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Double standards, attached people

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I am asking this question mainly for guy's but am sure there are a few women also like this.

So you are attached either married or a couple.

Unbeknownst(or maybe they know) to them you play around, you might be lucky enough to have regular sex with others.

Is there anyone honest enough to admit that they are more than happy to shag other people's wives or husband's.

But would go ballistic and certainly not let anyone shag your wife or husband , partner??

I am just curious really,I would imagine it's mainly the guy's who class themselves as bulls and see women as a trophy rather than a person.

If yes is it jealousy, insecurity or a control thing?

Anyone honest enough to give a genuine answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer.... I adore attached guys for nsa. No hassle and no expectation of what’s NOT on offer. I’ve been divorced three years but have only been swinging two. Would I have been gutted if my ex husband was shagging around ??? Of course. when In a relationship no one wants to be “ cheated on”. If you are faithful to that one person and building a life with them. But the reality is people are unfaithful, it happens and is a part of life .....

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Shagging about begins their back and doing it with their knowledge are two different things though.

I have played whilst attached (with his knowledge) but wouldn’t with a ‘cheating’ attached guy as I’m not on here to possibly hurt the feelings of the clueless lady at home xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" But the reality is people are unfaithful, it happens and is a part of life ..... "

Lady Marmalade, that is fact! I'm certain lots of people will consider that viewpoint a tad cynical though. Meanwhile, in a relationship, I would be perfectly ok if a partner wanted to indulge as long as safety is taken into consideration appropriately.

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By *harma and GregCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

A few years ago we were talking with a guy from here arranged a meet he didnt show. 2 weeks later i get a phone call from a women who told me he was her partner they had been together 5 years and had 1 child and another on the way she had found his profile and all the messages we had been sending she was heart broken and i felt awful. So no i wouldnt play with attached men if their partners didnt know wouldnt want to hurt someone like that.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

I’m an attached guy and play with my partners full knowledge and consent.

She also has a single profile on here so it wouldn’t be an issue for me if she played with someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been the other woman for years. I'm probably keeping them together in some ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few years ago we were talking with a guy from here arranged a meet he didnt show. 2 weeks later i get a phone call from a women who told me he was her partner they had been together 5 years and had 1 child and another on the way she had found his profile and all the messages we had been sending she was heart broken and i felt awful. So no i wouldnt play with attached men if their partners didnt know wouldnt want to hurt someone like that. "

People lie unfortunetly... how do you know that they have their partners consent ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is not cheating it's about being open and honest and sharing the experience. And I would never be forced into any thing I did not want to do so many people get this wrong x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is not cheating it's about being open and honest and sharing the experience. And I would never be forced into any thing I did not want to do so many people get this wrong x"

The OP did not mention swinging in the question !

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By *harma and GregCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"A few years ago we were talking with a guy from here arranged a meet he didnt show. 2 weeks later i get a phone call from a women who told me he was her partner they had been together 5 years and had 1 child and another on the way she had found his profile and all the messages we had been sending she was heart broken and i felt awful. So no i wouldnt play with attached men if their partners didnt know wouldnt want to hurt someone like that.

People lie unfortunetly... how do you know that they have their partners consent ? "

As a rule we dont we play with couples or a guy from a couple so we know hes really ok to play dont want to be in that situation again.

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