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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, I would love to explore the world on anal pleasure and I'm beginning to look at toys and its a bit mind bending how many there are! I would love some advice/recommendations please. Thanks

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By *heik yourwillyMan
over a year ago

shire

bypass the dildo and try the real thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmm I think toy comes first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a nice prostate massager there’s some good ones about

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Try a well-lubricated silicone butt plug. Insert gradually, and as you feel comfortable.

There are some helpful youtube tutorials. Enjoy!

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Avoid glass or anything rigid for your first one. Go small and bendy!

But in all seriousness a cock is so different, it's warm, it bends, it can go deep or not.

I personally think a cock is easier than a toy but I'm biased

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats the purpose of a plug? Is it to get you ready for anal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Start small and silicone. Liquid Silk lube. Relax.

Godemiche do some marvelous toys https://g-silicone.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to use a large butt plug. It produced a very different feeling when having sex especially the climax. My then gf used to peg me after id got used to the plug. Lovely...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ginger root, available at your local groceries too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

avoid them if your a man, its very dangerous, last year i had to have major surgery to removce a vibrator someone pushed to hard.. it may seem funny i assure you it isnt

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Lovehoney do a anal starter kits that have a variety of toys so you can find what you like - butt plugs or anal beads would probably be my suggestion - different sensations but both can feel good.

Butt plugs can feel great and for me have the effect of giving a feeling of fullness, a vibrating one can have a lovely effect on the prostate too!!

Would also suggest investing in an anal douche to ensure you're clean before indulging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"avoid them if your a man, its very dangerous, last year i had to have major surgery to removce a vibrator someone pushed to hard.. it may seem funny i assure you it isnt

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Avoid what,a butt plug?

Some awesome advice thanks folks, feel like a need a teacher sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would be the best prostate massager for a beginner. One that you would manually massage with or a vibrating one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Re toys - something with some give. Flesh is much softer than most toys. I use jelly ones now. And don’t be too ambitious regarding size. You don’t need massive if just prepping for cock, just need to be used to feeling something there.

Seconding the anal douche suggestion too. And Liquid Silk. Just don’t leave it at the meet. I’ve got pints of lube scattered round the country.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 - 'Booty Blaster' vibrating, thrusting plug. Sounds scary but is small enough for a beginner, slides in easily, is comfortable and works brilliantly. (I'd highly recommend rechargeable batteries though)

2 - 'Nexus Revo 2'. Expensive but again, easy for a beginner and feels amazing. Just have to be careful not to break the mechanism. Been there - done that.

Neither can make me cum by themselves but are most effective, when used with something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just get a bidet fitted in your bathroom

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

I would start off small and soft with:

BASICS Realistic Anal Prober 6 Inch,

then progress to BASICS Ribbed Anal Starter Dildo 5 Inch & Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies Anal Starter Dildo 6 Inch (19989) Currently doing 3 for £15 (fun & foreplay) from Lovehoney at the moment. Don't forget the essential lube.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start small and silicone. Liquid Silk lube. Relax.

Godemiche do some marvelous toys https://g-silicone.com"

Wow they look like works of art, be a same for them to see my arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"avoid them if your a man, its very dangerous, last year i had to have major surgery to removce a vibrator someone pushed to hard.. it may seem funny i assure you it isnt

Avoid what,a butt plug?

Some awesome advice thanks folks, feel like a need a teacher sometimes!"

I was given three possible outcomes

1) no surgery, injection to paralise me at the waist, remove object via rectum

2) incision in my stomached a camera pushed through my intestine into the bowel push the object out whilst also doing option 1

However if o damaged the bowel it would be irreparable

Option 3

Cut me open go through bowel remove object insert a colostomy and live the rest of my life with an open would and colostomy

I was lucky it was option2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bypass the dildo and try the real thing "

This lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"avoid them if your a man, its very dangerous, last year i had to have major surgery to removce a vibrator someone pushed to hard.. it may seem funny i assure you it isnt

Avoid what,a butt plug?

Some awesome advice thanks folks, feel like a need a teacher sometimes!

I was given three possible outcomes

1) no surgery, injection to paralise me at the waist, remove object via rectum

2) incision in my stomached a camera pushed through my intestine into the bowel push the object out whilst also doing option 1

However if o damaged the bowel it would be irreparable

Option 3

Cut me open go through bowel remove object insert a colostomy and live the rest of my life with an open would and colostomy

I was lucky it was option2

"

Errr well that's put me off wow, hope your ok now crikey?

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I'd definitely recommend a vibrating butt plug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a sniff of fresh (room oderisers lol) and boom would love to try a real cock tho lol

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'd definitely recommend a vibrating butt plug. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"avoid them if your a man, its very dangerous, last year i had to have major surgery to removce a vibrator someone pushed to hard.. it may seem funny i assure you it isnt

Avoid what,a butt plug?

Some awesome advice thanks folks, feel like a need a teacher sometimes!

I was given three possible outcomes

1) no surgery, injection to paralise me at the waist, remove object via rectum

2) incision in my stomached a camera pushed through my intestine into the bowel push the object out whilst also doing option 1

However if o damaged the bowel it would be irreparable

Option 3

Cut me open go through bowel remove object insert a colostomy and live the rest of my life with an open would and colostomy

I was lucky it was option2

Errr well that's put me off wow, hope your ok now crikey?"

Glad you understand how dangerous this can be, I’m lucky I’m just left with a 3” scar

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So that was a butt plug? If that's out of the question what would you recommend?

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

Look at “rude boy” anal prostate massage... it’s not big and shaped to hit your prostate which is the G spot in a man .. plenty of lube and have fun

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