FabSwingers.com forum: How often are Females stood up with meets on here

By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

im just wondering how often females get let down or stood up after a meet is arranged.

seems to happen a lot to us guys. or is it just me?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Nearly 8 years on fab and it’s not happened to me yet

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

None so far

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

None here in nearly 12 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in the scene 5 years and only had one person stood me up.

I had one guy though who did everything to me except fuck me, I couldn't quite work that out

Thankfully every other man has always wanted a 2nd meet, otherwise I would of become paranoid there was something wrong with me.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I’ve only ever been stoop up once - as in, turning up but being the only one!

I’ve had a spate of blokes the last couple of weeks who have stopped chatting or disappeared after arranging a meet - that’s a bit irritating but part and parcel. It’s one of the reasons I’m focusing mainly on clubs at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in 7 yrs so not too bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than we’ve had turn up lol guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not actually stood up, but some very last minute cancellations after kennels had been booked and child arrangements changed. A fair amount of ghosting after dates have been suggested. I guess the chase was over then. I get the impression that has increased for everyone.

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I’ve had a couple of last minutes cancellations, but they have always been rearranged....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been let down twice.one was real last minute.was so pissed off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a lot for me

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've been stood up and it absolutely sucks. Makes you think it's going to happen every. single. time

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

A fair few times

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

so its clearly a thing that happens to both sexes.

i get it a fair bit. along with the sudden stop in messages. and the sudden disappearances.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I haven’t been let down so far.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Not sure if meeting up for an introductory drink can be classed as a "meet" but I have been stood up a few times. Some men seem to have a problem with having a cup of coffee with a woman if they are not going to sleep with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im just wondering how often females get let down or stood up after a meet is arranged.

seems to happen a lot to us guys. or is it just me?"

Happened 3 times with me. I travel so it's my time, effort, money and petrol being wasted.

Those guys chicken out over what though, I'll never understand it. Was only a social which could of led to alot more if mutal attraction was there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so its clearly a thing that happens to both sexes.

i get it a fair bit. along with the sudden stop in messages. and the sudden disappearances. "

I usually get this after I ask for a quick 3 way chat with the wife....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never dream of it

If you do your a fuckin looser

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By *ornysxcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

Happens more than we like, guys full of it, but then get scared and run away when Mrs shows any signs of dominance lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s never happened to us and we’ve been using Fab for over 3 years.

Mrs

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"im just wondering how often females get let down or stood up after a meet is arranged.

seems to happen a lot to us guys. or is it just me?"

Twice in the last year.

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"I would never dream of it

If you do your a fuckin looser"

Well yeah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never been stood up for a play meet. Had one no-show for a coffee, so I went shopping instead

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

I've attempted to meet two different guys, yet they've binned me off when I suggested an actual meet. Weirdly though, they're both still talking about meeting, but that ship has sailed now for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in 6 years for me and I knew he wasn't turning up, because of how far he was coming and me telling him it's not going to happen when he spoke about touching me under the pub table.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I have both had to cancel and been cancelled on a few times (illness, work, life), but these have been rearranged.

I've not been stood up or cancelled and blocked.

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"I would never dream of it

If you do your a fuckin looser

Well yeah!"

clearly idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im just wondering how often females get let down or stood up after a meet is arranged.

seems to happen a lot to us guys. or is it just me?"

Non so far

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"im just wondering how often females get let down or stood up after a meet is arranged.

seems to happen a lot to us guys. or is it just me?

Twice in the last year. "

Very Cleary idiots

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Never been stood up but only because I won't leave the house unless I am 100% sure all is well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what's the answer op? I need to know the probability of me being stood up on my next meet as I've not been stood up in 6 years so I need to know if I'm due a stand up situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been stood up but only because I won't leave the house unless I am 100% sure all is well!"

That's why I didn't bother changing out of my Pjs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im just wondering how often females get let down or stood up after a meet is arranged.

seems to happen a lot to us guys. or is it just me?

Twice in the last year.

Very Cleary idiots

Nice white knighting there.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

You can soon spot which women or couples are going to be flaky and likely to be a let down and either move on or be cautious.Decent people make proper arrangements and confirm all is well of the day of the meet etc.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I've been stood up and it absolutely sucks. Makes you think it's going to happen every. single. time

This is why meeting new people has lost a lot of its enjoyment for me. I just assume they will cancel or ghost and they normally do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me this week , pisses me off , too much trouble so say sorry can't make it . Arseholes!!

Sorry rant over ...

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

This year I've had someone turn up for a hotel meet over 2 hrs late. I had left and gone home by then and I've had a social cancelled this wk as I had a meet a couple of days before and he wasn't impressed

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"Happened to me this week , pisses me off , too much trouble so say sorry can't make it . Arseholes!!

Sorry rant over ..."

dont be sorry you rant away

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"Never been stood up but only because I won't leave the house unless I am 100% sure all is well!

That's why I didn't bother changing out of my Pjs."

Absolutely brilliant

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"So what's the answer op? I need to know the probability of me being stood up on my next meet as I've not been stood up in 6 years so I need to know if I'm due a stand up situation

i think the answer is 69 its the only number where both can be happy at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me! I'd better not bother meeting ever again...I don't think I've that many meets left in me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice bit of a nuisance but nice to have backup lined up

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"Fuck me! I'd better not bother meeting ever again...I don't think I've that many meets left in me!!"

your probably right. id offer to meet but i know youd stand me up. then disappear into the cyberness of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice we've had meets where the guy has just not bothered showing up.

One guy messed us around saying he wanted to meet, but then he couldn't, but then he could - so we just blocked him.

And once a cancellation at the last minute - at least he bothered to say something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im just wondering how often females get let down or stood up after a meet is arranged.

seems to happen a lot to us guys. or is it just me?"

I've been stood up three times

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"im just wondering how often females get let down or stood up after a meet is arranged.

seems to happen a lot to us guys. or is it just me?

I've been stood up three times

yup more Idiots

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"This year I've had someone turn up for a hotel meet over 2 hrs late. I had left and gone home by then and I've had a social cancelled this wk as I had a meet a couple of days before and he wasn't impressed

I had similar to this just after Christmas - I received a web cam veri after just chatting in chat, nothing sexual even, and a guy I'd met at a club a few days before cancelled a meet again because I was 'having enough fun'

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Ridiculous really !! He said he was jealous as he could see from my pics I posted that I'd had fun. He basically only wanted me to meet him and not others ( but funnily enough he can meet others haha )

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

thats just unreal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens more than we like, guys full of it, but then get scared and run away when Mrs shows any signs of dominance lol ?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stood up twice (second one we got talking to on Fab after a status rant about being stood up

) We’ve been ghosted a few times too, it’s annoying but the genuine people make up for it

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I fell ill on Saturday evening, and had to miss a meet. We’d met earlier in the day and had a bit of fun, but the proper meet wasn’t to be until later.

It’s a fucking shit feeling letting somebody down like that, because threads like this make you know what they must be thinking of you at the time.

Thankfully she was understanding, and it’s been rearranged. It probably helps that the initial social, and off-site contact, means she knows I’m not going to muck her about for shits and giggles.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We get around 1 stand up a week.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Been ghosted a couple of times - not really an issue but I guess it would be annoying if I’d held off a definite meet for it.

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By *ure fucking naughtyMan
over a year ago

St Albans

Happy to report than on this pry old profile I have never stood anyone up or cancelled.

Being selective myself, meets are not the easiest to come by, so I'm always fully committed when I say I will meet.

Just putting that out there incase any ladies here fancy a chat to see where it takes us

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Not stood up as such - but had plenty of guys go quiet on the day we were supposed to meet!

There are plenty more of dreamers of both sexes on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im just wondering how often females get let down or stood up after a meet is arranged.

seems to happen a lot to us guys. or is it just me?"

I had one social on my last profile. I was so nervous too as it was my very first time in the scene. The lady I was speaking to was amazing. She made me feel so comfortable and introduced me to one of the organisers and she was brilliant too. The night went really well and we were together for a while. Although it was my first social, I never bailed on a meet, and never would. It’s a waste of both our times. I’m not going to put all the effort into getting to know someone, only to not turn up!

I’m also around the country a fair bit with work too and those nights can get awful lonely!

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