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"Not me...I'd see that as a bit of a violation myself. There's a time and a place and imo perving a stranger in a changing room isn't it." Have to agree 100 percent there . | |||
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"I'm not saying I get turned on, but surely everyone has had a glance at someone at some point? " No. I tend to concentrate on getting myself dried and dressed and preventing people from looking at me  | |||
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"Not me...I'd see that as a bit of a violation myself. There's a time and a place and imo perving a stranger in a changing room isn't it." Lol just to be clear i dont sit there staring its a nano second glance usually to see the size of guys equipment lol | |||
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"Not me...I'd see that as a bit of a violation myself. There's a time and a place and imo perving a stranger in a changing room isn't it." yeah agreed everyone's there hopefully for the right reasons but if your meeting someone or plan something then that's different. | |||
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"Why is is most on here post to dampen the OP obvious interest... if you’re not into it, why not just carry on and not post. For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here! " Comments like these really bug me... It's an open, public forum, where anyone is free to express an opinion, regardless of if they agree with the OP. I wasn't rude, I didn't tell anyone they were wrong, I shared an opinion. And I don't think any one else has been rude. Why shouldn't I, or anyone else share contrasting views? | |||
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"Why is is most on here post to dampen the OP obvious interest... if you’re not into it, why not just carry on and not post. For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here! Comments like these really bug me... It's an open, public forum, where anyone is free to express an opinion, regardless of if they agree with the OP. I wasn't rude, I didn't tell anyone they were wrong, I shared an opinion. And I don't think any one else has been rude. Why shouldn't I, or anyone else share contrasting views? " This totally off topic and isn’t why I’m here... but you basically said in other words he is a pervert and violating the person he is looking at because he is in a public changing room. Your answer to me, contradicts itself... you feel it’s ok to share your opinion and contradict the OP, but didn’t like it when I disagreed with your view. | |||
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"Why is is most on here post to dampen the OP obvious interest... if you’re not into it, why not just carry on and not post. For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here! I don’t mind a sneak peek now and then. I’m sure that others do the same to me too... Not that I’m an exhibitionist, but I’m also not shy either. " How about because changing rooms are public places where people who don't swing have a right to not be stared at by perverts when they are getting changed. My daughter is 18 and has special needs, if any pervert looks at her I would deal with them strongly, report them to whoever is in charge and get them banned. Into it you say??? Only perverts stare at people getting changed in public. | |||
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"Why is is most on here post to dampen the OP obvious interest... if you’re not into it, why not just carry on and not post. For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here! Comments like these really bug me... It's an open, public forum, where anyone is free to express an opinion, regardless of if they agree with the OP. I wasn't rude, I didn't tell anyone they were wrong, I shared an opinion. And I don't think any one else has been rude. Why shouldn't I, or anyone else share contrasting views? This totally off topic and isn’t why I’m here... but you basically said in other words he is a pervert and violating the person he is looking at because he is in a public changing room. Your answer to me, contradicts itself... you feel it’s ok to share your opinion and contradict the OP, but didn’t like it when I disagreed with your view. " Not remotely...you didn't just disagree with my view, you disagreed with my having and sharing one! I said what I said and stand by it. If that's your interpretation of what I said, I'm totally ok with that  | |||
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"Why is is most on here post to dampen the OP obvious interest... if you’re not into it, why not just carry on and not post. For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here! I don’t mind a sneak peek now and then. I’m sure that others do the same to me too... Not that I’m an exhibitionist, but I’m also not shy either. How about because changing rooms are public places where people who don't swing have a right to not be stared at by perverts when they are getting changed. My daughter is 18 and has special needs, if any pervert looks at her I would deal with them strongly, report them to whoever is in charge and get them banned. Into it you say??? Only perverts stare at people getting changed in public. " Shhh...you can't say that here!  | |||
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"Why is is most on here post to dampen the OP obvious interest... if you’re not into it, why not just carry on and not post. For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here! I don’t mind a sneak peek now and then. I’m sure that others do the same to me too... Not that I’m an exhibitionist, but I’m also not shy either. How about because changing rooms are public places where people who don't swing have a right to not be stared at by perverts when they are getting changed. My daughter is 18 and has special needs, if any pervert looks at her I would deal with them strongly, report them to whoever is in charge and get them banned. Into it you say??? Only perverts stare at people getting changed in public. " This doesn’t even warrant a reply... I think your Daily Mail has just been delivered! | |||
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"Why is is most on here post to dampen the OP obvious interest... if you’re not into it, why not just carry on and not post. For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here! I don’t mind a sneak peek now and then. I’m sure that others do the same to me too... Not that I’m an exhibitionist, but I’m also not shy either. " We are swingers and that does not make us sneaky perverts looking at other people's private parts, in swimming pool changing rooms or toilets..having a perv at somebody without their knowledge as nothing to do with this site or anyother swinging site as it not swinging, so people are in their right to criticise this post and it's contents if they do not agree with it ..personally we do not think it is acceptable to be perving at people without their consent whatever the situation is | |||
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"Why is is most on here post to dampen the OP obvious interest... if you’re not into it, why not just carry on and not post. For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here! I don’t mind a sneak peek now and then. I’m sure that others do the same to me too... Not that I’m an exhibitionist, but I’m also not shy either. We are swingers and that does not make us sneaky perverts looking at other people's private parts, in swimming pool changing rooms or toilets..having a perv at somebody without their knowledge as nothing to do with this site or anyother swinging site as it not swinging, so people are in their right to criticise this post and it's contents if they do not agree with it ..personally we do not think it is acceptable to be perving at people without their consent whatever the situation is "
Being open minded doesn't mean agreeing with everything!
Totally agree with you guys here! It's a violation. | |||
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"Why is is most on here post to dampen the OP obvious interest... if you’re not into it, why not just carry on and not post. For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here! I don’t mind a sneak peek now and then. I’m sure that others do the same to me too... Not that I’m an exhibitionist, but I’m also not shy either. We are swingers and that does not make us sneaky perverts looking at other people's private parts, in swimming pool changing rooms or toilets..having a perv at somebody without their knowledge as nothing to do with this site or anyother swinging site as it not swinging, so people are in their right to criticise this post and it's contents if they do not agree with it ..personally we do not think it is acceptable to be perving at people without their consent whatever the situation is
Being open minded doesn't mean agreeing with everything!
Totally agree with you guys here! It's a violation." | |||
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"This is genuinely is my last post in this thread... If you believe this behaviour has no place in the swinging world, then why, when you filled out your profile is one of the interests Voyerisim? The definition of voyerisim taken from Wikipedia: Voyeurism is the sexual interest in or practice of spying on people engaged in intimate behaviors, such as undressing, sexual activity, or other actions usually considered to be of a private nature. The key to this definition is the word spying, ie without the persons knowlege or consent. I think you will find, maybe not to you, but in the broader spectrum of swinging that voyerisim does infact have it’s place. In reality, if you undress in view of others, you have no control over what they do with the mental imagery. Apologies to the OP for hijacking this thread, my initial intention was to defend the validity of your post. " Oh that's OK then ..when someone get's caught spying on your 13 year old daughter in the shower cubicle at the baths .they can just tell the judge it's ok fella it's only Voyeurism no harm done.. There is a time and a place for Voyeurism.. in swinging terms it's not the same as perving on somebody in a changing room or the like, because if you got caught the chances are you will take a beating..when you tick the option for the things you Like and you tick Voyeurism that does not mean perving as and when you please and in actual fact, most Voyeurism is pre planned in the swinging world that we have experienced in the past..sneakily looking at folks cocks in changing room or other folks is just perving ..you can not justify it sorry | |||
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"This is genuinely is my last post in this thread... If you believe this behaviour has no place in the swinging world, then why, when you filled out your profile is one of the interests Voyerisim? The definition of voyerisim taken from Wikipedia: Voyeurism is the sexual interest in or practice of spying on people engaged in intimate behaviors, such as undressing, sexual activity, or other actions usually considered to be of a private nature. The key to this definition is the word spying, ie without the persons knowlege or consent. I think you will find, maybe not to you, but in the broader spectrum of swinging that voyerisim does infact have it’s place. In reality, if you undress in view of others, you have no control over what they do with the mental imagery. Apologies to the OP for hijacking this thread, my initial intention was to defend the validity of your post. " I don't practice any sexual activities where every single individual present/involved is consenting to it. Whoever you're looking at isn't consenting to you doing so, nor are they in an environment where it's general practice. You and I have different views, different opinions and that's OK. I'm not telling you you're wrong, I'm telling you I disagree with you, and that's OK too. I'd suggest maybe you could try to just accept other people's views regardless of your agreement. Accept, not agree. And maybe, just maybe not take things so personally  | |||
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"This is genuinely is my last post in this thread... If you believe this behaviour has no place in the swinging world, then why, when you filled out your profile is one of the interests Voyerisim? The definition of voyerisim taken from Wikipedia: Voyeurism is the sexual interest in or practice of spying on people engaged in intimate behaviors, such as undressing, sexual activity, or other actions usually considered to be of a private nature. The key to this definition is the word spying, ie without the persons knowlege or consent. I think you will find, maybe not to you, but in the broader spectrum of swinging that voyerisim does infact have it’s place. In reality, if you undress in view of others, you have no control over what they do with the mental imagery. Apologies to the OP for hijacking this thread, my initial intention was to defend the validity of your post. I don't practice any sexual activities where every single individual present/involved is consenting to it. Whoever you're looking at isn't consenting to you doing so, nor are they in an environment where it's general practice. You and I have different views, different opinions and that's OK. I'm not telling you you're wrong, I'm telling you I disagree with you, and that's OK too. I'd suggest maybe you could try to just accept other people's views regardless of your agreement. Accept, not agree. And maybe, just maybe not take things so personally "So , if you see a fit guy walk past you in town , you glance at his body and it turns you on , is that wrong too ? Or do you ask his permission first before you open your eyes and look at him? Or your on the beach and see a fit guy with his top off ? Do you ask before you look at him? Should I turn myself in for looking at the woman with the really nice arse at the gym today ? Seriously , get a grip . He never said he was staring and he wasn’t taking part in any sexual practice . | |||
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"This is genuinely is my last post in this thread... If you believe this behaviour has no place in the swinging world, then why, when you filled out your profile is one of the interests Voyerisim? The definition of voyerisim taken from Wikipedia: Voyeurism is the sexual interest in or practice of spying on people engaged in intimate behaviors, such as undressing, sexual activity, or other actions usually considered to be of a private nature. The key to this definition is the word spying, ie without the persons knowlege or consent. I think you will find, maybe not to you, but in the broader spectrum of swinging that voyerisim does infact have it’s place. In reality, if you undress in view of others, you have no control over what they do with the mental imagery. Apologies to the OP for hijacking this thread, my initial intention was to defend the validity of your post. I don't practice any sexual activities where every single individual present/involved is consenting to it. Whoever you're looking at isn't consenting to you doing so, nor are they in an environment where it's general practice. You and I have different views, different opinions and that's OK. I'm not telling you you're wrong, I'm telling you I disagree with you, and that's OK too. I'd suggest maybe you could try to just accept other people's views regardless of your agreement. Accept, not agree. And maybe, just maybe not take things so personally
So , if you see a fit guy walk past you in town , you glance at his body and it turns you on , is that wrong too ?
Or do you ask his permission first before you open your eyes and look at him?
Or your on the beach and see a fit guy with his top off ? Do you ask before you look at him?
Should I turn myself in for looking at the woman with the really nice arse at the gym today ?
Seriously , get a grip .
He never said he was staring and he wasn’t taking part in any sexual practice ."Appreciating someone is attractive when fully clothed is not the same as trying to get a look at their boobs, cock, foof or whatever else when they're getting changed/showering ffs. If you can't see the difference there, I can't help you. Why is it so difficult for you to accept someone disagreeing with something you say/do? You crack on...I'll get my kicks elsewhere... | |||
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"Why is is most on here post to dampen the OP obvious interest... if you’re not into it, why not just carry on and not post. For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here! I don’t mind a sneak peek now and then. I’m sure that others do the same to me too... Not that I’m an exhibitionist, but I’m also not shy either. " | |||
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"the funniest thing I've seen in a sports centre pool changing room was an old guy, bollock-naked, not a care in the world, standing in the middle of the room blow-drying his nutsack and arse-crack with the coin-operated hair-dryer. I couldn't decided if he was a weirdo or a genius. "  genius!! | |||
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"This is genuinely is my last post in this thread... If you believe this behaviour has no place in the swinging world, then why, when you filled out your profile is one of the interests Voyerisim? The definition of voyerisim taken from Wikipedia: Voyeurism is the sexual interest in or practice of spying on people engaged in intimate behaviors, such as undressing, sexual activity, or other actions usually considered to be of a private nature. The key to this definition is the word spying, ie without the persons knowlege or consent. I think you will find, maybe not to you, but in the broader spectrum of swinging that voyerisim does infact have it’s place. In reality, if you undress in view of others, you have no control over what they do with the mental imagery. Apologies to the OP for hijacking this thread, my initial intention was to defend the validity of your post. I don't practice any sexual activities where every single individual present/involved is consenting to it. Whoever you're looking at isn't consenting to you doing so, nor are they in an environment where it's general practice. You and I have different views, different opinions and that's OK. I'm not telling you you're wrong, I'm telling you I disagree with you, and that's OK too. I'd suggest maybe you could try to just accept other people's views regardless of your agreement. Accept, not agree. And maybe, just maybe not take things so personally
So , if you see a fit guy walk past you in town , you glance at his body and it turns you on , is that wrong too ?
Or do you ask his permission first before you open your eyes and look at him?
Or your on the beach and see a fit guy with his top off ? Do you ask before you look at him?
Should I turn myself in for looking at the woman with the really nice arse at the gym today ?
Seriously , get a grip .
He never said he was staring and he wasn’t taking part in any sexual practice .
Appreciating someone is attractive when fully clothed is not the same as trying to get a look at their boobs, cock, foof or whatever else when they're getting changed/showering ffs.
If you can't see the difference there, I can't help you.
Why is it so difficult for you to accept someone disagreeing with something you say/do?
You crack on...I'll get my kicks elsewhere... " | |||
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"Why is is most on here post to dampen the OP obvious interest... if you’re not into it, why not just carry on and not post. For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here! I don’t mind a sneak peek now and then. I’m sure that others do the same to me too... Not that I’m an exhibitionist, but I’m also not shy either. How about because changing rooms are public places where people who don't swing have a right to not be stared at by perverts when they are getting changed. My daughter is 18 and has special needs, if any pervert looks at her I would deal with them strongly, report them to whoever is in charge and get them banned. Into it you say??? Only perverts stare at people getting changed in public. " I really think this has got out of hand. References to 13 daughters and yoing ladys with special needs has no correlation to what was originaly posted either in spirt or context. My post was meant to be a bit tounge in cheek and is why i later clarified it by saying it was a nono second glance.. it was titivation and no more. Not say there playing with my bits and actually its a men only changng room. As another lady said she did not agree, thats fine im cool with that too but dont warp original coment out of context and please take it in the spirt it was intended. | |||
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""For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here"" You said it fella!!! | |||
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""For an alternative lifestyle website there are some very narrow minded people on here" You said it fella!!! "
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"We swim regularly and I can honestly say that neither of us has ever seen anything in the changing rooms that turns us on." We’ll second that. | |||
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"I don't use the changing rooms at my gym because I ...hate getting changed in public unless it's in a cubicle. I get dried and dressed as discreetly and quickly as possible. It's like mission impossible lol. ~Mia" Says the lady with a pic of a hard cock up her ass on her profile. | |||
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"We swim regularly and I can honestly say that neither of us has ever seen anything in the changing rooms that turns us on." What about each other? | |||
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"I don't use the changing rooms at my gym because I ...hate getting changed in public unless it's in a cubicle. I get dried and dressed as discreetly and quickly as possible. It's like mission impossible lol. ~Mia Says the lady with a pic of a hard cock up her ass on her profile." Don't get how that's relevant to my post but okay.... ~Mia | |||
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