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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Even though my profile says I'm straight etc, I still get my pictures fabbed by guys and several (many graphic) messages everyday.

It would be so much easier to be gay, which I'm not lol.

Shame us guys don't get the same attention from the ladies on here

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Even though my profile says I'm straight etc, I still get my pictures fabbed by guys and several (many graphic) messages everyday.

It would be so much easier to be gay, which I'm not lol.

Shame us guys don't get the same attention from the ladies on here "

All I can say is look at your profile and consider why you might be getting more views, fabs and messages from men rather than women.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People often fab photos without looking at the profile. If you block single men from being able to message you, the graphic messages will cease.

In our experience gay and bisexual men enjoy pictures of erect penises more than couples

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are looking for mainly bum fun and have 3 pics all showing an erect penis...

Maybe change your profile and pics to appeal to a larger audience, if you aren’t getting the people you want replying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just added "with ladies" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish that there were more men on here who had a genuine preference for anal....!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wish that there were more men on here who had a genuine preference for anal....!

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Definitely one here lol. Just not very popular with ladies. Only had a few meets when it's happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won't appeal to a lot of females, as just being fucked up the arse won't appeal to them. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You won't appeal to a lot of females, as just being fucked up the arse won't appeal to them. X"

I appealed to you under my old username when working in your neck of the woods lol.

I do state anal as a preference but not essential.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

I have bi photos on our profile but get equal fabs from men and women/couples . I wouldn’t worry about it . If you get a fab take it as a compliment .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You won't appeal to a lot of females, as just being fucked up the arse won't appeal to them. X

I appealed to you under my old username when working in your neck of the woods"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You won't appeal to a lot of females, as just being fucked up the arse won't appeal to them. X"

But it does appeal to some of us - quite a bit - so you can't generalise..!

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"You won't appeal to a lot of females, as just being fucked up the arse won't appeal to them. X"

I'm not sure it's just the being fucked up the arse bit that's putting people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though my profile says I'm straight etc, I still get my pictures fabbed by guys and several (many graphic) messages everyday.

It would be so much easier to be gay, which I'm not lol.

Shame us guys don't get the same attention from the ladies on here "

I agree, I have the same. This is why I'm not that impressed with this site. If I was gay I'd of gone through 30 per cent of the site now lol

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Even though my profile says I'm straight etc, I still get my pictures fabbed by guys and several (many graphic) messages everyday.

It would be so much easier to be gay, which I'm not lol.

Shame us guys don't get the same attention from the ladies on here

I agree, I have the same. This is why I'm not that impressed with this site. If I was gay I'd of gone through 30 per cent of the site now lol"

Again, stop complaining about it and think about your target audience!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even though my profile says I'm straight etc, I still get my pictures fabbed by guys and several (many graphic) messages everyday.

It would be so much easier to be gay, which I'm not lol.

Shame us guys don't get the same attention from the ladies on here

I agree, I have the same. This is why I'm not that impressed with this site. If I was gay I'd of gone through 30 per cent of the site now lol"

Lol true.

Just had a couple more pics fabbed by a guy. I'm probably guilty of fabbing women's pics who aren't looking for single men, wouldn't waste each others time messaging though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That happens to all men on here, regardless of their profile. Men fab pics way more than women, for some reason.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Just take a fab for what it is - an expression of appreciation for your pics, nothing more - doesn't really matter if it's from men or women when you look at it that way.

Just because a guy fabs your pics doesn't automatically mean he wants to jump your bones and bring you over to the dark side - I'm bi but that's certainly not my intention when I fab anyone's pics (well not ALL the time anyway).

As others have said the fact there are a a lot more men than women and couples on here, and the fact that men tend to be more prolific fabbers tends to mean that most fabs will be from men - although curiously despite the fact I'm bi, most of my fabs come from women and couples - so there really is no exact science to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our couples profile, my pics get fabbed due to people not looking carefully enough! Haha

Just because it's a pic of someone in lingerie... doesn't mean it's always the females!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On our couples profile, my pics get fabbed due to people not looking carefully enough! Haha

Just because it's a pic of someone in lingerie... doesn't mean it's always the females! "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On our couples profile, my pics get fabbed due to people not looking carefully enough! Haha

Just because it's a pic of someone in lingerie... doesn't mean it's always the females! "

No I think the fact you are a man wearing women's underwear prob will tickle the tastebuds of those that bat for the other team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though my profile says I'm straight etc, I still get my pictures fabbed by guys and several (many graphic) messages everyday.

It would be so much easier to be gay, which I'm not lol.

Shame us guys don't get the same attention from the ladies on here "

It is not easier, I am bi and get nothing but married guys cheating wanting quickies or pratts who cannot read my profile hence I block all guys. I am happy to meet couples and TV/TS but single men - pah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though my profile says I'm straight etc, I still get my pictures fabbed by guys and several (many graphic) messages everyday.

It would be so much easier to be gay, which I'm not lol.

Shame us guys don't get the same attention from the ladies on here

All I can say is look at your profile and consider why you might be getting more views, fabs and messages from men rather than women."

Because men love cock pics and women don't lolz I am serious!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Even though my profile says I'm straight etc, I still get my pictures fabbed by guys and several (many graphic) messages everyday.

It would be so much easier to be gay, which I'm not lol.

Shame us guys don't get the same attention from the ladies on here "

I fab men’s photos if they are of high quality and interesting. I wouldn’t fab yours.

I get the same attention from ladies as well as men, fabs, messages, meets....it depends what sort of person you are and how you come across to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though my profile says I'm straight etc, I still get my pictures fabbed by guys and several (many graphic) messages everyday.

It would be so much easier to be gay, which I'm not lol.

Shame us guys don't get the same attention from the ladies on here "

I’m not attracted to you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish that there were more men on here who had a genuine preference for anal....!

"

Oh but there are, I can assure you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On our couples profile, my pics get fabbed due to people not looking carefully enough! Haha

Just because it's a pic of someone in lingerie... doesn't mean it's always the females!

No I think the fact you are a man wearing women's underwear prob will tickle the tastebuds of those that bat for the other team "

Their not women's.... they're mine! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pic has been Fab'd by more men then women - can't say it bothers me, more of a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though my profile says I'm straight etc, I still get my pictures fabbed by guys and several (many graphic) messages everyday.

It would be so much easier to be gay, which I'm not lol.

Shame us guys don't get the same attention from the ladies on here "

Go gay early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On our couples profile, my pics get fabbed due to people not looking carefully enough! Haha

Just because it's a pic of someone in lingerie... doesn't mean it's always the females!

No I think the fact you are a man wearing women's underwear prob will tickle the tastebuds of those that bat for the other team

Their not women's.... they're mine! lol "

And you look sexy in them xx

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By *r-1984Man
over a year ago

South west

More fabs from men than women but tbh I don't take photos being serious, if you can have fun while doing it then even better, this site is what you make it, men are small fish in a very big lake, if someone is complaining about the site being crap then it's not the site that is at fault, it's them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind being fabbed by guys.... I'm straight but if someone thinks I'm worth a fab...just means they arent blind!

I flirt with my gay mates...they love it but they know the boundaries.... I'm told if i was gay i would do well! But i do love pussy too much to be tempted..plus ive not got good enough dress sense to be gay

A compliment is a compliment!

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera

Well I'm gay and I would consider it a very nice compliment to be fabbed by a woman.

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