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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok here goes. I have a couples profile so just want to build on it without her knowledge at this moment.

I know seems a little bad but here goes.

ok well me and my wife have a brilliant sex life. I want her to take up the hotwife lifestyle with rules and boundaries of course.

basically cuckold me. however I can't just bring it up as I've tried that in the past. I'm not trying to force anything upon here but maybe slightly encourage her to try something like this

we have cages strap one etc which we use often but I want her to get fucked and love it in front of me.

so my question is how can we breach the subject of hotwifery without saying wife I want you to fuck other men. this is a no for our relationship as she doesn't respond to that kind of stuff. I want her to want to do it not back away and be awkward.

she wears an anklet but mainly because she likes it and has done for years before I met her. they are pretty and they don't stand for that she says

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By *ounger seeking helpMan
over a year ago

Wednesbury

Personally only why I can see saying something like that is as blunt as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This will get very interesting when the regulars spot it......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This will get very interesting when the regulars spot it......"

leave him alone.

Op, seriously, talk to your partner, that’s we’re any changes are going to happen.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

just come out with it.. she will either say yes or no.. I suspect no though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It started for us when cuck told me how turned on he was seeing me flirt at a party where I'd got a little tipsy

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By *tuartsCelloCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

You have to talk to her and tell her how you feel or you will get more and more frustrated. I told my wife early on what I wanted to do with her and she was a bit shocked but agreed to try it because she loves me and now we live the lifestyle and she loves it as much as I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok here goes. I have a couples profile so just want to build on it without her knowledge at this moment.

I know seems a little bad but here goes.

ok well me and my wife have a brilliant sex life. I want her to take up the hotwife lifestyle with rules and boundaries of course.

basically cuckold me. however I can't just bring it up as I've tried that in the past. I'm not trying to force anything upon here but maybe slightly encourage her to try something like this

we have cages strap one etc which we use often but I want her to get fucked and love it in front of me.

so my question is how can we breach the subject of hotwifery without saying wife I want you to fuck other men. this is a no for our relationship as she doesn't respond to that kind of stuff. I want her to want to do it not back away and be awkward.

she wears an anklet but mainly because she likes it and has done for years before I met her. they are pretty and they don't stand for that she says "

Forget it. This looks as if its all about you and what you want. It doesnt look as if she is interested and seems as if you are just looking for ways to push her into doing something she doesn't want to do for your pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok here goes. I have a couples profile so just want to build on it without her knowledge at this moment.

I know seems a little bad but here goes.

ok well me and my wife have a brilliant sex life. I want her to take up the hotwife lifestyle with rules and boundaries of course.

basically cuckold me. however I can't just bring it up as I've tried that in the past. I'm not trying to force anything upon here but maybe slightly encourage her to try something like this

we have cages strap one etc which we use often but I want her to get fucked and love it in front of me.

so my question is how can we breach the subject of hotwifery without saying wife I want you to fuck other men. this is a no for our relationship as she doesn't respond to that kind of stuff. I want her to want to do it not back away and be awkward.

she wears an anklet but mainly because she likes it and has done for years before I met her. they are pretty and they don't stand for that she says "

OP I’m a swinger of many years and have worn anklets for many years not because of any meaning that has been borrowed by the hotwife movement lol

It means what it means to her so I wouldn’t press any importance on this.

Secondary note....if she’s not into ducking other men, it’ll never be her idea. You may have to suggest MMF porn and judge her reaction to that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you guys for the advice. I'll try the mmf porn. she's a little open but being blunt and straight never works unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thank you guys for the advice. I'll try the mmf porn. she's a little open but being blunt and straight never works unfortunately "

Or your simply not listening to her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am and I think I know my wife a little more than you guys. she'll love it eventually when she comes round to it.

I just want ideas to slowly introduce it I'm not trying for force feed her cock am I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's look at this a different way then.

Have tried to have toys used as a substitute.

Would she play with a dildo in front of you. Tease you. Fuck herself. Orgasm. Knowing you were locked away and could not touch her.

What about a 2 dildo spit roast, dp or a nice black one.

Perhaps the different tack, may persuade her to sample the real thing.

Mistress Amelia x

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I am and I think I know my wife a little more than you guys. "

Do why are you asking total strangers for advice? Talk to her based on your knowledge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am and I think I know my wife a little more than you guys.

Do why are you asking total strangers for advice? Talk to her based on your knowledge!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suprises me that a couple can be in the lifestyle and not talk openly, we have discussed all sorts of scenarios openly and given each other our opinions honestly and respected them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

2e can talk buy I find asking her to fuck about hard

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By *anandLeia72Couple
over a year ago

St. Helens

Why do you have a couples profile if you're not a swinging couple? Do you swing or is it just the cuckold thing she's not into?

apologies if I've read this wrong.

my advice would be to talk and be open. No marriage or great sex life works unless you're open with each other. Dirty talk in bed after a couple of glasses of wine helps loosen the tongue I find. Sadly, if she's just not into the lifestyle, ditch the profile and work on your marriage. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The green arrow is quite revealing. Not sure how many times you have to ask the same question and get the same advice without acting on it. Nice to see that your "current girlfriend" became your wife. I think your fantasy needs to remain just that rather than trying to manipulate your partner into something that would "scare her to death " - your words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The green arrow is quite revealing. Not sure how many times you have to ask the same question and get the same advice without acting on it. Nice to see that your "current girlfriend" became your wife. I think your fantasy needs to remain just that rather than trying to manipulate your partner into something that would "scare her to death " - your words.

"

Sorry should read " scare the life out of her"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so we're going to try it. I had her suck a dildo last night whilst fucking her and told her I want her to get fucked.

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By *anandLeia72Couple
over a year ago

St. Helens

I hope you worded it in a slightly more sexy loving way than 'I want you to get fucked' otherwise she might think you want her to do one or go get wasted. Hope it works out for you.

Leia.

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