FabSwingers.com forum: Sexual master classes

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Good morning Fabsters,

We see many many threads about bad manners in the bedroom, pet hates, off putting things etc.

My question is this....

If you could do a sexual master class to pass on tips etc to others, what would be your number one tip that makes a sexual session good?

Open to guys and gals.

I’m curious what your number one is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of kissing and lots of feedback

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

So no one has anything to add? I’m surprised.

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over a year ago

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By *r Normally KinkyMan
over a year ago

Somerset

"Lots of kissing and lots of feedback "

yup just how i like it.. maybe a snack after too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda think the idea of using special techniques removes the wonderful spontaneity of it.... so would probably just say go with the flow, let yourself go, and be in tune with your partner xx

If anyone wants to test out this theory...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open communication, self awareness, lose your ego, be balanced in your thinking, your play and your responses and learn to read people emotionally and physically.

Be kind, be thoughtful and caring as well as passionate and excited by your parter and their thoughts, ideas and responses.

Also, don't be a selfish dick.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Hire a room for 3 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest turn on for me when I'm with a woman is giving oral, so I selfishly spend an inordinate amount of time doing that. They don't usually seen to mind!

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hire a room for 3 weeks. "

Hire a room for what reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication.

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By * little bit naughtyCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

"Lots of kissing and lots of feedback "

Absolutely!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Any hole is not a goal if there is no attraction from the beginning, your response with be shit and lack passion.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Open communication, self awareness, lose your ego, be balanced in your thinking, your play and your responses and learn to read people emotionally and physically.

Be kind, be thoughtful and caring as well as passionate and excited by your parter and their thoughts, ideas and responses.

Also, don't be a selfish dick."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking it slowly to find out what your partner likes; honesty and communication; drop any assumption along the lines of "all men/women like this"

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Pay attention.

Pay attention to all the movements and twitches, sighs and moans, expressions and flickers of the eye.

Everyone is different and often people can't easily articulate what they want (or don't even know it if they haven't experienced it before). Pay attention and figure out what your erstwhile partner wants, needs or craves - and then do your best to give them exactly that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What 1 likes others may not?

No one is a master.

It's all about the connection between the 2.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Top tip is learn to read your partners body. Even if you blow their mind one time, the next time might not do it, for a huge variety of reasons. Every single time is a unique experience.

And always ask before you slip a finger in her bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be like Bruce Lee.

Don't think.

Feeeeeel

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think there's only one thing that makes for good sex and that's communication. Too many people seem to think they *know* what other people will like, I see virtue signalling in a sexual sense every day on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be like Bruce Lee.

Don't think.

Feeeeeel

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be like water....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be like Bruce Lee.

Don't think.

Feeeeeel

be like water...."

and whatever you do - don't concentrate on the finger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being with the right person

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Good hygiene...

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By *lackitncoCouple
over a year ago

brownhills

Laugh laugh and laugh some more is the greatest aphrodisiac we find

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Open communication, self awareness, lose your ego, be balanced in your thinking, your play and your responses and learn to read people emotionally and physically.

Be kind, be thoughtful and caring as well as passionate and excited by your parter and their thoughts, ideas and responses.

Also, don't be a selfish dick."

Perfect!

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Open communication, self awareness, lose your ego, be balanced in your thinking, your play and your responses and learn to read people emotionally and physically.

Be kind, be thoughtful and caring as well as passionate and excited by your parter and their thoughts, ideas and responses.

Also, don't be a selfish dick.

+1"

You forgot take them to maplins

(Kaz)

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Loads and loads of kissing. Gets her properly wet. A little stroking, pulling back of hair at neck. Then slow sensual strokes along back, occasional squeeze of ass but not prolonged.

Slight nibble on neck, side under ear particularly.

Should I go on?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Loads and loads of kissing. Gets her properly wet. A little stroking, pulling back of hair at neck. Then slow sensual strokes along back, occasional squeeze of ass but not prolonged.

Slight nibble on neck, side under ear particularly.

Should I go on?"

Actually ye can all fuck off!

Ain't giving away my advantage to the masses.

Ye're all hung like studs, so I gotta keep what is my mojo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop watching porn!

Its not real sex, get out books read and learn. Plenty of websites of positions and plenty on points of view what people like to give ideas of things to try.

Understand not every person likes the same things or the what works on one wont always work on another.

Books I recommend -

- Orgasms over 100 truly explosive tips

- pocket kama sutra

- 203 ways to drive a man wild in bed

- lesbian sex secrets for men

- 227 ways to unleash the sex goddess in every woman

- hot sex

- real lover

- joy of sex

- the sex book

- guide to the kama sutra

If you need the isbn numbers let me know

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Stop watching porn!

Its not real sex, get out books read and learn. Plenty of websites of positions and plenty on points of view what people like to give ideas of things to try.

Understand not every person likes the same things or the what works on one wont always work on another.

Books I recommend -

- Orgasms over 100 truly explosive tips

- pocket kama sutra

- 203 ways to drive a man wild in bed

- lesbian sex secrets for men

- 227 ways to unleash the sex goddess in every woman

- hot sex

- real lover

- joy of sex

- the sex book

- guide to the kama sutra

If you need the isbn numbers let me know

You forgot Anaïs Non, Henry Miller and Erica Jong

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Stop watching porn!

Its not real sex, get out books read and learn. Plenty of websites of positions and plenty on points of view what people like to give ideas of things to try.

Understand not every person likes the same things or the what works on one wont always work on another.

Books I recommend -

- Orgasms over 100 truly explosive tips

- pocket kama sutra

- 203 ways to drive a man wild in bed

- lesbian sex secrets for men

- 227 ways to unleash the sex goddess in every woman

- hot sex

- real lover

- joy of sex

- the sex book

- guide to the kama sutra

If you need the isbn numbers let me know

You forgot Anaïs Non, Henry Miller and Erica Jong

Nin not Non!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop watching porn!

Its not real sex, get out books read and learn. Plenty of websites of positions and plenty on points of view what people like to give ideas of things to try.

Understand not every person likes the same things or the what works on one wont always work on another.

Books I recommend -

- Orgasms over 100 truly explosive tips

- pocket kama sutra

- 203 ways to drive a man wild in bed

- lesbian sex secrets for men

- 227 ways to unleash the sex goddess in every woman

- hot sex

- real lover

- joy of sex

- the sex book

- guide to the kama sutra

If you need the isbn numbers let me know

You forgot Anaïs Non, Henry Miller and Erica Jong

I didnt include author nancy friday either. As her books may cause offence even I skipped chapters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generals are always fighting the last war......

There is no one size fits all technique to sex.....

I’ve learned that a woman’s body is like a musical instrument.... listen to the sounds she is making and keep doing that....

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Stop watching porn!

Its not real sex, get out books read and learn. Plenty of websites of positions and plenty on points of view what people like to give ideas of things to try.

Understand not every person likes the same things or the what works on one wont always work on another.

Books I recommend -

- Orgasms over 100 truly explosive tips

- pocket kama sutra

- 203 ways to drive a man wild in bed

- lesbian sex secrets for men

- 227 ways to unleash the sex goddess in every woman

- hot sex

- real lover

- joy of sex

- the sex book

- guide to the kama sutra

If you need the isbn numbers let me know

You forgot Anaïs Non, Henry Miller and Erica Jong

I didnt include author nancy friday either. As her books may cause offence even I skipped chapters"

Nancy Friday - My Secret Garden was a revelation. Read in my early 20's. Must read again. Opened my mind to women and I recall reaping the benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop watching porn!

Its not real sex, get out books read and learn. Plenty of websites of positions and plenty on points of view what people like to give ideas of things to try.

Understand not every person likes the same things or the what works on one wont always work on another.

Books I recommend -

- Orgasms over 100 truly explosive tips

- pocket kama sutra

- 203 ways to drive a man wild in bed

- lesbian sex secrets for men

- 227 ways to unleash the sex goddess in every woman

- hot sex

- real lover

- joy of sex

- the sex book

- guide to the kama sutra

If you need the isbn numbers let me know

You forgot Anaïs Non, Henry Miller and Erica Jong

I didnt include author nancy friday either. As her books may cause offence even I skipped chapters

Nancy Friday - My Secret Garden was a revelation. Read in my early 20's. Must read again. Opened my mind to women and I recall reaping the benefits

Ive read my secret garden, forbidden flowers, men in love and I cant remember the other I read. One of the older books

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Stop watching porn!

Its not real sex, get out books read and learn. Plenty of websites of positions and plenty on points of view what people like to give ideas of things to try.

Understand not every person likes the same things or the what works on one wont always work on another.

Books I recommend -

- Orgasms over 100 truly explosive tips

- pocket kama sutra

- 203 ways to drive a man wild in bed

- lesbian sex secrets for men

- 227 ways to unleash the sex goddess in every woman

- hot sex

- real lover

- joy of sex

- the sex book

- guide to the kama sutra

If you need the isbn numbers let me know

You forgot Anaïs Non, Henry Miller and Erica Jong

I didnt include author nancy friday either. As her books may cause offence even I skipped chapters

Nancy Friday - My Secret Garden was a revelation. Read in my early 20's. Must read again. Opened my mind to women and I recall reaping the benefits

Ive read my secret garden, forbidden flowers, men in love and I cant remember the other I read. One of the older books "

Were the others as good?

I'd some serious wanking to some of the Fantasies in Secret Garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt include author nancy friday either. As her books may cause offence even I skipped chapters

Nancy Friday - My Secret Garden was a revelation. Read in my early 20's. Must read again. Opened my mind to women and I recall reaping the benefits

Ive read my secret garden, forbidden flowers, men in love and I cant remember the other I read. One of the older books

Were the others as good?

I'd some serious wanking to some of the Fantasies in Secret Garden

I believe they were good its been about 18 years since I read them

I certainly stopped thinking I was abnormal

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I didnt include author nancy friday either. As her books may cause offence even I skipped chapters

Nancy Friday - My Secret Garden was a revelation. Read in my early 20's. Must read again. Opened my mind to women and I recall reaping the benefits

Ive read my secret garden, forbidden flowers, men in love and I cant remember the other I read. One of the older books

Were the others as good?

I'd some serious wanking to some of the Fantasies in Secret Garden

I believe they were good its been about 18 years since I read them

I certainly stopped thinking I was abnormal "

Exactly the same.

Women fantasies way weirder than what I'd been thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

knowing limits... its not a porno

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

Understanding how to communicate without speaking. It’s not expected that everyone should go out and practice Tantric sex but for men I feel it’s absolutely important to understand why she wants pleasured in a certain way.

This is borderline lovemaking when many on her just want a quick get in, get out. But how great would the experience be if you get to know your partner even for that one night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Understanding how to communicate without speaking. It’s not expected that everyone should go out and practice Tantric sex but for men I feel it’s absolutely important to understand why she wants pleasured in a certain way.

This is borderline lovemaking when many on her just want a quick get in, get out. But how great would the experience be if you get to know your partner even for that one night?"

You refer to Tantric sex and lovemaking as if they are dirty words!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't'accidentally' stick it in the butt

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By *arlacumhardCouple
over a year ago

Latex

Lots and lots of foreplay, teasing each other and creating the biggest build up before sex.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Everyone will have their own likes and dislikes.

For example a lot, including us, would like people to read our profile before they message.

So much so that this week has become "Block" a knob week

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

"You refer to Tantric sex and lovemaking as if they are dirty words! "

Would that be how you've interpreted my writing?

I refer to the practice of Tantric sex in a form of love making and in my opinion there are few people who would be willing to practice Tantric sex for one night at swingers club or party.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Open communication, self awareness, lose your ego, be balanced in your thinking, your play and your responses and learn to read people emotionally and physically.

Be kind, be thoughtful and caring as well as passionate and excited by your parter and their thoughts, ideas and responses.

Also, don't be a selfish dick.

You forgot take them to maplins

(Kaz)"
that too

Carter

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Look after the Lady.

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