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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a meet with another couple through my couple profile (and yes they are unaware of the single one) and it is a timely reminder for us not to meet a couple who have verifications but only social ones. This was their first adventure into full swap and it went horribly wrong when after an hour of chat in our hotel room I proceeded to commence play with her willing man whilst.mine was keen to play with her. After five.minutes,totally out of the blue she suddenly pushed me aside and said "I can't cope with this crap and you both had better just fuck off" before bursting into tears. I politely reminded her it was our hotel room and THEY had to leave so after 5 minutes of hurriedly dressing she barged out the door with her embarrassed partner in tow who had said nothing during this episode. We will never again meet a couple - however well we get on in the initial social meet -who have only ever met others socially despite saying they couldn't wait to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry it was such a disaster, however, I think some sympathy is due for the newbie couple. You don't really know how you're going to feel till you do it & everyone was new once. We had our first play-meet last night and it went smoothly and we both had a great time, but I wonder, perhaps she wasn't as secure in her relationship as she thought?... In my opinion, in order to swing and enjoy it, you really have to be 100% secure with your partner and with your relationship. Although that's no excuse at all for her swearing at you! That was totally uncalled for Such a shame you'd shelled out for a room and it didn't turn out the way you guys had planned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a meet with another couple through my couple profile (and yes they are unaware of the single one) and it is a timely reminder for us not to meet a couple who have verifications but only social ones. This was their first adventure into full swap and it went horribly wrong when after an hour of chat in our hotel room I proceeded to commence play with her willing man whilst.mine was keen to play with her. After five.minutes,totally out of the blue she suddenly pushed me aside and said "I can't cope with this crap and you both had better just fuck off" before bursting into tears. I politely reminded her it was our hotel room and THEY had to leave so after 5 minutes of hurriedly dressing she barged out the door with her embarrassed partner in tow who had said nothing during this episode. We will never again meet a couple - however well we get on in the initial social meet -who have only ever met others socially despite saying they couldn't wait to play."

We had a similar episode a while ago but it was the male half that freaked out! Was all very embarrassing!

Don't let it put you off

BD x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

She might not have wanted her guy to be naked with a chick or she might might not have been enjoying your guy - who knows. I take it you didn't post a quick meet now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She might not have wanted her guy to be naked with a chick or she might might not have been enjoying your guy - who knows. I take it you didn't post a quick meet now? "

Nah we knew them over a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that. Some people just lack manners. There were so many better ways she might have halted the session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear that. Some people just lack manners. There were so many better ways she might have halted the session."

Yes! I meant to mention that.

There's no need for rudeness if she'd explained how she felt I'm sure the night would have ended a lot better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbie nerves I guess. Shouldn't judge too harshly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was wrong the way they kicked off, but don't let that put you off, I'm sure there are plenty of other couples that you would have a great time with.

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

Perhaps for them the fantasy should have been just that.. Not everyone can cope seeing their other half getting intimate with another person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting but it just goes to show that not all couples are ready for swinging.

I swear a certain proportion of couples do it only because their partner wants it and Not necessarily because they both want it.

Ive had chats with couples and met a handfull too, who have been swinging for years but the woman has said that if it was her choice, she wouldn't do it and she only does it to please hubby.

What the fuck is all that about???

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

Sorry to hear it didn’t work. I’m guessing it all got too much for her.

We’re new to this. We haven’t swung yet. We were going to meet a local couple but they pulled out. But it made us realise that getting too familiar via chatting etc wasn’t what we wanted.

For us we want to meet at a social, be attracted to others , Swing & then be done!

We’ve waited & not jumped in straight away just so we can ensure we’re both ready!

We certainly don’t want to upset another couples evening.

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By *errible_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

That is really bad how she treated you, we have been asked to leave before anything even started, although we now know its what they do as they did it to some of our friends, and yrs ago the husband stopped play and told his wife it was bedtime, she was not happy, some ppl just can't handle it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand why some folks are making excuses for the newbie couple who left but let us be real here.

It does not take much imagination to see how you would feel if you saw your other half with someone else. If that does not turn you on and you are cool with it .... don't arrange to meet!!

I feel for the couple who were let down but would say that there are lots of good couples on Fab so don't let one bad experience put you off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a meet with another couple through my couple profile (and yes they are unaware of the single one) and it is a timely reminder for us not to meet a couple who have verifications but only social ones. This was their first adventure into full swap and it went horribly wrong when after an hour of chat in our hotel room I proceeded to commence play with her willing man whilst.mine was keen to play with her. After five.minutes,totally out of the blue she suddenly pushed me aside and said "I can't cope with this crap and you both had better just fuck off" before bursting into tears. I politely reminded her it was our hotel room and THEY had to leave so after 5 minutes of hurriedly dressing she barged out the door with her embarrassed partner in tow who had said nothing during this episode. We will never again meet a couple - however well we get on in the initial social meet -who have only ever met others socially despite saying they couldn't wait to play."
that is incredible, on our first meeting years ago me and my wife wear very nervous and my wife wanted to leave but she said shall we have a drink she explained they took it great and then said shall we try again and it went ok, that is not acceptable what they done without a explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met up with a newbie couple in October that was looking for a guy that was bigger than her bf.

It started ok, but then he came within 15 minutes and wr carried on as he was out of action for a bit, she tried sucking him hard again for about 5 minutes then gave up because he never even twitched.

After around 20 minutes, she was having the ride of her life (her words), then her bf gets all pissed off at me for still fucking her. She said that he wasn't getting hard so what can he do. Then it all blew up and me and him nearly had a fight over it.

They deleted their profile shortly after that.

Put me off of meeting for a mmf but, would still be open to the idea with an experienced couple.

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"Sorry to hear that. Some people just lack manners. There were so many better ways she might have halted the session.

Yes! I meant to mention that.

There's no need for rudeness if she'd explained how she felt I'm sure the night would have ended a lot better. "

Sounds like she became overwhelmed.

Did you know it was their first physical meet as a couple?

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"Sorry to hear it didn’t work. I’m guessing it all got too much for her.

We’re new to this. We haven’t swung yet. We were going to meet a local couple but they pulled out. But it made us realise that getting too familiar via chatting etc wasn’t what we wanted.

For us we want to meet at a social, be attracted to others , Swing & then be done!

We’ve waited & not jumped in straight away just so we can ensure we’re both ready!

We certainly don’t want to upset another couples evening. "

Sounds very much like our journey. Have you thought about or tried clubs?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Had a similar experience with the guy freaking out. Stopped meeting newbies, problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a meet with another couple through my couple profile (and yes they are unaware of the single one) and it is a timely reminder for us not to meet a couple who have verifications but only social ones. This was their first adventure into full swap and it went horribly wrong when after an hour of chat in our hotel room I proceeded to commence play with her willing man whilst.mine was keen to play with her. After five.minutes,totally out of the blue she suddenly pushed me aside and said "I can't cope with this crap and you both had better just fuck off" before bursting into tears. I politely reminded her it was our hotel room and THEY had to leave so after 5 minutes of hurriedly dressing she barged out the door with her embarrassed partner in tow who had said nothing during this episode. We will never again meet a couple - however well we get on in the initial social meet -who have only ever met others socially despite saying they couldn't wait to play."

Ooooh awkwardness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, perhaps too much to soon. Nerves can get the better of people but also sometimes the reality doesn’t quite match the fantasy.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

What did you learn from the ordeal?

Don't meet without verification club or non-social meet veri.

Best place for a newbie to get a veri is through going to club/party then you have a perspective of what you might be getting yourself into.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We had something similar at a club a few years back, chatted to this couple in the bar and told them a story about meeting a couple at a social once where the lady played but the male wasn't allowed to and saying we thought that was very selfish. They agreed and said how they thought everybody should be involved. Great we thought and after a few hours asked if they would like to join us, they accepted and we moved to one of the large beds in the place everybody is kissing but then the female finds and excuse to stop Alexis playing with her man. We pause and then start kissing again and she stops things again. This happens a few more times and we get fed up and call a halt to things and head back to the bar. The guy comes up and apologises saying that she gets jealous sometimes and that the only have mmf meets. I asked why then had they come to a couples only night when there were no single guys allowed in?

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west


"Sorry to hear it didn’t work. I’m guessing it all got too much for her.

We’re new to this. We haven’t swung yet. We were going to meet a local couple but they pulled out. But it made us realise that getting too familiar via chatting etc wasn’t what we wanted.

For us we want to meet at a social, be attracted to others , Swing & then be done!

We’ve waited & not jumped in straight away just so we can ensure we’re both ready!

We certainly don’t want to upset another couples evening.

Sounds very much like our journey. Have you thought about or tried clubs? "

Yes. We’re off to a few clubs soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did you havea social/ few drinks in the bar first to get toknow them

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