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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s the form with winking on here? When is it ok to wink on FAB? Is it to say to people hi I’m here and like your profile let’s chat if you like mine or do people just ignore them? What’s the right winking etiquette?

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By *exualNeeds69Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick

Everybody uses winks in different ways. Not one correct way of using them. We often wink to say “we like what we see and have read the profile”. Others don’t look at winks at all. We do to see who’s interested in us before moving forward to messaging etc.

But as said before. Everyone uses winks differently for different reasons

Natalie xx

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

We look at who has looked at us and if we like them we wink. Rarely use the search to find people. Use the nearbys mainly. If someone winks at us and we like what we see, we wink back or message. Depends on the profile. Good profiles will get a message, otherwise we wink back and let them decide to message or not.

Everyone is different.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"We look at who has looked at us and if we like them we wink. Rarely use the search to find people. Use the nearbys mainly. If someone winks at us and we like what we see, we wink back or message. Depends on the profile. Good profiles will get a message, otherwise we wink back and let them decide to message or not.

Everyone is different. "

That's pretty much what we do.

We've stated that winks may be followed up, and that is pretty much under the terms described above.

But we've stated that if they are looking at going beyond the sandy eyes thing that they need to message us.

In truth life's too short to get embroiled in second guessing what a wink means, so to us in saying that we may not respond to winks pretty much puts the ball in their court and indicates to some degree whether or not if they've read our profile.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Should have added, that we never wink first, and only wink back if they have something about them that has grabbed our interest, never ever have winked a silhouette or non verified profile.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We use winks the same as the posters above but we will wink first if we like the look of someone (and our profiles show some compatibility) and if the wink is reciprocated we'll send a message. We never wink a profile first that has none or very little text though even if the pics are ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been winked

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been winked

Haha!"
because it never works

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By *albec26Man
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

We don't get them really as for example just been winked and we replied and message straight away...

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