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"We have asked anyone who wants to contact us to read our profile totally and reply with a certain word. Is that difficult " No, it's not difficult at all but for some guys they only see what they want to and simply just don't read profiles and the content fully and properly. Genuine males will read profiles correctly and act accordingly. | |||
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"We have asked anyone who wants to contact us to read our profile totally and reply with a certain word. Is that difficult " On here yes | |||
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"Just my opinion but I'm a genuine person and when I see that on a profile it puts me off. I'm an adult looking for some relaxed fun, I don't want to have to do things a certain way or follow rules imposed by one half of the equation. Could it be the genuine people are not contacting you because they HAVE read your profile?" Conversely, I get my meets on the grounds that my Profile plus my style of approach followed by two-way dialogue conveys being Genuine to those with whom I'm liaising. Thus, it means different things to different people. | |||
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"Just my opinion but I'm a genuine person and when I see that on a profile it puts me off. I'm an adult looking for some relaxed fun, I don't want to have to do things a certain way or follow rules imposed by one half of the equation. Could it be the genuine people are not contacting you because they HAVE read your profile?" This, if I see the word thing I would think nope not jumping through hoops for you. But also a lot of people do look at the pics and message it's soon easy by looking at their profile and seeing that they don't match what you are looking for | |||
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"Just my opinion but I'm a genuine person and when I see that on a profile it puts me off. I'm an adult looking for some relaxed fun, I don't want to have to do things a certain way or follow rules imposed by one half of the equation. Could it be the genuine people are not contacting you because they HAVE read your profile?" It puts me off too, I don't reply to people who request a certain word be said. And also what at the end of the day, is there to say, that that person has even read MY profile. X | |||
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"We have asked anyone who wants to contact us to read our profile totally and reply with a certain word. Is that difficult " I ignore the code word or spell it wrong or choose my own. People still meet. | |||
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"We have asked anyone who wants to contact us to read our profile totally and reply with a certain word. Is that difficult No, it's not difficult at all but for some guys they only see what they want to and simply just don't read profiles and the content fully and properly. Genuine males will read profiles correctly and act accordingly." In other words, jump through hoops | |||
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"Do people still have that on their profiles nowadays,It's very off putting and no way would I use it." No way would I read a profile anyway | |||
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"Do people still have that on their profiles nowadays,It's very off putting and no way would I use it. No way would I read a profile anyway " Exactly some people know too many word's for my liking. | |||
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"Just my opinion but I'm a genuine person and when I see that on a profile it puts me off. I'm an adult looking for some relaxed fun, I don't want to have to do things a certain way or follow rules imposed by one half of the equation. Could it be the genuine people are not contacting you because they HAVE read your profile? This, if I see the word thing I would think nope not jumping through hoops for you. But also a lot of people do look at the pics and message it's soon easy by looking at their profile and seeing that they don't match what you are looking for " I want a pirate chick but I don't out that on my profile as it would look silly | |||
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"We have asked anyone who wants to contact us to read our profile totally and reply with a certain word. Is that difficult " The trouble is, that if its a bloke looking, many of them only have one eye and that's usually focused on a hand in its field"vision" Sorry to rabbit on with this bit of nonsense | |||
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"We have asked anyone who wants to contact us to read our profile totally and reply with a certain word. Is that difficult " Not at all. I eventually had to because of all the "straight guys looking for women" Who kept sending "Hi" messages! Now I know they don't read it So instant delete and get abuse! Just shows the morons for what they are! | |||
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"I bet you can’t find our code word! " You have an essay as a profile. Why? | |||
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"I bet you can’t find our code word! You have an essay as a profile. Why? " To put people off | |||
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" it's a process of illumination Like Blackpool " Bloody predictive spell checker- did you see the happy dabbing too... FFS! Happy fabbing everyone | |||
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"I bet you can’t find our code word! You have an essay as a profile. Why? To put people off " To put people off so you don't want to meet people then that's a bit odd ! | |||
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"I bet you can’t find our code word! You have an essay as a profile. Why? To put people off To put people off so you don't want to meet people then that's a bit odd !" Obviously my sarcastic wit seems to be lost on you | |||
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"We have asked anyone who wants to contact us to read our profile totally and reply with a certain word. Is that difficult " When i see the " type a certain word to prove u havecread our profile i honestly think jog on! If normal minded adult folk wanna read ur profile they will! | |||
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"There is a large group of people on here with a check box list or treat it like a dating site It's a social site! You don't stand in a pub with a large sign listing the type of people you will only chat to- it's a process of illumination. I love this site but some people need to lighten up and not take themselves so seriously. And before I get attacked this comment is not aimed at anyone in this thread it's just a general remark Happy dabbing everyone and enjoy yourself" But your missing the point too..it's about meeting people you want to meet..having certain things on your profile text makes it clear on who and how you meet..if you do not have these thing set out you just get bombarded with unwanted message asking the same thing over and over again ..no offence, put as a single male on here you probably do not get bombarded with lots of message each day on the lines off ..fancy a fuck..I am free now to come and fuck you ..text me..and so on | |||
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"We don't ask for a keyword. It's usually obvious to us if the mailer has read our profile or not. " | |||
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"We have asked anyone who wants to contact us to read our profile totally and reply with a certain word. Is that difficult No, it's not difficult at all but for some guys they only see what they want to and simply just don't read profiles and the content fully and properly. Genuine males will read profiles correctly and act accordingly." not true as i find it hard to read profiles some when they very long and demanding | |||
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"There is a large group of people on here with a check box list or treat it like a dating site It's a social site! You don't stand in a pub with a large sign listing the type of people you will only chat to- it's a process of illumination. I love this site but some people need to lighten up and not take themselves so seriously. And before I get attacked this comment is not aimed at anyone in this thread it's just a general remark Happy dabbing everyone and enjoy yourself But your missing the point too..it's about meeting people you want to meet..having certain things on your profile text makes it clear on who and how you meet..if you do not have these thing set out you just get bombarded with unwanted message asking the same thing over and over again ..no offence, put as a single male on here you probably do not get bombarded with lots of message each day on the lines off ..fancy a fuck..I am free now to come and fuck you ..text me..and so on " Exactly this. The long(ish) profiles and keywords are there as a way of sifting out the wasters who can't be bothered to put effort in at any stage and just treat Fab like a dark alley behind a school disco. No wonder so many singles complain if they can't grasp the idea that they need to put SOME effort in. | |||
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"We have asked anyone who wants to contact us to read our profile totally and reply with a certain word. Is that difficult No, it's not difficult at all but for some guys they only see what they want to and simply just don't read profiles and the content fully and properly. Genuine males will read profiles correctly and act accordingly. not true as i find it hard to read profiles some when they very long and demanding " Do you find it hard to satisfy a woman who has very specific needs and desires, or do you assume it's your way or the highway? Asking for a friend. | |||
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"There is a large group of people on here with a check box list or treat it like a dating site It's a social site! You don't stand in a pub with a large sign listing the type of people you will only chat to- it's a process of illumination. I love this site but some people need to lighten up and not take themselves so seriously. And before I get attacked this comment is not aimed at anyone in this thread it's just a general remark Happy dabbing everyone and enjoy yourself But your missing the point too..it's about meeting people you want to meet..having certain things on your profile text makes it clear on who and how you meet..if you do not have these thing set out you just get bombarded with unwanted message asking the same thing over and over again ..no offence, put as a single male on here you probably do not get bombarded with lots of message each day on the lines off ..fancy a fuck..I am free now to come and fuck you ..text me..and so on " It would seem that even with the keyword you demand that you still get those messages..... | |||
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"There is a large group of people on here with a check box list or treat it like a dating site It's a social site! You don't stand in a pub with a large sign listing the type of people you will only chat to- it's a process of illumination. I love this site but some people need to lighten up and not take themselves so seriously. And before I get attacked this comment is not aimed at anyone in this thread it's just a general remark Happy dabbing everyone and enjoy yourself But your missing the point too..it's about meeting people you want to meet..having certain things on your profile text makes it clear on who and how you meet..if you do not have these thing set out you just get bombarded with unwanted message asking the same thing over and over again ..no offence, put as a single male on here you probably do not get bombarded with lots of message each day on the lines off ..fancy a fuck..I am free now to come and fuck you ..text me..and so on It would seem that even with the keyword you demand that you still get those messages....." The OP as a keyword ..we don't.. | |||
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"There is a large group of people on here with a check box list or treat it like a dating site It's a social site! You don't stand in a pub with a large sign listing the type of people you will only chat to- it's a process of illumination. I love this site but some people need to lighten up and not take themselves so seriously. And before I get attacked this comment is not aimed at anyone in this thread it's just a general remark Happy dabbing everyone and enjoy yourself But your missing the point too..it's about meeting people you want to meet..having certain things on your profile text makes it clear on who and how you meet..if you do not have these thing set out you just get bombarded with unwanted message asking the same thing over and over again ..no offence, put as a single male on here you probably do not get bombarded with lots of message each day on the lines off ..fancy a fuck..I am free now to come and fuck you ..text me..and so on It would seem that even with the keyword you demand that you still get those messages..... The OP as a keyword ..we don't.." Oops my bad...I try to read profiles better | |||
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"There is a large group of people on here with a check box list or treat it like a dating site It's a social site! You don't stand in a pub with a large sign listing the type of people you will only chat to- it's a process of illumination. I love this site but some people need to lighten up and not take themselves so seriously. And before I get attacked this comment is not aimed at anyone in this thread it's just a general remark Happy dabbing everyone and enjoy yourself But your missing the point too..it's about meeting people you want to meet..having certain things on your profile text makes it clear on who and how you meet..if you do not have these thing set out you just get bombarded with unwanted message asking the same thing over and over again ..no offence, put as a single male on here you probably do not get bombarded with lots of message each day on the lines off ..fancy a fuck..I am free now to come and fuck you ..text me..and so on It would seem that even with the keyword you demand that you still get those messages..... The OP as a keyword ..we don't.. Oops my bad...I try to read profiles better " | |||
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"The amount of people who don't read is shocking We get mail asking to meet yet our profile says we post meets when we are looking " | |||
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"There is a large group of people on here with a check box list or treat it like a dating site It's a social site! You don't stand in a pub with a large sign listing the type of people you will only chat to- it's a process of illumination. I love this site but some people need to lighten up and not take themselves so seriously. And before I get attacked this comment is not aimed at anyone in this thread it's just a general remark Happy dabbing everyone and enjoy yourself" Yes you're tight. It's a process of elimation. And if somebody wants to start that elimination process early on so they don't waste time on people who ultimately won't make the grade, that's up to them. By the way, who put YOU in charge of how people use Fab? | |||
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"I have actually asked the question about one line messages in another thread on here and the general theme was that if they liked the profile or the pics then many would still reply. I guess it's the overall package people go for. The point I was making was simply ignore, delete, block or say no thank you. And no as a single male we don't get 100s of messages but we can still be just as choosy about who we meet. It's nice to get that choice even if you do have to pick through people that may or may not be blanket mailing in the hope of a reply You will be amazed just how many people sign a legal document without reading it " As a couple we do not like just to simply ignore or delete or block,we always try and reply to any messages we get ..but we have filters in place in our profile wording to hopefully filter out the standard fancy a fuck ..I'm free this morning at 6am to fuck you..if we do get this type of message then it's clear they have not seen our full profile, probably just seen a pic and hit the message button..these type of message will get deleted and not replied to,because if they can not be bothered to read a profile, then we can not be bothered to reply | |||
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"The amount of people who don't read is shocking We get mail asking to meet yet our profile says we post meets when we are looking " Yup. They'll be the same people whinging on the forum about why they don'g get replies or meets. Yet the penny never drops. | |||
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"The amount of people who don't read is shocking We get mail asking to meet yet our profile says we post meets when we are looking Yup. They'll be the same people whinging on the forum about why they don'g get replies or meets. Yet the penny never drops." | |||
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" By the way, who put YOU in charge of how people use Fab?" No one it's always been like this on here- it's a small price to pay for a great site that puts you in touch with so many great people. You are always going to come across people who don't play along or have their own approach to how they choose to contact. It will never change Life is too short so just have fun and enjoy yourself | |||
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"Just my opinion but I'm a genuine person and when I see that on a profile it puts me off. I'm an adult looking for some relaxed fun, I don't want to have to do things a certain way or follow rules imposed by one half of the equation. Could it be the genuine people are not contacting you because they HAVE read your profile? This, if I see the word thing I would think nope not jumping through hoops for you. But also a lot of people do look at the pics and message it's soon easy by looking at their profile and seeing that they don't match what you are looking for I want a pirate chick but I don't out that on my profile as it would look silly " . You want me to dress as a pirate for you? | |||
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"Just my opinion but I'm a genuine person and when I see that on a profile it puts me off. I'm an adult looking for some relaxed fun, I don't want to have to do things a certain way or follow rules imposed by one half of the equation. Could it be the genuine people are not contacting you because they HAVE read your profile? This, if I see the word thing I would think nope not jumping through hoops for you. But also a lot of people do look at the pics and message it's soon easy by looking at their profile and seeing that they don't match what you are looking for I want a pirate chick but I don't out that on my profile as it would look silly . You want me to dress as a pirate for you? " Y'arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr | |||
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"we think it is a very difficult thing to do, it must be very hard as most guys on this site cannot do it" I’d like to see Mildred vaping | |||
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