FabSwingers.com forum: AbFabs Friday

By *xonswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

Close to Oxford

We haven't been to a club for a couple of years (normally went to SJ2). So we are going to AbFabs on Friday for the first time.

Just after some advice on what the place is like, how warm is the swimming pool, can you take a bag of things for the dungeon, and to ask if anyone else is going?

Noticed a lot of people in the reviews section saying they get pestered a lot (something that didnt happen with us when we used to go to SJ2, but that could be because we went as part of group) whats the best way to deal with that?

All help and encouragement greatly appreciated.

By *oupleup4funCouple
over a year ago

Ashton

We have not been on a Friday as they allow in single men, and it did have a reputation for being pestered. The club is big, bring your own booze, a number of private rooms and open play areas. The pool is warm and next to the hot tub, in the winter it is covered.

They provide towels and shawls for the ladies if it is cold going from the main house to the pool and dungeon. I am sure you can take toys into all areas, and there is an area to lock away stuff while in the pool and hot tub.

Good club, downsides it can be empty if not going on the right night, and dance floor if that's your thing very small and no DJ.

Very clean every time we have been, and when busy lots of sexy peeps..

Have fun.

J&S

By *xonswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

Close to Oxford

Yes its the pestering thing we are a little uneasy about as we dont know what pestering means. If its just guys coming up and chatting and seeing if we click then thats fine. But if its a case of guys coming up and touching and interfering on assumption then thats a little different.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any guy touching you or do things you dont want is out of order say NO firmly and if he still carries on tell the management and they should get him to leave clubs thats all clubs are supposed to be a fun relaxing place all ppl are supposed to behave

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't go on a Friday but I can tell you the pool is really warm it's one of the reasons I love the club and it has only taken me a yr to convert Jet into a water baby as well