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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not going to lie i was used last night, at the time i wanted it loved it. now drpping like fuck could do with a cuddle... anyone else get like this?

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

Did you meet a fellow fabber? How do you feel used if you wanted it?

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Yep and it sucks which is why I'm very selective with who I play with.

Be kind to yourself today. Keep busy and do something that makes you happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not going to lie i was used last night, at the time i wanted it loved it. now drpping like fuck could do with a cuddle... anyone else get like this?"

I'm sure you will get many agreeing with you. I think you will find it is quite common. If you can find someone to give you that cuddle and a bit of reassurance it will make you feel a lot better. Hopefully you will shake off that feeling. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very normal. Google "sub drop" to see what aftercare you can do for yourself.

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

Sorry. Think my comment came across as a bit harsh! Maybe you let emotions come into play.

Guess this sometimes happens to a lot of people .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

you can feel used but still consensual consent can be fluid, thank you for the nice replies x

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By *atdancerCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It's very normal. Google "sub drop" to see what aftercare you can do for yourself."

I'd agree with this.

Also, if you're tempted to play that way again in the future, try to find someone (or someones ) who will give you some aftercare immediately afterwards (cuddles, strokes, kisses, reassuring words). Preferably before you come down from your oxytocin high. That can make a lot of difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes all you need is a hug... we all feel like you are op.... Sometimes the need to be needed takes over xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a sub drop, as said above, google aftercare, have a nice relaxed bath with your favourite music on or snuggle in a big blanket and read a book, draw your mind away from it. Feel better soon OP x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im in the bath now xx

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"im in the bath now xx"

Ever fart in the bath? It gives your bum a little tickle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you are clean and dry. I will give you a massive cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is so weird to me.

Isn't sex ment to be fun ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did the physical as well as emotional pleasure you had outweigh the emotional pain you felt afterwards?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it was fun but as a sub its hard to explain... in a way even the drop is addictive

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Have a wank

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By *otts PervsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Mrs J sometimes feel deflated after some encounters, some guys haven’t the decency to stick around after the fun for a chat, kiss etc. We’re a very sensual couple and enjoy laying around naked having a laugh and chat after, as much as the sex, so disappointing when a guy just walks off straight away.

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