FabSwingers.com forum: Women

By *admax1962 OP Man
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.

I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

On the very rare occasion yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, it is how I met my fwb...but women here don't have to sit and wait for messages as they will have some waiting everytime they sign in, unless they have all their filters up to prevent anyone messaging

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

I have been winked by strangers and been emailed. To be fair I am too shy for cyber contacts and prefer meeting in a clubs. My email chat is terribly wooden anyway

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Most definitely they do ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Never ever ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Yes

Even middle-aged, hairy Welsh numpties get ‘em

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I do - wink, message, fab pics ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see someone that really catches my eye I’m right in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, but it’s been interpreted as a move of desperation by others..

Fuck ‘em. I can’t be totally passive.

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By *admax1962 OP Man
over a year ago

Stowmarket

I have taken to putting on the bottom of my messages let’s see if you reply they never do lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been messaged before, sometimes even real women

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Yes they do "

Yep I did

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough

"I have taken to putting on the bottom of my messages let’s see if you reply they never do lol x"

Ah yes, lines like that in a message always make me reply

Mrs S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah they do. In fact they also suggest meeting too

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.

I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"

Yes they do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.

I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"

Five years without a received message first or any replies?

Why stay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I often used to send first messages, to me it makes more sense for a woman to do her own searching as she knows what she is looking for.

That's how I met my special man.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail. "

Yes, I’ve messaged first when I read an interesting profile or pictures that get my attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did recently but the man didn't reply for 3 days. I found my last FWB myself on another site too XXX

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't wink but I do message guys/couples profiles that I like (well written, seem sane etc)

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By *admax1962 OP Man
over a year ago

Stowmarket

I’ve never had so many looks but just one message from America lovely couple exchanged a few messages.

I only stay as it’s just fun you must not take it to seriously I can take it or leave it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’ve had one and it worked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!

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By *gnes Loves AnalWoman
over a year ago

Kingstanding

"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.

I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"

God only a fool waits for what is just is delivered far better to go shopping and point out what you want.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I wink and fab guys pictures all the damn time. It's rarer for me to send a message, but I do now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's 99% men that fab my pics. I'm always surprised when women do

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I Fab guys and send winks, I dont just sit around waiting lol

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Yes I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm crap at opening lines. Also since when is 'hello there' so unacceptable

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If and it is a big IF (though it shouldn't be as you'd think it was common sense) I find a male profile that is interesting and has alluring pictures, I message with no hesitation, but alas to find those traits are a very rare commodity indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.

I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"

Never?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I'm crap at opening lines. Also since when is 'hello there' so unacceptable

It’s not, but it needs to have something more to it to stand out from the dozens of other messages single women get.

“Hello there. Love your profile & the profile name really made me chuckle. Great photos too!

I see that you like xxx. Sounds fascinating, I’d love to pick your brains about it someday, if you’d let me!”

... or something similar!

(Your username did make me chuckle though!)

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.

I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"

Only to tell you off in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ive had 4 or 5 this month all due to my forum antics and got some smashing new friends off the back of it

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm crap at opening lines. Also since when is 'hello there' so unacceptable

It’s not, but it needs to have something more to it to stand out from the dozens of other messages single women get.

“Hello there. Love your profile & the profile name really made me chuckle. Great photos too!

I see that you like xxx. Sounds fascinating, I’d love to pick your brains about it someday, if you’d let me!”

... or something similar!

(Your username did make me chuckle though!)"

Okay I'm stealing that now haha

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Yes I do when I'm looking. I messaged someone on Tuesday and we already have a meet planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the female half of our profile I will wink, message or fab pics. I’ll also let another female know if I think she looks gorgeous. No ulterior motive, I just think it’s nice to compliment someone.

This site is not for the faint hearted. Nothing ventured nothing gained. What’s the worst that can happen? You get ignored or turned down. I’m the eternal optimist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.

I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"

Never get replies either? How did you communicate to get veris then? Smoke signals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.

I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"

I message and wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink. Never message. Fear of rejection

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I have once or twice but it’s a scary thing

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

"I have once or twice but it’s a scary thing

Why is it scary?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get max 3 messages a day and 5 or so winks.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I have once or twice but it’s a scary thing

Why is it scary?"

It’s just knowing what to say isn’t it? .. and attaching a face photo ... Hats off to those who have the confidence to do it.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Yes ladies thankfully do message first, it's always great to get a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never message first. Probably why I'm doing so bad on here

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I never message first. Probably why I'm doing so bad on here

Great name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never message first. Probably why I'm doing so bad on here

Great name

Thanks, it's my favourite food lol

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

I’ve had it a few times but they are quite often newbie profiles with no pics and no info that go UNLOS pretty quickly afterwards

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

"I have once or twice but it’s a scary thing

Why is it scary?

It’s just knowing what to say isn’t it? .. and attaching a face photo ... Hats off to those who have the confidence to do it. "

And yet women on here expect men to be 100% perfect at writing a message knowing they'll be deleted without being read 99% of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged first and sent winks. It's only those I feel are out of my league, that I avoid messaging first

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

"I've messaged first and sent winks. It's only those I feel are out of my league, that I avoid messaging first

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Most people on here are out of my league

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

"I've messaged first and sent winks. It's only those I feel are out of my league, that I avoid messaging first

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I'll be expecting a message off you shortly

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I have once or twice but it’s a scary thing

Why is it scary?

It’s just knowing what to say isn’t it? .. and attaching a face photo ... Hats off to those who have the confidence to do it.

And yet women on here expect men to be 100% perfect at writing a message knowing they'll be deleted without being read 99% of the time"

Not all women.

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

"I have once or twice but it’s a scary thing

Why is it scary?

It’s just knowing what to say isn’t it? .. and attaching a face photo ... Hats off to those who have the confidence to do it.

And yet women on here expect men to be 100% perfect at writing a message knowing they'll be deleted without being read 99% of the time

Not all women. "

No, the fair majority though. Women have it easy on here, just sifting through the dregs.

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

"I have once or twice but it’s a scary thing

Why is it scary?

It’s just knowing what to say isn’t it? .. and attaching a face photo ... Hats off to those who have the confidence to do it.

And yet women on here expect men to be 100% perfect at writing a message knowing they'll be deleted without being read 99% of the time

Not all women. "

I agree, it’s not all, but most lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had two messages from women today which has been a bit of a revelation

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

"I've messaged first and sent winks. It's only those I feel are out of my league, that I avoid messaging first

I'll be expecting a message off you shortly

Me too. There’s no way I’m out of her league. However she is well out of mine. I could only dream of a woman like that!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re a couple, so don’t know if that counts. But we have on occasion winked at men. Not very often, as there are only so many men we can take on at any one time. If we do do wink, it will probably be a profile that really stands out and is well verified by couples.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a mother fuckin princess..... I just wait to be worshiped.

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

"I often do x"
thanks for the wink gorgeous

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By *admax1962 OP Man
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Well what a day I’ve never had so many likes and fabbed pictures but still only the message from a lovely couple always tomorrow x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Yeah - I perve Male hot photos - just as men perve female hot photos - and look for pics of guys with hot face or profile pics (not a cock pic fan!). If they’re not gay I’ll message them! Got a few very hot meets this way!

Also message guys on the forums who look great/interest me!

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

yep, especially when looking for special scenarios...

often I will text someone months later after a message from them from my hotlist

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"yep, especially when looking for special scenarios...

often I will text someone months later after a message from them from my hotlist

I’m guilty of this too! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have taken to putting on the bottom of my messages let’s see if you reply they never do lol x"

Yeah, passive aggressive behaviour is such a turn on.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish

I (R) quite often have a browse round and fire off a message. Have to say though it is only usually to Single guys

My Hubby usually reads them afterwards

2 weeks ago, I sent a message to 5 guys, all were read, nothing back in return.

Today they are all still sitting at "read" so today they just get deleted a blocked.

Such is life,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll do some research op. I’ll get back to you.

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