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By *andys man OP   Man
over a year ago

colchester

Just a quick question to put out out there. How far have you travelled or would you travel to meet someone? If you had been chatting for a while and fairly confident in meeting the person, im sure there is a huge difference with guys than women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of guys come from London.. and Kent.. I'm on Anglesey in North Wales. No idea what made them come so far However, if I clicked with someone.. I'd travel anywhere.. in the UK

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By *andys man OP   Man
over a year ago

colchester


"I've had a couple of guys come from London.. and Kent.. I'm on Anglesey in North Wales. No idea what made them come so far However, if I clicked with someone.. I'd travel anywhere.. in the UK "

Im in essex and used to travel yo Conwy on a regular basis 300 miles door to door

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"I've had a couple of guys come from London.. and Kent.. I'm on Anglesey in North Wales. No idea what made them come so far However, if I clicked with someone.. I'd travel anywhere.. in the UK "

I have travelled a 350 miles for a meet, that one was a foregone conclusion however for a social, i wouldn't be adverse to a couple of hours drive.

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By *andys man OP   Man
over a year ago

colchester


"I've had a couple of guys come from London.. and Kent.. I'm on Anglesey in North Wales. No idea what made them come so far However, if I clicked with someone.. I'd travel anywhere.. in the UK

I have travelled a 350 miles for a meet, that one was a foregone conclusion however for a social, i wouldn't be adverse to a couple of hours drive."

Distance isnt an issue. I guess some people are just worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anywhere for the right person. Travelled to quite a few places in Europe and it was totally worth it every time.

Not yet met anyone like that on fab though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to travel weekly to see someone 70 miles away but that's because I moved away. My ideal meet would be about 30 miles away, far enough so we can socialise easily but close enough that it's not a bore doing the journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im only looking for the FAB part of this site a regular Friend And Benefits.

So for me it's not about whether someone is worth it, if they live further then what I'm prepared to travel, I'm not going to be interested. So 30 minutes driving is my limit.

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By *aughty_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

It depends on the click

I’ve travelled from Portsmouth to Essex, Portsmouth to Bradford and Portsmouth to Nottingham to meet someone but I would be talking to them for a long time to know it’s worth the travel

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By *andys man OP   Man
over a year ago

colchester


"Anywhere for the right person. Travelled to quite a few places in Europe and it was totally worth it every time.

Not yet met anyone like that on fab though."

Distance is never an issue if the person is worth it, i used to to travel 300 miles to see someone who was totaly worth it, we ticked a lot of fuckit list boxes together and with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im only looking for the FAB part of this site a regular Friend And Benefits.

So for me it's not about whether someone is worth it, if they live further then what I'm prepared to travel, I'm not going to be interested. So 30 minutes driving is my limit.

"

I'd do the milage for you xx

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I’ve had a few long distance meets. They’ve invariably been great! X

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By *andys man OP   Man
over a year ago

colchester


"Im only looking for the FAB part of this site a regular Friend And Benefits.

So for me it's not about whether someone is worth it, if they live further then what I'm prepared to travel, I'm not going to be interested. So 30 minutes driving is my limit.

"

Im sure guys would put in the distance for you so you wouldnt have to

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By *andys man OP   Man
over a year ago

colchester


"I’ve had a few long distance meets. They’ve invariably been great! X"

Im sure any meet with you would be well worth the effort you look amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a few long distance meets. They’ve invariably been great! X"

How about shorter distance meets??? lol x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have done a two and a half hour drive each way before and would do so again for the right person.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I’ve had a few long distance meets. They’ve invariably been great! X

How about shorter distance meets??? lol x"

Hit and miss!

Some amazing - some just ok! X

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I’ve had a few long distance meets. They’ve invariably been great! X"

Some people are absolutely worth taking time to get to X

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

I met my ex online and use to do a 500mile round trip every other weekend. Did that for about 2yrs before moving in together. But as far a swingers meets I've done a few 180 mile round trips to meet the same person. But that's only if they can manage to meet me half way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many people seem to worry and be concerned on travelling distances on here and I don't know why

If you like someone distance shouldn't matter

If it's a disaster at least you've tried and had a ride out ..

Distance really dosent matter to me ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance doesn't matter so long as I'm comfortable..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a few long distance meets. They’ve invariably been great! X

Im sure any meet with you would be well worth the effort you look amazing "

Lol I never accomodate nor do hotels. So it doesn't matter if the guy drives.

I'm only seeking regular so it matters to me (and I imagine it matters to other women seeking the same) whether the guy is nearby ish or further.

I really can't be bothered traveling miles upon miles for regular sex. Not to mention the huge petrol costs and hours wasted travelling when I'd rather spend that time having fun with a friend who doesn't live far

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Back in the day, I did Milton Keynes to Glasgow on two separate occasions (700-mile round trips)...

....and MK to Plymouth (460m); Preston (350m); Leeds (300m); Dover (270m); Doncaster (250m); Newport (250m); Sheffield (240m); Norwich (225m)...

....and various others less than 200 miles, so barely worth mentioning! All were late-night or early-hours meets - some were well worth the time and distance, some not...

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I’ve had a few long distance meets. They’ve invariably been great! X

Im sure any meet with you would be well worth the effort you look amazing "

Thanks - but I like to think it’s my personality that’s worth the journey - not just my looks or a nice arse!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Most won't travel more than 30 minutes, but I have travelled up to 80 miles before now, and would again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I have travelled a 350 miles for a meet, that one was a foregone conclusion however for a social, i wouldn't be adverse to a couple of hours drive."

I would travel to the Boris Johnson home for the criminally insane

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By *siaessex2Couple
over a year ago

essex

no morn then 40mins drive

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I’ve had a few long distance meets. They’ve invariably been great! X

Im sure any meet with you would be well worth the effort you look amazing

Lol I never accomodate nor do hotels. So it doesn't matter if the guy drives.

I'm only seeking regular so it matters to me (and I imagine it matters to other women seeking the same) whether the guy is nearby ish or further.

I really can't be bothered traveling miles upon miles for regular sex. Not to mention the huge petrol costs and hours wasted travelling when I'd rather spend that time having fun with a friend who doesn't live far "

That's me exactly. A 30 min drive max for me although I have gone 45 but only because he had a hot tub and a fridge full of champagne

I'd rather spend less time in my car and more time in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a few long distance meets. They’ve invariably been great! X

Im sure any meet with you would be well worth the effort you look amazing

Lol I never accomodate nor do hotels. So it doesn't matter if the guy drives.

I'm only seeking regular so it matters to me (and I imagine it matters to other women seeking the same) whether the guy is nearby ish or further.

I really can't be bothered traveling miles upon miles for regular sex. Not to mention the huge petrol costs and hours wasted travelling when I'd rather spend that time having fun with a friend who doesn't live far

That's me exactly. A 30 min drive max for me although I have gone 45 but only because he had a hot tub and a fridge full of champagne

I'd rather spend less time in my car and more time in bed "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, a 30 minute drive is enough. Other than that I shall happily remain celibate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on time limits but most likely no more than 2 hrs drive.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelled over 200m to meet a woman that I was extensively chatting to for a couple of months beforehand, we had chemestry in abundance when messaging and on the phone so there was no way I was going to let the distance get in the way and boy was it worth it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've travelled over 200m to meet a woman that I was extensively chatting to for a couple of months beforehand, we had chemestry in abundance when messaging and on the phone so there was no way I was going to let the distance get in the way and boy was it worth it too "

Over 200 miles and not 200 meters... pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely travel for the right person!!!

No limit as such!! Depends who it is!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Just a quick question to put out out there. How far have you travelled or would you travel to meet someone? If you had been chatting for a while and fairly confident in meeting the person, im sure there is a huge difference with guys than women "

We wouldn't travel more than an hour away just for a meet, but we are not adverse to the idea of travelling much further for a meet AND doing a bit of sight seeing, catching a show, and other vanilla things to make a weekend of it.

Cal

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"We wouldn't travel more than an hour away just for a meet, but we are not adverse to the idea of travelling much further for a meet AND doing a bit of sight seeing, catching a show, and other vanilla things to make a weekend of it.

Cal"

*Waves from sunny Cornwall*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh we wouldn't travel more than 15 miles. However I did have someone drive from Cornwall to manchester to see me

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

If we know you then 30 mins driving, if we don't know you then it's our local pub or HU9 club just 4 miles from us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel anywhere if I enjoyed to chat and build up to it , I'd even look into a weekend away with someone if it felt rite , love hotels and new places, even better when you are with someone there's been some sexual build up with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had invitations from a couple of places that I'd class as too far. I think a 6 hour drive is a bit much personally

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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago

Leicester

A hour and a half max North (about Sheffield), East (the other side of Peterborough) West (about Wolverhampton)... If it's south then will go into London

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drove to Weymouth which is about two and a half hours about four years ago . She answered the door in a raincoat with sexy lingerie underneath so the distance suddenly became irrelevant.....ball ache of a drive home the next day though.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I'd travel to the ends of the universe for a decent cuppa tea, homemade biscuits & ohhh cake too

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