FabSwingers.com forum: Time is precious

By *ools and the brain OP Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Most of us lead hectic lives there days, work, family time, leisure activities, studies and so on.

For most play time can be limited.

While I hate to bang on about time wasters.

This is more on the vein of fantasists who.

Message, chat and seem to be perfectly fine,then start down the whole going into elaborate details of what he,she or they want.

Which is usually followed by multiple meet requests,d despite being told of busy schedule.

Yet they persist,then on the occasion we can arrange an appropriate time they are not available, and same with other three time options , this despite them saying anytime you want I will be available.

We have had on a few occasions as have others had our time wasted.

Talking about swinging doesn't make you a swinger.

At what point do you call it a day with these people,who in most cases are friendly and polite,but just seem to get a kick out of almost meeting but not quite.

And yes we fully understand that people can't just jump when we ask.but if try to be flexible it still doesn't work.

Same with clubs and parties.

We say we are going, load's of guys reply saying so are we.

Guess what,non turn up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasy is better than reality?

A the times you say you aren't available suits them, then when you are, they think..shit!

Perhaps they aren't who you think they are despite being polite etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as anyone starts to talk about what they will do with me, or want me to do, I switch off and stop replying.

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

"As soon as anyone starts to talk about what they will do with me, or want me to do, I switch off and stop replying. "

Early on we make it clear we dont do dirty chat or cam and just meet for real, it gets rid of some of the timewasters

SC xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As soon as anyone starts to talk about what they will do with me, or want me to do, I switch off and stop replying. "

Now I understand why I am still waiting for a reply to the message I sent you in 1999

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"As soon as anyone starts to talk about what they will do with me, or want me to do, I switch off and stop replying. "

Yep this is a good idea and should stop some who wanna just have a wank not meet.

If we feel anyone is being too vague or messing about,we move on and don't engage anymore.we gwt people are busy ,but if it's 24/7 then they are never going to be free

Miss

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As soon as the sex chat starts we stop messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fantasy is better than reality?

Is it? I guess I should delete my account then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fantasy is better than reality?

Is it? I guess I should delete my account then

Delete if you wish.

I wouldn't know if fantasy is better, certainly not for me. But I guess for some that is certainly the case.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I think we've all been there.

Once you can understand, twice gets a bit annoying, third time makes you think they are probably just blowing smoke up your arse.

Time is precious, but, that's fab for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As soon as anyone starts to talk about what they will do with me, or want me to do, I switch off and stop replying. "

Funnily enough so do i!

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Op I hear you. It is frustrating. I know a fine lady on here who organises Socials. She agrees more single Men than you might think healty for a social. but she does it in the full knowledge that most of the new single guys will not turn up. the ones that do for the most part are nice guys and have proved that they are not timewhasters by turning up.

I have had one or two tell me that the time before last they got as far as the venue door before running away. they pluck up the courage to try again than fine. but most never set out to come at all.

Soacials are a great way to seporte the wheat from the chaff and tend to cost less. these give you a pool of people that at the very least you know will turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve never had any trouble with timewasters since using Fab. I’m uncertain what it is we do differently. It may be because we rarely meet anyone new, so when we do meet we are absolutely sure that they are serious about meeting. I do think we are quite good at identifying those men who are ‘real’ swingers. But we also know a lot of people theough parties, so there is word of mouth to a certain extent.

Mrs

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"We’ve never had any trouble with timewasters since using Fab. I’m uncertain what it is we do differently. It may be because we rarely meet anyone new, so when we do meet we are absolutely sure that they are serious about meeting. I do think we are quite good at identifying those men who are ‘real’ swingers. But we also know a lot of people theough parties, so there is word of mouth to a certain extent.

Mrs"

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