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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've had a couples profile on here for a while and I would regularly read in the forums of women (and couples) moaning about single men sending one line or one word messages along the lines of "Fancy a fuck" or "Nice tits, can I suck them". Now I really couldn't believe that anyone would be dozy enough to send a message like that and expect any sort of positive answer.

However, since we've chosen to set up single profiles as well and I now get messages from single guys, I finally do believe that people can be that daft!!

So I'd like to express my sympathy to all you women (and couples) who have to suffer such pointless messages on a more regular basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you, the comments made are generally statements and don't reqire answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats nuthin!

wait til ya get 'can i bash ur gash'!!

then u really do know u've hit rock bottom!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Sycophancy - good or bad? Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine. But unless I'm a highly unusual case, single men get daft messages too. By the dozens. From women and couples, would you believe.

I challenge anyone to find a single man moaning about it in the forum.

Delete 'em. Carry on with life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can agree here. I made a fake women account just to see how bad you women have it and the inbox on there just keeps getting full as soon as you deleet a msg five more come.

Same as winks and freind requests

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Some would complain if they didn't... Perish the thought of not having a good ego stroking.

There is good and bad in all categories.

Some just don't make a song and dance about it.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Fine. But unless I'm a highly unusual case, single men get daft messages too. By the dozens. From women and couples, would you believe.

"

I get about one a week - maybe you are unusual (or I am!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fine. But unless I'm a highly unusual case, single men get daft messages too. By the dozens. From women and couples, would you believe.

I get about one a week - maybe you are unusual (or I am!)"

Uh huh. So if you get one a week as a single person, how many do 'single men' get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fine. But unless I'm a highly unusual case, single men get daft messages too. By the dozens. From women and couples, would you believe.

I challenge anyone to find a single man moaning about it in the forum.

Delete 'em. Carry on with life. "

+1

You're not alone mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fine. But unless I'm a highly unusual case, single men get daft messages too. By the dozens. From women and couples, would you believe.

I challenge anyone to find a single man moaning about it in the forum.

Delete 'em. Carry on with life. "

????????????????????????????

I got the above message earlier , how Fo you think I should reply

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Just like cigarettes.... The filters stop some of the bad stuff getting thro.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I can agree here. I made a fake women account just to see how bad you women have it and the inbox on there just keeps getting full as soon as you deleet a msg five more come.

Same as winks and freind requests "

...anyone setting up fake profiles is deliberately setting out to decieve people and waste peoples time . no wonder the genuine women and members get such grief ! then to brag on forum that mail box gets full and more come when you delete em i seriously despare!

its this thoughtless and childish behaviour that cause the endless .."why cant i get a meet", "theres so meny fakes on here " and " time waster" threds ! you do no site any favours or yourself being dishonest like that .nothing posative can ever come of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice tits!! "landsphil" Lol!

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"I can agree here. I made a fake women account just to see how bad you women have it and the inbox on there just keeps getting full as soon as you deleet a msg five more come.

Same as winks and freind requests

...anyone setting up fake profiles is deliberately setting out to decieve people and waste peoples time . no wonder the genuine women and members get such grief ! then to brag on forum that mail box gets full and more come when you delete em i seriously despare!

its this thoughtless and childish behaviour that cause the endless .."why cant i get a meet", "theres so meny fakes on here " and " time waster" threds ! you do no site any favours or yourself being dishonest like that .nothing posative can ever come of it

"
wish there was a "like" button....cos this hits nail on the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can agree here. I made a fake women account just to see how bad you women have it and the inbox on there just keeps getting full as soon as you deleet a msg five more come.

Same as winks and freind requests

...anyone setting up fake profiles is deliberately setting out to decieve people and waste peoples time . no wonder the genuine women and members get such grief ! then to brag on forum that mail box gets full and more come when you delete em i seriously despare!

its this thoughtless and childish behaviour that cause the endless .."why cant i get a meet", "theres so meny fakes on here " and " time waster" threds ! you do no site any favours or yourself being dishonest like that .nothing posative can ever come of it

"

was going to say something along those lines , setting up fake profiles is nothing but strange and wierd and probably a banning offence .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now i maybe right or i may be wrong but i thought everyone could sent outgoing messages. So why not block all incoming messages and use the search facilities to look for whom you like. They can mail you back if they want.

We all don't wait for the telesales guys to offer us gas, electric, insurance I know I don't, we go looking for the best deal so why not do the same with swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U think your reading into the fake profile to much it was never there to try and get meets. I wanted to see how much mail you women got and I no its a lot the profile was deleted after a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no need for sympathy.

There are enough options on this site to prevent such messages becoming a "regular thing" and women (and couples) use them in a heartbeat.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"thats nuthin!

wait til ya get 'can i bash ur gash'!!

then u really do know u've hit rock bottom!! "

Brill

*rushes for pen & paper*

It's not just women who get "crap" messages. But I do sympathize with anyone who receives them.

Anyone wanna put some lipstick on ma dipstick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can agree here. I made a fake women account just to see how bad you women have it and the inbox on there just keeps getting full as soon as you deleet a msg five more come.

Same as winks and freind requests

...anyone setting up fake profiles is deliberately setting out to decieve people and waste peoples time . no wonder the genuine women and members get such grief ! then to brag on forum that mail box gets full and more come when you delete em i seriously despare!

its this thoughtless and childish behaviour that cause the endless .."why cant i get a meet", "theres so meny fakes on here " and " time waster" threds ! you do no site any favours or yourself being dishonest like that .nothing posative can ever come of it

"

+ 1

well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nice tits!! "landsphil" Lol! "

Well thank you. Shag?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Fine. But unless I'm a highly unusual case, single men get daft messages too. By the dozens. From women and couples, would you believe.

I challenge anyone to find a single man moaning about it in the forum.

Delete 'em. Carry on with life.

????????????????????????????

I got the above message earlier , how Fo you think I should reply "

I sent you that message when you sent me 'I think you're mistaken' I was puzzled till I realised that it was in response to my comment on the 'name & shame' thread! Z

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Some would complain if they didn't... Perish the thought of not having a good ego stroking.

There is good and bad in all categories.

Some just don't make a song and dance about it."

I did... but apprently it's not cool to carry a roll of lino and a beat box around anymore, so not many people have seen it.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Just like cigarettes....

"

You can extinguish them safely or let them burn your house down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for the sympathy OP, how nice that a guy is in touch with the feelings of others. It is indeed so exasperating to receive daft mail.

But on a positive note some women may like this caring feeling approachy. You might even get more shags out of it - bet you never thought of that did ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're getting messages saying "fancy a fuck" just be grateful it was spelt properly and it wasn't txt spk!!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"U think your reading into the fake profile to much it was never there to try and get meets. I wanted to see how much mail you women got and I no its a lot the profile was deleted after a day "

weather it was for on day ,one month ,one year or a decade its NEVER ACCEPTABLE .thats why peaople can report fake profiles and they are removed .

as for "just seeing how much mail a woman gets " .futile !!! youre not a woman !!! why concern yourself about whats others are doing ,you should focus on getting interest and ,mail in your own right .

i just wonder how blaze' you would be if you found out woman/women your messaging are actually guys ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I so love the forums, much more insight on here then on any profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So clearly asking someone the question "wanna breed?" Is a no go then? Wondered where I was going wrong Haha.

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