guy last week for a social (which turned into a bit of more), there was great chemistry and both me and my husband were looking forward to meeting up for some proper threesome fun tomorrow, the guy was very enthusiastic, said he'd arrange a hotel room etc. But then the signs start to show over the last few days...silence where before there was flirting, and when I sent a lighthearted message asking if everything was OK, I got the usual 'been busy' type message, and now as the day of the meet draws near...absolutely nothing, despite the fact he's been on here frequently in the last couple of days. I would understand if he's changed his mind, for whatever reason, but simply ignoring us is pretty bloody rude in my book, we certainly wouldn't treat people that way. Even if he does message now, he's blown it because we both feel he's been disrespectful.

It's such a waste of our time,and why can't people just be straight forward and honest!?

V x

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

Sadly it happens a lot and spoils the site for the serious folk. A joining fee might work but I think you will still get time wasters. I had it last week with a couple. Been chatting for weeks, jumped through all their hoops to prove I was genuine, but as soon as the planned meet came near- nothing; yet still active on site. I felt it was a little spineless of them, but hayhoe! Take the rough with the smooth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I wouldn't mind if you hadn't spent time organising things if your not going to meet just don't say you are. Luckily we have got a few friends on here so we filled the space at our party but it's just disrespectful x

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