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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry spelling was all wrong , just spoke to a couple who had a meet now on the profile , says theyre staying at a certain hotel so i said cool i can get there as its local , they then replied we havnt actually got the hotel but if i was willing to pay for the room they would meet me there , lol is it me or is that a total liberty .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a liberty.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"sorry spelling was all wrong , just spoke to a couple who had a meet now on the profile , says theyre staying at a certain hotel so i said cool i can get there as its local , they then replied we havnt actually got the hotel but if i was willing to pay for the room they would meet me there , lol is it me or is that a total liberty ."

It's a liberty alright....whether it qualifies as a total liberty or not is open to discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry spelling was all wrong , just spoke to a couple who had a meet now on the profile , says theyre staying at a certain hotel so i said cool i can get there as its local , they then replied we havnt actually got the hotel but if i was willing to pay for the room they would meet me there , lol is it me or is that a total liberty ."

Well you can look at this in lots of ways. Realisticly its a choice not a liberty, you don't have to meet them. you don't have to pay for the room its very much a choice for you. If they had paid for the room and you had visited you would have been happy yes? For all you know they may have financial problems or other issues who knows. I assume they are travelling though as its local, did they ask you for their petrol money too?

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

it's wrong no matter what way i look at it, if we said we had hotel booked and lookin a meet we would be stayin for breakfast, sounds like they want a free ride but it's their idea, if we arranger to meet some1 for hotel meet we would pay half, but like carlsburg we dont do hotel meets, at home anyway, we will be next weekend though and will be paying ourselve as we're stayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's wrong no matter what way i look at it"

I don't agree, we have only one side of it and messages can get mixed. They may have meant to imply they know a hotel near the OP and were prepared to travel if he paid for the room. personally if its our room we would pay for one but that's us.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

While there are people daft enough to pay ( i dont mean you) there will always be people cheeky enough to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't think of anything less erotic than haggling over who pays for a hotel room

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its not a one sided post its what ive said and wta theyve said they ave a meet tonight in a certain hotel in a certain town giving the impression they are already there if they cant accom tey should say and state if a guy is willing to pay for a room then fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I think its a cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not a one sided post its what ive said and wta theyve said they ave a meet tonight in a certain hotel in a certain town giving the impression they are already there if they cant accom tey should say and state if a guy is willing to pay for a room then fine."

It is though, as it's your interpretation of what they said. You yourself have stated that it was an "impression", therefore it is only one sided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if some people/couples expect the single guy to book the room, as insurance that he will turn up?

However if they mislead you about how the hotel meet was set up, then yes i think they had a cheek. And i certainly wouldnt meet em!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its not a one sided post its what ive said and wta theyve said they ave a meet tonight in a certain hotel in a certain town giving the impression they are already there if they cant accom tey should say and state if a guy is willing to pay for a room then fine.

It is though, as it's your interpretation of what they said. You yourself have stated that it was an "impression", therefore it is only one sided. "

them filling out a "meet tonight" page saying that they are staying in a hotel is not an impression is it , its a statement and a fact , think anyone would get the impression i did , think your the only want to see one side of it , anyway if i have to start paying for sex eg hotel rooms then i may as well go to the local massage parlour and have the choice of 3.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sorry spelling was all wrong , just spoke to a couple who had a meet now on the profile , says theyre staying at a certain hotel so i said cool i can get there as its local , they then replied we havnt actually got the hotel but if i was willing to pay for the room they would meet me there , lol is it me or is that a total liberty .

if it was a couple i was keen to meet and they couldnt accom then i would offer to get a room somewhere , the way they went about it was misleading and in my book sly , it actually stated on the meet tonight bit that they were in the hotel . wether they have financial problems or not it seems a little backhanded to me .

Well you can look at this in lots of ways. Realisticly its a choice not a liberty, you don't have to meet them. you don't have to pay for the room its very much a choice for you. If they had paid for the room and you had visited you would have been happy yes? For all you know they may have financial problems or other issues who knows. I assume they are travelling though as its local, did they ask you for their petrol money too? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it's wrong no matter what way i look at it, if we said we had hotel booked and lookin a meet we would be stayin for breakfast, sounds like they want a free ride but it's their idea, if we arranger to meet some1 for hotel meet we would pay half, but like carlsburg we dont do hotel meets, at home anyway, we will be next weekend though and will be paying ourselve as we're stayin"

exactly , and as i said it was on a meet tonight form which yo fill out , exact words staying at (such and such hotel london with postcode )

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"sorry spelling was all wrong , just spoke to a couple who had a meet now on the profile , says theyre staying at a certain hotel so i said cool i can get there as its local , they then replied we havnt actually got the hotel but if i was willing to pay for the room they would meet me there , lol is it me or is that a total liberty ."

total liberty...omg my hand is typing real swinger of its own accord

share the cost...fifty fifty of thirds is open to debate...you paying is just taking the piss

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


"I think its a cheek"
I think it's two, toot toot! very nice

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Got stung on the hotel front once, and now only with people I know and trust...unless they've already booked a room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP , your a male except it , its the way things work on here , would be a lot worse if they dint show up .

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

just to balance things out i have once before been on the expensive end of a hotel meet!! i travelled to the hotel that was loval to him, i paid for it (ok it was a cheap deal through work, but not the point), i dropped off to his mates after - see its not only single guys who get it

but in response tot he OP i think yes, if they had ameet up saying thyey were staying in a hotel but then they said they hadnt even booked the room they had a cheek, you could have gone back and said, i will pay for the room and you can reimburse me as we meet in the bar etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been asked to meet guys and help with the cost of hotel rooms by single guys on numerous occassions.

Our views on this are simple - you require the room because invariably you are cheating on your partners.

We would not book a room locally regardless of how meritorious your credentials.

If we went away we would pay our own costs (that way we can get rid of you easily).

From experience we have always found those who need to ask are as tight as a ducks ass when it comes buying a drink or paying thier share.

So unless the guy's hotel costs are being met by his company we don't and won't meet single men in hotels.

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