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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Meeting someone without a meeting verifications? In not what would convince you to? I’ve found quite a few people I would love to message/meet but their profiles insist on having meet verifications. So I’m a bit screwed (and not in a good way!). Any advice?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Well.....it’s their choice. A bit similar to this:....”Firstly, if you’ve no public pics or a 20 word profile your not for me.....”

That’s your choice. We all have preferences. Some people do meet unverified people but my real advice is to look out for an organised social and go to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few unverified men.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

From a female perspective?...no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met none verified in the past but we have been disappointed so don’t anymore. The best thing you could do is maybe go to a club to get verified or advertise a social meet first

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"From a female perspective?...no chance "

Not on my own, that is.

A group social would be ok..

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Have done in the past, most times fine a few times not so fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t. And nothing would change my mind

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Yes I have met two guys that had no verifications but we did talk lots on the phone first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well.....it’s their choice. A bit similar to this:....”Firstly, if you’ve no public pics or a 20 word profile your not for me.....”

That’s your choice. We all have preferences. Some people do meet unverified people but my real advice is to look out for an organised social and go to that. "

I wasn’t criticising them and I’m fully aware it’s their choice. I was asking what I could do, not asking people to change.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I met a unverified fabber yesterday. I don't usually but he seemed to tick my boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am always unsure i should unless they can prove there genuine via phone or cam

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I've met a few people without veris - they are just a small part of the picture for me. If someone feels off when we are talking and also has none, that might make me think twice but if we get on, that's fine with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am always unsure i should unless they can prove there genuine via phone or cam"
*their

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I live 200m from a club too but I’m quite introvert in groups so it looks like I’ll just have to keep looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not think so because most say they will but seeing is believing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remembered meeting one unverified man,who only had one pic of his torso on his profile. He was very good at oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet unverified men but after lots of messages, phone calls and picture swapping.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Well.....it’s their choice. A bit similar to this:....”Firstly, if you’ve no public pics or a 20 word profile your not for me.....”

That’s your choice. We all have preferences. Some people do meet unverified people but my real advice is to look out for an organised social and go to that.

I wasn’t criticising them and I’m fully aware it’s their choice. I was asking what I could do, not asking people to change. "

I’d certainly go to the club! Just go and watch. And chat. Or find yourself a social to go to. In the meantime, get yourself known in the forum where the top 3% of fab members gather.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remembered meeting one unverified man,who only had one pic of his torso on his profile. He was very good at oral. "

Your only 250 miles away. I can be there in 5 hours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well.....it’s their choice. A bit similar to this:....”Firstly, if you’ve no public pics or a 20 word profile your not for me.....”

That’s your choice. We all have preferences. Some people do meet unverified people but my real advice is to look out for an organised social and go to that.

I wasn’t criticising them and I’m fully aware it’s their choice. I was asking what I could do, not asking people to change.

I’d certainly go to the club! Just go and watch. And chat. Or find yourself a social to go to. In the meantime, get yourself known in the forum where the top 3% of fab members gather. "

Thanks, might see if someone would like to ‘escort’ me to break the ice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we all have to start somewhere I always prefer veris but I wouldn’t discount someone just because they had none if the chatting face pics etc seemed genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i like a gamble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remembered meeting one unverified man,who only had one pic of his torso on his profile. He was very good at oral.

Your only 250 miles away. I can be there in 5 hours "

I'll be snoring by then.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Don't worry about those who won't, concentrate on those who will.

Somethings are out of your control that is the end of it, in answer to your question yes would would meet somebody without verifications but they would have to go the extra mile to convince us that they were genuine after all we all have to start somewhere.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I do not think so because most say they will but seeing is believing "

Well you can see from this thread that some ladies have met unverified users!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might if I were single. I mean if I were single looking for another single, that’s no different from what I used to do on dating sites, and I didn’t need veris then. But as a couple, we are really only comfortable to play with guys who are active on the swing scene and experienced with couples. Therefore verifications reflecting that is the norm for us.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We meet unverified people. Lots of profiles including ours have them hidden...they could say anything.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Verifications are nice, I love reading them, but they are by no means essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance, I meet so rarely that when I do meet its important that I don't waste my time on fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met an unverified guy and had (and are having a great time). The big difference was his approach. Polite, non-pushy and able to string a sentence together.

We messaged over 3 weeks before meeting and he never tried to get cheap thrills from this, so compared to most unverified males, huge change and pleasure.

So in answer to your question; it all depends

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Try a club or social event to get a couple of veri’s ... hopefully that’ll start you off!!

I’ve met unveried guys for socials before now & I know others who will, so it make a bit harder but not impossible

Good luck! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting someone without a meeting verifications? In not what would convince you to? I’ve found quite a few people I would love to message/meet but their profiles insist on having meet verifications. So I’m a bit screwed (and not in a good way!). Any advice?"

I have done many times. I'm not really interested in others opinions of someone, prefer to make my own assessment.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Meeting someone without a meeting verifications? In not what would convince you to? I’ve found quite a few people I would love to message/meet but their profiles insist on having meet verifications. So I’m a bit screwed (and not in a good way!). Any advice?"

I've met guys with no verifications and they have been really nice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice it good to hear everyone opinions of how it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting someone without a meeting verifications? In not what would convince you to? I’ve found quite a few people I would love to message/meet but their profiles insist on having meet verifications. So I’m a bit screwed (and not in a good way!). Any advice?"

Yes why wouldn’t you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met unverified men and newbies, so yes I would xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I have done. Go with your gut feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about how they come across and your gut feeling ..you could meet someone with lots of feedback,and the meet ends up not going well anyway

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We have but if they expect an invite to meet and play with us as a couple they have to meet me (the male) first for a coffee and chat.

If they actually turn up for that (many dont) and make a good impression then they get an invite to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like Clyde said to me...we once had no veris, we all start somewhere. I personally prefer verified profiles due to too many fakes and timewasters. Clyde has a more relaxed approach but still we can't find what were looking for. Like they say....if you can't beat us join us

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