FabSwingers.com forum: The real reason for joining fab?

By *iveshowcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would be.

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined to meet liberated, like-minded people. For me that doesn't mean they lack discernment.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would be.

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

It’s true for me. My age make me invisible out there and I don’t ‘go out’ like it seems most people do so don’t meet people that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have to agree unfortunately. Some of the messages I get can be downright rude and abrupt and some men seem to think I'm sitting at home just waiting for a message saying "I'm horny, fancy a fuck". I have also received messages from people and, if that's the way they speak to people face to face, no wonder they say they are desperate.

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By *iveshowcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

That accurately describes us as well.

However given some of the venomous reactions from some guys on getting a polite rejection I think they have different expectations.

Invariably those guys who put in the least effort seem to be the most offended at getting a no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just joined because it was cheap

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By *.LBCouple
over a year ago

South

Being able to meet guys that fit the wife’s criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would be.

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

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i would probably agree with most of what you said . i probably would have trouble getting sex in the real world . but i would not just have sex with anyone . contary to belief lots of men on here have standards . including me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get laid without being thought a slag. They probably still thought I was one though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined out of curiosity, have returned out of habit and stayed for the friendships and the fucking

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I joined because its another social website.. be it a swingers site or what ever.. ultimately for me.. its somewhere to talk and meet.

(And my opinion.. I have more luck in the outside, but dont go out as much as I do)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined because I thought that I would find mature, sexually experienced, enlightened men

I was hoodwinked

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would be.

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

We have said similar before in an old thread and got trounced by the usual trolls.

We moved from another site as it was dying on its ass and Fab seemed a bit more lively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined because I thought that I would find mature, sexually experienced, enlightened men

I was hoodwinked"

Me too!!

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By *iveshowcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"I joined because I thought that I would find mature, sexually experienced, enlightened men

I was hoodwinked"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To empty my lovely testicles full of sperms into lovely vaginas in the hope of seeding those females.

Didn't work so far...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I can't meet in the real world, I also find it very difficult to meet on here as well.

I've already been without sex for over a year but I'd rather that then respond to some of the messages I receive on here, it's all in the attitude I find and most of the attitudes displayed on here are abhorrent unfortunately

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By *iveshowcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I suspect the same applies on fab as it does in the real world.

If you have a bad attitude, poor personal hygiene. Make little effort. And have an aura of absolute entitlement you will get no positive response.

On fab or the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined Fab because I wished to indulge my enthusiasms with like minded people away from my professional and public lives. My personal and private lives are my business.

I have no difficulty in attracting partners in my public life, but I have no desire to.

Whilst there are some genuinely lovely people here, there is quite a significant proportion of people who I think fail to understand how this ‘works’. It’s not transactional.

I think that the internet and online shopping has a lot to do with it. We’ve become conditioned to finding what we want online, ordering it and then expecting it to materialise immediately. That expectation for some seems not to differentiate between a pizza, a book, or sex.

The basic art of conversation, seduction and social interaction is quite clearly lost on some!

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By *iveshowcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

"I joined because I thought that I would find mature, sexually experienced, enlightened men

I was hoodwinked"

Ditto lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work away from home so thought no better place to come and find some fun and maybe some friends to hang out with while I’m away from home.

So far so good for me

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By *iveshowcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"I joined Fab because I wished to indulge my enthusiasms with like minded people away from my professional and public lives. My personal and private lives are my business.

I have no difficulty in attracting partners in my public life, but I have no desire to.

Whilst there are some genuinely lovely people here, there is quite a significant proportion of people who I think fail to understand how this ‘works’. It’s not transactional.

The basic art of conversation, seduction and social interaction is quite clearly lost on some!"

Exactly. Some people think this site works like Domino's pizza. Check out the site, put in your order and wait for the order to arrive at the door 15 minutes later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like sex. With lots of people.

I'm now single so can do this without guilt.

However am now struggling with the letting people in my flat aspect

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By *utDoSomeMoreCouple
over a year ago

Southport

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would be.

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

The first part is exactly why we joined. Realistically it's hard to find a guy in the real world that would be up for mmf fun with me and Ashley.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to meet couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no expectations. Maybe that's why I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined because I'm a bit socially awkward and often very shy about sexual attraction in the "real world". I like Fab because it gets the awkward bit over with straight away, as it were.

It doesn't make me any less selective about who I go for, or any more tolerant of idiots : )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect the same applies on fab as it does in the real world.

If you have a bad attitude, poor personal hygiene. Make little effort. And have an aura of absolute entitlement you will get no positive response.

On fab or the real world."

I’m none of those things but have no positive response in the ‘real world’

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yep! We'd have trouble getting laid in the real world,it's really difficult finding men and couples wanting what we're after in our local.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

That and we're absolute mingers of course.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"I joined to meet liberated, like-minded people. For me that doesn't mean they lack discernment. "

Exactly this, there are some on here out of desperation but there are many that love Fab because it connects people that love liberated recreational sex, these people are socially adept, attractive lovely souls and would do very well on the vanilla dating scene but Fab delivers what’s wanted and needed without any misconceptions, relationship commitments or judgement (unless you’re on the forum asking stupid questions). Fab is simply... this is me, this is what I want, this is who I want, do you want some too and will you do it to me (possibley on numerous different occasions)?

I love Fab and I’d have never connected with the people I have without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect the same applies on fab as it does in the real world.

If you have a bad attitude, poor personal hygiene. Make little effort. And have an aura of absolute entitlement you will get no positive response.

On fab or the real world.

I’m none of those things but have no positive response in the ‘real world’

I find that surprising, having just read your profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined to meet liberated, like-minded people. For me that doesn't mean they lack discernment.

I love Fab and I’d have never connected with the people I have without it"

Absolutely nailed it there. Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No doubt alot of guys come here thinking that. Its a sex friendly site after all. Most just lack in subtleness and mannors. But.. For me, I actually get more success (general interest, conversation, socials and yes sex) from tinder.

I came on here to meet someone like minded, regular, for exploration and general fun. Thought it would be easier to cut out the middle man so to speak, as I dont aggressively seek NSA on dating sites. I do like chat and attention and dont want to just be a fuck boy. Still need a connection, just without any confusion of dating and where its going which is the issue with dating sites.

In reality, its very hard on here being a single guy and not being a regular club gower. 90% dont reply and when you do it often ends in being ghosted, So ive nit had any meets from here and have succumb to just being patient and using the forums.. The chats on here are hilarious

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

We joined as love experimenting with others. But mainly because female has an insatiable see drive and needs lots of sex all the time. Since joining she has a regular boyfriend and one or two other guys she meets for sex

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I joined to meet liberated, like-minded people. For me that doesn't mean they lack discernment.

I love Fab and I’d have never connected with the people I have without it"

I agree with you. Likewise I would not have with those I have without the existence of Fab. It’s akin to a sweet shop window! I only pick those that look as if they may taste as good as the look

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

* connected ( missed a word!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"* connected ( missed a word!)"

Unforgivable.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"I do have to agree unfortunately. Some of the messages I get can be downright rude and abrupt and some men seem to think I'm sitting at home just waiting for a message saying "I'm horny, fancy a fuck". I have also received messages from people and, if that's the way they speak to people face to face, no wonder they say they are desperate.

definitely agree with this view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget what I said, The Silverfux and SooDinim have summed it up perfectly x

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By *eraint33Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

"I joined Fab because I wished to indulge my enthusiasms with like minded people away from my professional and public lives. My personal and private lives are my business.

I have no difficulty in attracting partners in my public life, but I have no desire to.

Whilst there are some genuinely lovely people here, there is quite a significant proportion of people who I think fail to understand how this ‘works’. It’s not transactional.

The basic art of conversation, seduction and social interaction is quite clearly lost on some!"

Exactly this. The sexually liberated lifestyle is still not socially well accepted in mainstream society. The opportunity to meet like minded and non-judgemental people isn't something you find down your local or wandering around Sainsbury too often is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would be.

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

It’s true for me. My age make me invisible out there and I don’t ‘go out’ like it seems most people do so don’t meet people that way.

With boobs like yours I find it hard to believe youre invisible lol

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"I joined to meet liberated, like-minded people. For me that doesn't mean they lack discernment.

I love Fab and I’d have never connected with the people I have without it

I agree with you. Likewise I would not have with those I have without the existence of Fab. It’s akin to a sweet shop window! I only pick those that look as if they may taste as good as the look

And you tasted pretty damn good....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shortcut to a variety of men, and willies. None of the call don't call thing.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would be.

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

Fab fits in with my work life. I don't have a problem meeting people in the real world but my work schedule isn't conducive to a normal relationship. I do miss closeness though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined to actively avoid relationships following a pretty shambolic run of romance and to engage more actively with my bisexuality.

I achieved the latter aim pretty well but rather fabulously totally missed the first goal. Wouldn’t change either for all the tea in China.

(For info, I didn’t appear to struggle to “pull” prior to Fab)

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I joined to meet liberated, like-minded people. For me that doesn't mean they lack discernment.

I love Fab and I’d have never connected with the people I have without it

I agree with you. Likewise I would not have with those I have without the existence of Fab. It’s akin to a sweet shop window! I only pick those that look as if they may taste as good as the look

And you tasted pretty damn good....

(Strawberry surprise! ) Thank you x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"* connected ( missed a word!)

Unforgivable.

Oh god

. An ‘ over my knee’ mistake ....

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I think most people have trouble getting laid in the real world let alone online. Standards are just as high here then in Public places

Men want sex, women want companionship

Women hold sex till they have companionship But want sex anyway

Men get sex elsewhere from Escorts or sex sites like this

it a crazy world

just love each other

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I joined to try all the things I've never done, I get plenty sex so not that desperate,probably why I've never met anyone from this site. Most,are just too weird, for my interests, I can go to a,super market and pick up women quite easily, as they are more normal, so fab you haven't been much use to me apart from some fine photos

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By *iveshowcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Some interesting comments posted. Thank you all.

Common sense tells me that there are a variety of perfectly sound reasons behind joining fab.

However most couples and females will no doubt admit they have been contacted by people whose reasons are much more concerning. Even if the sender doesn't himself/herself recognise this.

My original point I think still stands. Those individuals least in need of a site like fab to make connections will find it useful. Those most incapable of making human connections in the real world will find it equally unrewarding.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We joined because we figured it would be easier to get the type of fun we are after using fab .

This has generally been the case , although we take breaks and get out and about in the real world as much as using the site now .

It’s certainly not because we can’t pull in the real world .

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

nr Letterkenny

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would b

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

I'd say your right for a significant percentage of guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’m not in a relationship and currently don’t want to be so I don’t want to meet someone in a more conventional way and feed them a load of crap about a possible relationship just because I basically want sex with them . I figured there is a possibility to meet like minded on here that’s all .Plus I am open to meeting a couple or maybe going to a club.

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would be.

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

Tbh I get more sex in the 'real' world. I was hoping Fab would be a hotbed of sexual anarchy and revolution. Instead it's a place where Roger and Maureen want to meet people and have sex in their caravan.

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By *iveshowcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would be.

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

Lol. You might be more accurate than you think.

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By *oomforalittleoneWoman
over a year ago

fife

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would be.

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

You could start a new trend

Vanarchy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m practically a recluse. I joined up to get the sex and the sex is what i got.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To empty my lovely testicles full of sperms into lovely vaginas in the hope of seeding those females.

Didn't work so far...

*Opens butt hole*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To empty my lovely testicles full of sperms into lovely vaginas in the hope of seeding those females.

Didn't work so far...

*Opens butt hole*"

Hahahahahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arrived here looking for someone specific (found him, satisfied my curiosity), but decided to stay because I found to my surprise that it perfectly suited my lifestyle. I have no patience with vanilla dating sites, and enjoy sex too much to have long periods of abstinence. With careful choices to separate proverbial wheat from chaff, I'm having the best sex of my life and have no intention of stopping just yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm a munter!

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would be.

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

It’s true for me. My age make me invisible out there and I don’t ‘go out’ like it seems most people do so don’t meet people that way.

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..me also,I do have a few female fwb from the real world,but none that 'tick all the boxes' so hopefully will find someone here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short answer - sex!

Longer answer - after being married for over 20 years in a largely sexless marriage for the last 10, we separated and will be divorced soon. Since then I've done the dating thing and had a couple of very passionate short term relationships (6 & 3 months) which reignited my long-suppressed sexual desires. I have an active social life but anyone I've met through that or the dating thing have been looking for their next husband/long term partner and that's not what I want - maybe one day but I'm happy in my own space with no obligations.

Having rediscovered my sexuality, I want to explore that some more - I'm under no illusions, just one of a lot of guys on here so finding play partners will take time but intend sticking around and seeing how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I arrived here looking for someone specific (found him, satisfied my curiosity), but decided to stay because I found to my surprise that it perfectly suited my lifestyle. I have no patience with vanilla dating sites, and enjoy sex too much to have long periods of abstinence. With careful choices to separate proverbial wheat from chaff, I'm having the best sex of my life and have no intention of stopping just yet. "

Harlot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Harlot

You're a bad influence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined because of a man, I rejoined because of a man (both I met on tinder lol). I stayed because it’s addictive and love the forums. Plus getting to chat to people and make friends with people I would otherwise not have got to meet (online or in the real world).

Hoped people would be more honest about their agendas on here (obviously that’s as mixed as I would expect).

I’m not everyone’s cup of tea but it’s a good place to meeting people who’s cup of tea I am or might be and have some fun.

Oh yes I suppose I ‘might’ be on here because I have a few things on my sexual bucket list too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Harlot

You're a bad influence.

Why thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We originally joined to find a regular guy to join us for threesome fun, and Craig’s List wasn’t working. We found what we were looking for several times over, but also found a fantastic circle of friends who love to party and shag. We can’t be arsed to meet new guys privately any more, so our original reasons are now obsolete. But we stay here, as Fab remains the doorway to what is now a lifestyle choice for us.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm a desperate, lying, time wasting rat...... not ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone explain how any thinks that line will Work

“I’m horny, fancy a fuck”

Bewildering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real reason is, when i was living abroad where i got my experience from my meet a British swinging couple that when i return here plus someone else told me about this site

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By *iveshowcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

We just received the most obnoxious message from one creep who couldn't deal with rejection. Even reading the fab name he uses clearly illustrates he is not the sort of man any sensible person would want to meet.

Needless to say he is unverified.

And almost a virgin in real life also.

That's the difficulty with fab. People like this read a profile. See the pics and their sense of entitlement is mortally offended by rejection of their crude and unpleasant approach.

Thankfully their messages invariably exude "weird" so they are easy to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect the same applies on fab as it does in the real world.

If you have a bad attitude, poor personal hygiene. Make little effort. And have an aura of absolute entitlement you will get no positive response.

On fab or the real world.

I’m none of those things but have no positive response in the ‘real world’

I find that surprising, having just read your profile x"

Thank you. Unfortunately though it’s entirely true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't struggle in the real world. What is difficult is finding women who want NSA sex in the real world.

Just easier to find that on here as people are open about what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh I get more sex in the 'real' world. I was hoping Fab would be a hotbed of sexual anarchy and revolution. Instead it's a place where Roger and Maureen want to meet people and have sex in their caravan.

Haha couldn't have put it better

I joined because I recently left a long-term relationship and wanted to throw open the windows and have a bit of hot passionate fun before I start dating.

People stay, as they do on any of these social sites, because they get addicted to the little dopamine hits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined because I wanted to socialise with people who are comfortable with their sexual preferences and enjoy expressing themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I could verify and keep in touch with all the people I met in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We joined at my ( Mrs ) request to gain new sexual experiences in particular with women ... something I was too shy to try in the “ real “ world and so far I likey very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being the cynical sort I have a suspicion that the real reason some people join fab is that they are having absolutely no luck getting laid in the real world.

I leave the readers of this post to imagine the various reasons by this would be.

They in fact imagine that on fab the standards are a lot less exacting. They believe swingers will shag anyone at any time without a care.

Thoughts anyone?

Im on her for the forums and flirty banter with people on pm if i get a shag its a nice bonus but im not chasing anything im too busy for all that.

Oh and i am able to get lasses in real life i pulled a lass in a corner shop just last week buying a drink was a fun afternoon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We joined for fun! Pushing the sexual boundaries. Oh and I’m bicurious and we’d no idea how to move that forward...

MrsH x

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Been single a number of years so thought why not plus nice to meet people who are open minded and try new things thing in the bedroom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To get laid without being thought a slag. They probably still thought I was one though "

I would never think your a slag.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I came on fab to have sex with a wider variety of people. It’s developed since I joined though into social and friends which I didn’t think it ever would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined up hoping to get laid. Over a year down the line, I'm here for the forums

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