FabSwingers.com forum: Genuinely surprised

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Me and my gorgeous other half have always had a very healthy and amazing physical relationship and going to clubs etc is something we have always talked about.

We finally took the plunge and threw ourselves in the deep end and went to VAs for the first time a few weeks ago. We loved it, but what’s surprised me the most from all of this is the amount of wonderful people we have spoken to and met, not just in a debauched state but people we have found we could see as friends both on the scene and away from it. We are now finding the social side of things as equally exciting as the naughty bits.

Not only that but it has both given us such amazing confidence boosts, in both physical and personality ways. Stacey and Myself used to be in other relationships were we both felt like we were 2nd rate and constantly put down by both our exes respectively, to be able to be in a loving relation together where we can both be ourselves and be able to share something we both enjoy without feeling ashamsed or embarrassed is life changing.

I’m nit really sure of the point of his ramble suppose in a ways it’s to say thank you to the “swinging” community for welcoming us with open arms. So to those we have met and those we look forward to meeting. Here’s to you and thank you again

Chris and Stacey x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not surprised you got a good welcome with a missus like yours!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not surprised you got a good welcome with a missus like yours!

Lol thank you I’m under no illusions where the attention goes

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

That's nice to read,it's good when you see positivity on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's nice to read,it's good when you see positivity on here."

The sunshine does wonderful things lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ironically we were saying the same thing word for word in a conversation this morning!

Like someone already stated it's great to see positivity in the forums, thankyou

BD xx

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"Ironically we were saying the same thing word for word in a conversation this morning!

Like someone already stated it's great to see positivity in the forums, thankyou

BD xx "
Not only positivity here but a positive endorsement of the benefits of going to a club. This for us has been our experience too and can't speak highly enough for the opportunity to meet and speak to people that we might have considered "out of our league" only to find they were the most grounded and humble of people that were only too pleased to speak with us. Many of which still message us on a frequent basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww what a lovely post. I'm welling up here! x

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral

We think this whole swingy thing is great for you in many ways. As we intend to get naked in front of virtual strangers it gives us a reason to keep ourselves in as least a half decent shape. When others find you attractive enough, as a couple and as individuals, that they want to have sex with you, it gives you a massive confidence boost. Over the years we have also met people that have become friends in “real” life. We love clubs and parties and are glad you took the plunge and enjoyed it so much xx PnJ xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not surprised you got a good welcome with a missus like yours!

Lol thank you I’m under no illusions where the attention goes

Same for me mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is great to hear... thanks for originally posting and also everyone else who as added comments.

We are off to the VA for the first time in a few weeks and it will be our first time meeting anyone from Fabs as well, and so hearing people talking really positively about it and also saying they had similar thoughts before they first went really helps with the nerves. Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad you had a wonderful time OP

We love VA has always been a fave club of hours since we started going to clubs all those years ago

And for the record I don’t think you look too shabby either...not just the Mrs

MrsK x

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Totally get what you are saying

I have posted many times on the forums how after walking away from a controlling bully swinging helped me gain confidence .

I never went out on my own , being on here gave me a voice and then venturing to clubs with my confident alter ego ‘scarlett’ enables me to explore a side of me I didn’t even know I had.

Don’t let the hair and boobs fool you there is still that shy , awkward wreck inside and I have a few wobbles but in the whole the friends I have made are amazing as well as bagging a fantastic fiancé along the way too

So glad you had a great time and keep exploring the clubs too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is great to hear... thanks for originally posting and also everyone else who as added comments.

Honestly don’t think you can pick a better club to start with. Put it this way, we’ve been back every week since lol

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