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Anybody had a "disturbing" meet.?

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By *olywellfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Holywell

I have been very fortunate to have met some lovely couples on here several of which have been kind enough to invite me back but not every meet goes as smoothly.

Following a couple of "coherent" telephone calls I met a couple from West Wales and it was soon obvious he was on something. In between popping out of the room to snort whatever, he made it quite clear what he wanted me to do to him and his other half. She was also half stoned but I got a sense she went along with what he wanted but reluctantly. Feeling very uncomfortable I made my excuses and left only to find later a string of vile and threating telephone, text and wattsapp messages accusing me of raping his wife. They closed their profile but I have a suspicion they may be on again under another name.

Anybody else had it that bad.?

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

That's bloody awful it you think they're back on , block and report them.

I've had one terrible meet. I now won't go to anyone's house until I've met them a few times

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve had two. Not sure I’d describe them as disturbing more odd or bizarre. I’m still laughing about them. Lol.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

That's nasty OP.

I've had one experience that freaked me out and put me off meeting anyone new for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met someone that had 10 cats....

The person was very nice but the stench of cat litter was really a mood killer

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester

Def the kind of thing you don't want.

Even though they have closed their profile I'd make a note of their user name and make Admin aware of the problem.

I would also make copies of those phone messages, your phone record (dates/time etc) and the day/date time of this meet accounting for as much of it as you can remember and lodge a copy of that info with a trusted friend/solicitor if you have one, just in case these idiots try to take it further.

Being prepared will def help if they do.

If you spoke to them in the chatrooms remember Admin records all chat messaging too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but on another site.

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By *heDevilsinthedetailMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Had one very similar where I turned up and both of them had obviously taken a significantly amount of drugs so I made my excuses and left only to be sent messages accusing me of wasting their time

I’d never go along with a meet when people are not in a frame of mind to make clear rational decisions. It’s about having fun and enjoying yourself not making decisions you’ll regret the following day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had two. Not going to go into details, but things were done that I had definitely not consented to beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It didn't turn into a meet, because I saw the warning signs, but a guy messaged me asking if I'd fuck his wife, sent me some photos,of her and the both of them together. She was stunning, he looked like a serial killer. Tineye on the photos. Hmmm, porn shoot.Reported to admin as hes photo verified and his profile picture is from the same stolen set of pictures.So not a disturbing meet, but I think it shows not to trust the little green verified flag!

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By *olywellfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Holywell


"Def the kind of thing you don't want.

Even though they have closed their profile I'd make a note of their user name and make Admin aware of the problem.

I would also make copies of those phone messages, your phone record (dates/time etc) and the day/date time of this meet accounting for as much of it as you can remember and lodge a copy of that info with a trusted friend/solicitor if you have one, just in case these idiots try to take it further.

Being prepared will def help if they do.

If you spoke to them in the chatrooms remember Admin records all chat messaging too."

This happened several months ago and I had a copy of some of the texts. Your right perhaps I should have reported this to admin but they deleted their profile within a few days. I must admit it was very worrying at the time as stoned nutters with your contact details are a loose cannon. While many of us enjoy meeting strangers with perhaps the intention of making friends for mutual fun this did make me very aware of how we can all be exposed when the moon is out.

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