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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning all...

So Mrs L is cuckquean, she likes all aspects of seeing me play with another woman. From being tied and watching from the sideline to me going out and meeting alone to return with details and maybe pics etc.

Difficulty is, on fab, a guy playing alone is usually just treated as cheating. We also can't connect with a lot of single women who are looking for men as they've blocked couples.

Don't really want to set up a single male profile as it's still a couple activity, even if Mrs L is at home getting off over what might be happening!

Just wondered if anyone else shares the fantasy and makes it work on here?

Xxx

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I think the single male profile is the way to go. Lots of females who are part of a couple have single female profiles for meeting alone.

Also you can reference your couples profile so it is clear what your dynamic is.

The biggest challenge will be finding what ever the equivalent of a females bull is if you are wanting that full dynamic.

If it's enough for you to meet any female without them having to actively participate in your scenario then just don't mention it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Agree that a single male profile is the way to go - can cross-reference the two so there is no room for confusion and/or doubt - perhaps confirming in both that Mrs L would be happy to confirm "permissions" in any way, although not in anyway a cuck thing that's what we do

Many couples on here have separate solo profiles too, so it's not unusual and can work just need to make it clear to anyone you are potentially meeting what your dynamic is - some people wouldn't want their intimate encounters discussed with anyone in detail, even partners.

The only other comment I'd make is that most of your profile pics are of Mrs L alone or Mrs L with Mr L's cock, given your dynamic and what you are looking for primarily I'd have thought it might be better to focus more on pics of Mr L (body/torso/bum etc) in order to attract the kind of meet you are looking for.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Fully agree with what's been mentioned above.

My partner MissD is a Cuckquean and she gets turned on by me meeting other women whether she is there or not. I've expressed on our couples profile and my singles profile that she is fully aware and consents to what I get up to.

It can work although it can be hard meeting people who understand the dynamic.

But it is possible. Get active, go to socials and clubs. Make sure everything is in the open so other swingers are aware. Maybe even have your lady accompany you to the events of possible so people can see you're both serious about your kinks.

That what me and MissD did and it's worked wonders in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think were in a similar situation.

The wife really gets of watching me play with other women and would love to see it more often but compaired to the hot wife / cuck scene it seems to still be a very smalll isolated comunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok im a cuckquean/switch dont confuse me as a cupcake i dont want to be humiliated or find the bull equivalent, we found it better to establish a single female friendship, have an evening as a ffm and then i explained my fetish so to speak this can work better xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok im a cuckquean/switch dont confuse me as a cupcake i dont want to be humiliated or find the bull equivalent, we found it better to establish a single female friendship, have an evening as a ffm and then i explained my fetish so to speak this can work better xx "

Hadn't even heard the term cupcake!

We're the same. Mrs doesn't want the humiliation side of things, just to watch or hear about it afterwards.

We've lived out the fantasy a few times, but just wondered if we're missing out by not having the right profile setup/photos. Thank you all for your input! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok im a cuckquean/switch dont confuse me as a cupcake i dont want to be humiliated or find the bull equivalent, we found it better to establish a single female friendship, have an evening as a ffm and then i explained my fetish so to speak this can work better xx

Hadn't even heard the term cupcake!

We're the same. Mrs doesn't want the humiliation side of things, just to watch or hear about it afterwards.

We've lived out the fantasy a few times, but just wondered if we're missing out by not having the right profile setup/photos. Thank you all for your input! X"

I think it can be hard for a single fem to really understand the dynamics, its beleive it or not all about control, you beling to her, she wants to share/loan you she then gets arroused at the thought of sharing/loaning you out so to speak but you ultermity belong to her and thats the turn on....well i can only speak for myself. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching with interest..

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

... no one around my little part of fab... damn... would love to be the other woman...

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Distance can be a real bummer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There aren't many single fems that want to get involved in a cuckquean and her man senario, im a total observer and want nothing more than to o serve my man pleasing a willing lady, that can and does put off a single fem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never knew there was a term for what I enjoy.

I am a cuck queen I love hubby going out and fucking other women and telling me about it afterward x always looking for fems to join x

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

I love sending hubby out to meet another lady, turns me on so much knowing she is enjoying him then him coming home to me

Not into the humiliation side of things either and agree it’s not easy to arrange.......shame

Minnie x

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By *parklingGrey.xWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Following with interest

I/we are also in this position, it is a major turn on for me but as others have said, for most men, finding a woman is difficult enough without the added 'complications' that having a cuckquean involves.

We did find success, someone who was really interested in M, but she was not respectful of our dynamic and preferred to act like I didn't exist. She just wanted M because she had a huge crush on him, which is obviously not okay, so that didn't last long!

Hoping to find someone more open minded next time and really glad to know I'm not alone

Good luck!

N x

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

If only there were more single ladies that were into what we are into lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following with interest

I/we are also in this position, it is a major turn on for me but as others have said, for most men, finding a woman is difficult enough without the added 'complications' that having a cuckquean involves.

We did find success, someone who was really interested in M, but she was not respectful of our dynamic and preferred to act like I didn't exist. She just wanted M because she had a huge crush on him, which is obviously not okay, so that didn't last long!

Hoping to find someone more open minded next time and really glad to know I'm not alone

Good luck!

N x"

I am completely with you on this, thats why its so important to find the right female, disrespect from a single fem will not be tolarated at all, and to me a perfect example of a fem not understanding the cuckquean dynamic, in our prossess i say who, when, where and how often xx

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By *parklingGrey.xWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Following with interest

I/we are also in this position, it is a major turn on for me but as others have said, for most men, finding a woman is difficult enough without the added 'complications' that having a cuckquean involves.

We did find success, someone who was really interested in M, but she was not respectful of our dynamic and preferred to act like I didn't exist. She just wanted M because she had a huge crush on him, which is obviously not okay, so that didn't last long!

Hoping to find someone more open minded next time and really glad to know I'm not alone

Good luck!

N x

I am completely with you on this, thats why its so important to find the right female, disrespect from a single fem will not be tolarated at all, and to me a perfect example of a fem not understanding the cuckquean dynamic, in our prossess i say who, when, where and how often xx"

totally get you. It has to be a decision that involves both parties and I think that sometimes it's viewed more as like, enabled cheating ..when that couldn't be further from the reality. It's still a joint venture, it's something that is ultimately sexual for both the couple and of course the woman, even if the female part of the couple isn't involved.

Or that's my take on it anyway (which is hard to do when the woman tries to act like I don't exist )

I'm so glad I'm not alone in my kink

N x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok maybe it’s the fact that I’ve not been asleep yet (damn you insomnia) but would the reverse of this be Hotwife ? I’m thinking yes x

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South


"Ok maybe it’s the fact that I’ve not been asleep yet (damn you insomnia) but would the reverse of this be Hotwife ? I’m thinking yes x "

Reverse of a Cuckquean is a Cuckold.

Reverse of a Hotwife is a Hothubby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubbys not cuckold tho we just like each other playing solo and being told about it after x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok maybe it’s the fact that I’ve not been asleep yet (damn you insomnia) but would the reverse of this be Hotwife ? I’m thinking yes x "

I get your thinking, hothusband yeah!

i dont think the dynamics are the same as cuckold though, i think the wife/girlfriend says who in that kink.

Where as in ours i ultermitly make the last desision xx

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

We have that with a couple we have known for a long time, where one of us will occasionally go off for to spend a night in a nice hotel with the other’s partner.

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By *oth_cook69Couple
over a year ago

WOKING

We share the fantasy completely and have the same thoughts as you about not wanting a single man’s profile. We have actually been blocked by people once we start talking about it.

We have tried putting it on our profile but people were not reading it.

We have given up for now and will see what happens. We will still continue to hope!!

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Keep hoping, it does happen

We had a lady fwb for a year that hubby met with on his own.....I joined in from time to time too

That was a fun year.....if only we could find another

Minnie x

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

A couple with a cuckqueen would be the only couple I'd consider meeting. Especially because I'm a bit of a cuckqueen myself. I adore watching / hearing about my partners exploits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a scenario I would look to get involved with.

The last one the man left his Mrs for me after a couple of meets (without my knowledge) and I ended up entwined in their marriage dramas even though I wasn't interested.

Couples always cause me drama... maybe I've been unlucky but I'm not tempting fate

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Ok maybe it’s the fact that I’ve not been asleep yet (damn you insomnia) but would the reverse of this be Hotwife ? I’m thinking yes x

Reverse of a Cuckquean is a Cuckold.

Reverse of a Hotwife is a Hothubby x"

What is the reverse of a bull? A cow?.

Not sure that is as appealing a term. Hmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok maybe it’s the fact that I’ve not been asleep yet (damn you insomnia) but would the reverse of this be Hotwife ? I’m thinking yes x

Reverse of a Cuckquean is a Cuckold.

Reverse of a Hotwife is a Hothubby x

What is the reverse of a bull? A cow?.

Not sure that is as appealing a term. Hmm "

Reverse of a cuckquean is not a cuckold....it is a cupcake!

A cuckquean enjoys watching or hearing of her hubbies adventures but ultemitly has full control of all meets and with whom.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South


"Ok maybe it’s the fact that I’ve not been asleep yet (damn you insomnia) but would the reverse of this be Hotwife ? I’m thinking yes x

Reverse of a Cuckquean is a Cuckold.

Reverse of a Hotwife is a Hothubby x

What is the reverse of a bull? A cow?.

Not sure that is as appealing a term. Hmm

Reverse of a cuckquean is not a cuckold....it is a cupcake!

A cuckquean enjoys watching or hearing of her hubbies adventures but ultemitly has full control of all meets and with whom."

Definition of a Cuckquean is correct although not all Cuckqueans have full full control as some are submissive.

A cupcake (third person in a cuckquean dynamic) is the female version of a bull, although she doesn’t have to be as dominant as a bull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok maybe it’s the fact that I’ve not been asleep yet (damn you insomnia) but would the reverse of this be Hotwife ? I’m thinking yes x

Reverse of a Cuckquean is a Cuckold.

Reverse of a Hotwife is a Hothubby x

What is the reverse of a bull? A cow?.

Not sure that is as appealing a term. Hmm

Reverse of a cuckquean is not a cuckold....it is a cupcake!

A cuckquean enjoys watching or hearing of her hubbies adventures but ultemitly has full control of all meets and with whom.

Definition of a Cuckquean is correct although not all Cuckqueans have full full control as some are submissive.

A cupcake (third person in a cuckquean dynamic) is the female version of a bull, although she doesn’t have to be as dominant as a bull. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok maybe it’s the fact that I’ve not been asleep yet (damn you insomnia) but would the reverse of this be Hotwife ? I’m thinking yes x

Reverse of a Cuckquean is a Cuckold.

Reverse of a Hotwife is a Hothubby x

What is the reverse of a bull? A cow?.

Not sure that is as appealing a term. Hmm

Reverse of a cuckquean is not a cuckold....it is a cupcake!

A cuckquean enjoys watching or hearing of her hubbies adventures but ultemitly has full control of all meets and with whom.

Definition of a Cuckquean is correct although not all Cuckqueans have full full control as some are submissive.

A cupcake (third person in a cuckquean dynamic) is the female version of a bull, although she doesn’t have to be as dominant as a bull. "

Agreed!

Although our dynsmic is i have full control of all meets and with whom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a cuckquean and personally I get off more on my husband doing things without me but he'd prefer for me to be there.

The former situation is certainly much easier to make happen.

Women who are open to a couple tend to expect the woman to get involved too but for me I'd rather just watch. Maybe clean up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be interested in meeting a cuckquean couple with no humiliation involved, it sounds fun

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

The thing with cuckqueans is it is quite hard to strike a dynamic based on most paths. Its finding out what aspects turn the cuck on with and initializing on that.

I had a relationship with a cuckquaen and for her it was sounds and strong humiliation... Me comparing how tight miss X was compared to her ect ect.

So lots done over whatsapp with voice recordings.

Find the niche that works, discuss, talk and discuss more. What is in it for her, what is in it for you.

As for finding a cake on here, again its best to be open about intent from the start of any conversations... Some ladies would be ok with it as long as they get your partners ok first.

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