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"I've met this pretty dominant guy right from when I first started sucking cock. However I've not met him in a while... so I messaged him and he said that I can only suck his cock if I let him cum on my face or down my throat the first time we meet. Why is he doing this when I'm basically offering my mouth to him? "He's set the terms and expectation of you. It's up to you whether you're going to agree to them! If he's hung then I'd happily let him cum anywhere he wanted. | |||
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"Yeah but sucking his Cock being facefucked he likes that too so whys he turning me down?" he's blowing you out, take the hint and move on... | |||
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"Think he doesn't want to meet me anymore? Whys he say after I can suck him regularly again?" Hes not worth meeting in my view your a decent good looking lad move on fire him off and block him. | |||
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"Thanks there's something I like about him though " His dominance? Plenty of dom guys about that are not full on abusive. Personally i prefer mutual respect and fun but thats me lol. | |||
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"Thanks there's something I like about him though His dominance? Plenty of dom guys about that are not full on abusive. Personally i prefer mutual respect and fun but thats me lol." I do like dominance | |||
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"Thanks there's something I like about him though " You basically have a simple choice: - accept what he wants and continue seeing him - decide what he wants isn't for you, explain that to him and why, if he no longer wants to meet then accept it and move on. Your choice entirely  | |||
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"Do you think it's abuse?" surely u can think for urself! If u think its abuse then it is! If ur questioning something walk away!!!!!! | |||
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"Do you think it's abuse? surely u can think for urself! If u think its abuse then it is! If ur questioning something walk away!!!!!!" I don't think he's abused me but I don't understand why he doesn't want me to suck him | |||
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"Don't be taken advantage of sweetheart. If you are completely happy with his terms, thats fine, but if you are having a few doubts or feel uneasy about if, leave it. Your gut feeling should be listened to." I'm just unsure why he's being like this | |||
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"Tbh I can't see the issue." Well I want to suck him that was the point of our meets | |||
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"Think he doesn't want to meet me anymore? Whys he say after I can suck him regularly again?" Why are you asking people who don't know you or him what he's thinking? | |||
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"Do you think it's abuse? surely u can think for urself! If u think its abuse then it is! If ur questioning something walk away!!!!!! I don't think he's abused me but I don't understand why he doesn't want me to suck him" Not abuse but hes not being honest on his intentions id walk but upto you. | |||
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"Think he doesn't want to meet me anymore? Whys he say after I can suck him regularly again? Why are you asking people who don't know you or him what he's thinking? " Because they have more experience with casual meets | |||
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"Do you think it's abuse? surely u can think for urself! If u think its abuse then it is! If ur questioning something walk away!!!!!! I don't think he's abused me but I don't understand why he doesn't want me to suck him" Crikey  Maybe you were not any good?!
First off you were worried he's setting terms, now you are saying he doesn't want you.... whats it to be? Or are you just looking for a bit of attention? | |||
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"Do you think it's abuse? surely u can think for urself! If u think its abuse then it is! If ur questioning something walk away!!!!!! I don't think he's abused me but I don't understand why he doesn't want me to suck him Crikey Maybe you were not any good?!
First off you were worried he's setting terms, now you are saying he doesn't want you.... whats it to be? Or are you just looking for a bit of attention?"No I am not looking for attention just some help... | |||
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"Do you think it's abuse? surely u can think for urself! If u think its abuse then it is! If ur questioning something walk away!!!!!! I don't think he's abused me but I don't understand why he doesn't want me to suck him Crikey Maybe you were not any good?!
First off you were worried he's setting terms, now you are saying he doesn't want you.... whats it to be? Or are you just looking for a bit of attention?
No I am not looking for attention just some help..."So what help do you want? Do you want somebody to tell you what to do? You are a big boy now and playing in a very big pond. Make your own mind up. | |||
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"Think he doesn't want to meet me anymore? Whys he say after I can suck him regularly again? Why are you asking people who don't know you or him what he's thinking? Because they have more experience with casual meets" It doesn't matter how much experience anyone has with casual meets it doesn't mean they will know what this guy is thinking or the motives behind his actions. My opinion for what it's worth is that you're over thinking and putting yourself in a vulnerable position. I advise you to move on. | |||
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"Do you think it's abuse? surely u can think for urself! If u think its abuse then it is! If ur questioning something walk away!!!!!! I don't think he's abused me but I don't understand why he doesn't want me to suck him Crikey Maybe you were not any good?!
First off you were worried he's setting terms, now you are saying he doesn't want you.... whats it to be? Or are you just looking for a bit of attention?
No I am not looking for attention just some help..."Well like others said if he makes you question things then move onto someone else plenty of other cocks to suck. Maybe hes having a fear of being gay by letting you suck him off? Alot of guys do that. | |||
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"Tbh I can't see the issue. Well I want to suck him that was the point of our meets" Well if he's asking to cum down your throat and you're happy to let him do that - wouldn't you be sucking him as part of that anyway? In which case as said, where's the issue? If you're not happy to do that but he insists it's that or nothing then you're probably not compatible and you have to accept that and move on. Never compromise on what you want for the sake of sex | |||
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"Tbh I can't see the issue. Well I want to suck him that was the point of our meets" Exactly. He's said you can if you do what he said. Have you not at least swallowed it before seeing as you've already met? | |||
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"Tbh I can't see the issue. Well I want to suck him that was the point of our meets Well if he's asking to cum down your throat and you're happy to let him do that - wouldn't you be sucking him as part of that anyway? In which case as said, where's the issue? If you're not happy to do that but he insists it's that or nothing then you're probably not compatible and you have to accept that and move on. Never compromise on what you want for the sake of sex "No I wouldn't be sucking him he wants to masturbate down my throat hence where the problem is | |||
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"Okay thank you all " No worries mate stay safe and have fun. | |||
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"Tbh I can't see the issue. Well I want to suck him that was the point of our meets Exactly. He's said you can if you do what he said. Have you not at least swallowed it before seeing as you've already met?" I have swallowed yes but I've sucked him too which is the bit I enjoy... | |||
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"Tbh I can't see the issue. Well I want to suck him that was the point of our meets Well if he's asking to cum down your throat and you're happy to let him do that - wouldn't you be sucking him as part of that anyway? In which case as said, where's the issue? If you're not happy to do that but he insists it's that or nothing then you're probably not compatible and you have to accept that and move on. Never compromise on what you want for the sake of sex
No I wouldn't be sucking him he wants to masturbate down my throat hence where the problem is"Well the choice is yours then - as I said earlier either you can accept what he wants and carry on meeting him or explain it's not what you want and move on if he can't accept that | |||
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"Tbh I can't see the issue. Well I want to suck him that was the point of our meets Well if he's asking to cum down your throat and you're happy to let him do that - wouldn't you be sucking him as part of that anyway? In which case as said, where's the issue? If you're not happy to do that but he insists it's that or nothing then you're probably not compatible and you have to accept that and move on. Never compromise on what you want for the sake of sex
No I wouldn't be sucking him he wants to masturbate down my throat hence where the problem is
Well the choice is yours then - as I said earlier either you can accept what he wants and carry on meeting him or explain it's not what you want and move on if he can't accept that "I just keep thinking it's only one time then I could get what I want again but is that selling my self respect | |||
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"Tbh I can't see the issue. Well I want to suck him that was the point of our meets Well if he's asking to cum down your throat and you're happy to let him do that - wouldn't you be sucking him as part of that anyway? In which case as said, where's the issue? If you're not happy to do that but he insists it's that or nothing then you're probably not compatible and you have to accept that and move on. Never compromise on what you want for the sake of sex
No I wouldn't be sucking him he wants to masturbate down my throat hence where the problem is
Well the choice is yours then - as I said earlier either you can accept what he wants and carry on meeting him or explain it's not what you want and move on if he can't accept that
I just keep thinking it's only one time then I could get what I want again but is that selling my self respect "Only you can decide the answer to that one | |||
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"I don’t get what the problem is? An you only want to suck him off, so where does the cum normally go? Or do you not suck to completion "The problem is he won't let me suck him the first meet | |||
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"Tbh I can't see the issue. Well I want to suck him that was the point of our meets Well if he's asking to cum down your throat and you're happy to let him do that - wouldn't you be sucking him as part of that anyway? In which case as said, where's the issue? If you're not happy to do that but he insists it's that or nothing then you're probably not compatible and you have to accept that and move on. Never compromise on what you want for the sake of sex
No I wouldn't be sucking him he wants to masturbate down my throat hence where the problem is
Well the choice is yours then - as I said earlier either you can accept what he wants and carry on meeting him or explain it's not what you want and move on if he can't accept that
I just keep thinking it's only one time then I could get what I want again but is that selling my self respect "No, it's willingly giving it up. | |||
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"Tbh I can't see the issue. Well I want to suck him that was the point of our meets Well if he's asking to cum down your throat and you're happy to let him do that - wouldn't you be sucking him as part of that anyway? In which case as said, where's the issue? If you're not happy to do that but he insists it's that or nothing then you're probably not compatible and you have to accept that and move on. Never compromise on what you want for the sake of sex
No I wouldn't be sucking him he wants to masturbate down my throat hence where the problem is
Well the choice is yours then - as I said earlier either you can accept what he wants and carry on meeting him or explain it's not what you want and move on if he can't accept that
I just keep thinking it's only one time then I could get what I want again but is that selling my self respect
No, it's willingly giving it up."I guess it's worth it | |||
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"I would be he doesn't reply to me much unless it's me agreeing he said that's his only off because I need to learn my lesson for letting him down in the past..." Seriously. Move on to another guy. This is casual sex, not game playing, teaching people lessons etc. As I said above you're making yourself vulnerable to abuse. | |||
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"I would be he doesn't reply to me much unless it's me agreeing he said that's his only off because I need to learn my lesson for letting him down in the past..."  Block him and forget him. | |||
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"Okay point taken I see where you saying it might go... to a controlling thing..." Nobody can take control of you in this situation, you are free to refuse to hand it over. | |||
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"I don’t get what the problem is? An you only want to suck him off, so where does the cum normally go? Or do you not suck to completion
The problem is he won't let me suck him the first meet"Oh sorry. So he wants a social then? | |||
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"I would be he doesn't reply to me much unless it's me agreeing he said that's his only off because I need to learn my lesson for letting him down in the past..." See....that last bit changes everything. Tell him to fuck off and find someone who not going to play games!!! | |||
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