Club or Couple/party for First timers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well we are looking to swap in dec for the first time but cannot decide which is best Club Couple or party, if a club which one ?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

There will be no pressure to play at a club and with most parties the same applies ( best check with party organiser ).

Just go along and see how you feel, if comfortable and you meet up with someone that there is an attraction to take it further... agree boundaries and go for it.

and remember, NO can be said at any point.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best thing is to be in a private situation..

If you dont feel its right you can then duck out.. if your in a party situation with others around.. it might ruin the mood.. or be too scared to speak up if not enjoying it.

Start soft and build up..

Some can jump straight into it without a care in the world.. only you can say what your going to be happy with.

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By *asteCouple
over a year ago

Gawsworth

We would recommend Utopia which is reasonably near to you on the A64 Scarborough road - see the clubs section for details. There is no pressure at all here, in fact you will not feel out of place just socialising in the bar. Many first timers don't swing on their first night. The owners are first class. Have fun.

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