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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many of you singes on here would leave this site if you found yourself a partner? If yes, why?

Would you not want to continue swinging with your new partner? If not, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they weren’t into the idea of swinging then yes I’d close my account but if they were open to it then I’d keep it open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've dated in a monogamous setting, and I've dated fellow swingers. In both cases I've hidden my profile just to give it chance to see if the relationship develops. As a single and as a couple, I prefer meeting new people in clubs anyway, rarely meet off here. Yes the ideal would be to have a relationship where swinging is included, but I think it takes time to see if you're compatible first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d leave. I’m just here for sex until i find a partner.

It would be my idea of hell to share a partner. I’m also one of those annoying women who if they like someone they tend to get emotional. I have a hard time compartmentalising my feelings.

Although given recent issues, i’m having a rethink about the whole thing and thinking of joining a Nunnery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hide my profile until I knew it was working out, although it's unlikely I would want a relationship with a non swinger XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd keep my account open. Always wise to have a plan B

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

I've told myself that I will leave. Fresh start and nothing to hide. Fucked things up before so never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if I’ll ever be faced with the conundrum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 4 yrs ago i met someone through here and we ended up in a monogamous relationship but i mustnt have had much faith in it as i just hid my profile for the duration, and it lasted about a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hide it. I met someone on here I saw for about 18mths, but it didn't work out. Glad I didn't have to start from scratch when I wanted to return. The ideal would be to find myself in a relationship where the sex was so good, this site would no longer be necessary.

The triumph of optimism over experience....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd hide it. I met someone on here I saw for about 18mths, but it didn't work out. Glad I didn't have to start from scratch when I wanted to return. The ideal would be to find myself in a relationship where the sex was so good, this site would no longer be necessary.

The triumph of optimism over experience...."

The sex can be amazing in a relationship but you still both want to swing. That's what I'm doing. Swinging is just an added bit of spice every now and again. You could eat the same food every day if you wanted, but nothing wrong with wanting a little something different every now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't enter into a relationship with someone who wanted to swing from the off. I'd want us to cement our relationship before bringing others in, if at all.

I might meet someone who is happy to only have sex with me; which would be fine.

To me, swinging would be an added extra to our sex life and last in the list of things that are important to me in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cross that bridge when I come to it but I would probably leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happily delete my account here and any other places men can contact me.

It's just sex and sex with my partner would be the only important thing to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cross that bridge when I come to it but I would probably leave"

It would probably be harder for a young man to find a partner who wants to swing, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd leave. I have left for someone, after meeting on here.

I would certainly do that again. Having sex with more than one person is not essential to my sexual happiness .

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