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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.. Have seen on various profiles 'no endless messages' or no 'ping pong messages'

This puts me off a bit as it seems like they are saying 'sod the polite bit I just want sex'

Is this just me ? xxx

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Our take is that, after an initial exchange of messages and pics, if there's obvious mutual attraction, we want to meet up for a coffee/beer to see if the flesh and peersonality is as good as the text and photos. After that we generally arrange to play very soon thereafter.

We think people who post those statements on their profiles have probably found, as we have, that some peeps (definitely a minority) get off on the exchange of messages, emails and photos and never really get to meet up. In our case, we are relaxed about the scene, certainly not hard-core or wham-bam types, but we are here for the sex more than the social side, and we don't need any email penpals.

Equally we dont enjoy the chatrooms or cam sessions. There's lots of porn available out there if we fncy it - we just use Fab to arrange meets with real people.

But, each to their own.

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can see both sides to the argument, i tend to find after a couple emails you already have a good idea if you would want to meet, socially or otherwise. That said i do enjoy a bit of mail flirt and banter....

I must say though the phrases the OP used as examples do tend to put me off a bit which is why i tend to do most of my communication in the chat rooms...

As a single male i'm a probably in the minority in that I very rarely will send a mail to someone i havent spoken to before, in 5 month on here, probably less than 10 times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. Have seen on various profiles 'no endless messages' or no 'ping pong messages'

This puts me off a bit as it seems like they are saying 'sod the polite bit I just want sex'

Is this just me ? xxx"

Well i don't see it like that myself. I always think they are referring to the people who send endless messages over weeks/ months but never get any further than messages.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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When we say we don't want ping pong mails we mean not endless mails every day for weeks on end or endless " how are you" mails inbetween saying we are going to meet someone and actually doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with TwoBiTwo and we have a very similar approach. Happy to exchange messages but as soon as we all decide there's an initial attraction we arrange to meet up for a drink. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on the end of the ping pong messages scenario and it can leave one feeling a bit dis-interested especially when it goes on for months and no meet . How much info do you need for a NSA bit of fun.

Just like people put down no whites , no blacks or no asians on there profiles . Same thing a preference .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like people put down no whites , no blacks or no asians on there profiles . Same thing a preference .

Don't see how you can compare the OP to tHis statement.

I can understand the OP thinking the writer wants to forego the niceties...I'm sure some mean just that. However I'd use it to mean I don't want endless daily messages of "how are you" but no effort put into arranging even a social meet.

As we know, some people just like the fantasy but never really have any intention of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like people put down no whites , no blacks or no asians on there profiles . Same thing a preference .

did i moss this in the original thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ping pong mails can get me very bored very quickly.

if someone is my type i generally will know within the 2 or 3 messages without a face photo as well !!!!

strange this is i am one for banter and quick witted replies and if a message can make me smile its a good sign

if the profile is lacking like the messages usually the person or couple isnt for me.

yes I like to mail people get to know them before a meet but nothing wrong with a social call and then a meet for a drink of nothing clicks then walk away

I wouldn't do cold meets when your hardly know the person and don't know what triggers them i so much prefer a bit of banter flirting and chemistry even thou im after nsa i still like the attraction and chemistry.

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