FabSwingers.com forum: Looks and Personality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is for all how do you see other members profile?

When seeking men

Mr prefect-nice guy- handsome does not matter for personality you decide

When seeking women

Supermodel nice lady or sexy does not matter for personality you decide

When seeking couples

Sexy or nice couple or does not matter

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

Attraction comes in multiple formats and is different for everyone. In day to day life it’s incredibly important to treat everyone as you yourself would wish to be treated. Face to face is much easier than here in internet land.

Here we have profiles and photos that the user wishes to share with us but tone is easy to misinterpret in a written message.

To get intimate with someone, I have to be attracted to them as a person. It’s not just what they look like, it’s the whole package for me.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We rather they have good personality first followed by looks. As not everyone on this planet are supermodels it's meant to be about having fun. Our better meets have been with people we've had a good old laugh with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Attraction comes in multiple formats and is different for everyone. In day to day life it’s incredibly important to treat everyone as you yourself would wish to be treated. Face to face is much easier than here in internet land.

Here we have profiles and photos that the user wishes to share with us but tone is easy to misinterpret in a written message.

To get intimate with someone, I have to be attracted to them as a person. It’s not just what they look like, it’s the whole package for me. "
i see well what most of the single guys told on here it looks more than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual attraction between all parties, both mentally and physically. No point if one party isn’t happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met couples who's pics were stunning, but as soon as we meet at a social they suddenly become ugly. A good personality is much more important than a pretty face

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I've got neither, luckily people still want to shag my wife though!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Here we have profiles and photos that the user wishes to share with us but tone is easy to misinterpret in a written message.

To get intimate with someone, I have to be attracted to them as a person. It’s not just what they look like, it’s the whole package for me.

i see well what most of the single guys told on here it looks more than anything else

I don't think that's true at all, whenever a thread like this crops up the general consensus is that BOTH looks and personality are important with personality generally being the prime factor.

That said there has to be a physical attraction too, but physical attraction is subjective and what I may consider physically attractive another person may not - to give an example thousands of people think Katie Price and Naomi Campbell are physically attractive, personally I find them both pretty ugly and not just because of their abhorrent personalities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want both. Look and personality but not in equal measure.

I first need to be attracted by the look before investigating the personality.

Having said that, I can be pleased by a large spectrum of look and don't have a definite type of woman. Therefore, personality outweights the look, as you described it, in most case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For casual encounters I'm attracted to the exact opposite of I would be looking for in a partner. I want pure brute strength, a one track filthy mind and an emotional off-switch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing for me is i dont share my face pic until i have established how we bounce of each other mentally thu messages and if i can build a certain level of interest in how they react to certain things then if im comfotable i will send a mug shot il never ask for one from them.

Im not chasing cars like a sex crazed dog im not going to jump thru hoops for a meet and if at the end of that we meet so be it

If not again it wasnt meant to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm not attracted to someone's face their personality won't matter. If I am attracted to their face their personality can put me off.

Also, someone can have a nice face and personality but I don't feel any sexual attraction to them.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"If I'm not attracted to someone's face their personality won't matter. If I am attracted to their face their personality can put me off.

Also, someone can have a nice face and personality but I don't feel any sexual attraction to them."

This every time.

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