FabSwingers.com forum: Fantasy Meets = Messing Around

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello Everyone.

2nd Post in the Forum.

I've been getting to know as many people from the site, from my location as i can, attempting to have as much fun as possible.

I'm finding that the majority of people i speak to are simply wanting a fantasy.

When we speak they are oh so interested in having fun (especially that of taboos) yet when it comes to meeting they simply fail to respond.

It would be brilliant to have a way reviewing profiles (like being able to fab a profile) with criteria such as failed meet, fantasiser, genuine meet, etc. It would simply be one button that you click.

Would love to hear your opinions on this matter to this.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello Everyone.

2nd Post in the Forum.

I've been getting to know as many people from the site, from my location as i can, attempting to have as much fun as possible.

I'm finding that the majority of people i speak to are simply wanting a fantasy.

When we speak they are oh so interested in having fun (especially that of taboos) yet when it comes to meeting they simply fail to respond.

Would love to hear your opinions on this matter to this.

Thanks."

Only one week on Fab. Give it one more week and you're bound to be inundated with meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Feel free to be one of the many meets Katy.

Very sexy pics.

Would speak crude to you all night, whilst doing other things

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

After a week they fail to respond?

Has ot occured they have lives...meeting as a couple the procedure to sort a meet would go like this...

i read mail

When get time (swinging is not our number one priority)show to kev

repeat stages 1 to 3 for any replies.

A week is about how long a reply can take...sorry you thought you had signed up to instashag.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are too many flaws in the idea, people could lie and state timewaster or fantasiser as you say, be it due to bitterness or that is just how they roll.

You are not alone in experiencing timewasters, many do, but that said fab is full of people who are here for the same reason you are. It took us a while to get our first meet, but once we did things seemed far more easy. As said earlier it has only been a week so im sure you will have some great fun on here

Good Luck and just ignore and move on from those that do not meet your desires, Sarah xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"After a week they fail to respond?

Has ot occured they have lives...meeting as a couple the procedure to sort a meet would go like this...

i read mail

When get time (swinging is not our number one priority)show to kev

repeat stages 1 to 3 for any replies.

A week is about how long a reply can take...sorry you thought you had signed up to instashag.com

i must not have made myself clear. they were constantly replying (like you would expect on msn) then when i mention setting up a meet, they stop replying, even after reading the message.

so feel free to be a little more hesitant before speaking in a condescending and patronising manor to me. - Thanks.

This is not my first time on the site, i created a new one when i moved to bristol from york. Same experience, different place.

Thanks for all the responses so far people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are too many flaws in the idea, people could lie and state timewaster or fantasiser as you say, be it due to bitterness or that is just how they roll.

Good Luck and just ignore and move on from those that do not meet your desires, Sarah xx"

Thanks for the advice and kind words sarah. Hope you find what you're looking for from the site too. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ill fight u for whatever meets u get in bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello Everyone.

2nd Post in the Forum.

I've been getting to know as many people from the site, from my location as i can, attempting to have as much fun as possible.

I'm finding that the majority of people i speak to are simply wanting a fantasy.

When we speak they are oh so interested in having fun (especially that of taboos) yet when it comes to meeting they simply fail to respond.

Would love to hear your opinions on this matter to this.

Thanks."

We have had this before. What's to stop me saying you are a woman really with one leg and a a hump bigger than quasimodo. It would be open to abuse so best not have one.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"After a week they fail to respond?

Has ot occured they have lives...meeting as a couple the procedure to sort a meet would go like this...

i read mail

When get time (swinging is not our number one priority)show to kev

repeat stages 1 to 3 for any replies.

A week is about how long a reply can take...sorry you thought you had signed up to instashag.com

i must not have made myself clear. they were constantly replying (like you would expect on msn) then when i mention setting up a meet, they stop replying, even after reading the message.

so feel free to be a little more hesitant before speaking in a condescending and patronising manor to me. - Thanks.

This is not my first time on the site, i created a new one when i moved to bristol from york. Same experience, different place.

Thanks for all the responses so far people."

If its not your first time its amazng you havnt learnt to spot someone after cyber yet...constant exchange of messages=no intention to meet.

And i will feel free to speak in any manner i want wthin the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a week they fail to respond?

Has ot occured they have lives...meeting as a couple the procedure to sort a meet would go like this...

i read mail

When get time (swinging is not our number one priority)show to kev

repeat stages 1 to 3 for any replies.

A week is about how long a reply can take...sorry you thought you had signed up to instashag.com

i must not have made myself clear. they were constantly replying (like you would expect on msn) then when i mention setting up a meet, they stop replying, even after reading the message.

so feel free to be a little more hesitant before speaking in a condescending and patronising manor to me. - Thanks.

This is not my first time on the site, i created a new one when i moved to bristol from york. Same experience, different place.

Thanks for all the responses so far people.

If its not your first time its amazng you havnt learnt to spot someone after cyber yet...constant exchange of messages=no intention to meet.

And i will feel free to speak in any manner i want wthin the rules

yes but manners cost nothing !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello Everyone.

2nd Post in the Forum.

I've been getting to know as many people from the site, from my location as i can, attempting to have as much fun as possible.

I'm finding that the majority of people i speak to are simply wanting a fantasy.

When we speak they are oh so interested in having fun (especially that of taboos) yet when it comes to meeting they simply fail to respond.

Would love to hear your opinions on this matter to this.

Thanks."

Just give it time mate, patience together with carefull "vetting" of potential meets will result in less dissapointment (as I`m sure you will have already spotted some that you wouldn`t like to meet).

Take it easy mate and good luck.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"After a week they fail to respond?

Has ot occured they have lives...meeting as a couple the procedure to sort a meet would go like this...

i read mail

When get time (swinging is not our number one priority)show to kev

repeat stages 1 to 3 for any replies.

A week is about how long a reply can take...sorry you thought you had signed up to instashag.com

i must not have made myself clear. they were constantly replying (like you would expect on msn) then when i mention setting up a meet, they stop replying, even after reading the message.

so feel free to be a little more hesitant before speaking in a condescending and patronising manor to me. - Thanks.

This is not my first time on the site, i created a new one when i moved to bristol from york. Same experience, different place.

Thanks for all the responses so far people.

If its not your first time its amazng you havnt learnt to spot someone after cyber yet...constant exchange of messages=no intention to meet.

And i will feel free to speak in any manner i want wthin the rules

yes but manners cost nothing !!!"

You are the last person i would take advice from behaviour on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dum di dum da tra lala ti tum tum.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"After a week they fail to respond?

Has ot occured they have lives...meeting as a couple the procedure to sort a meet would go like this...

i read mail

When get time (swinging is not our number one priority)show to kev

repeat stages 1 to 3 for any replies.

A week is about how long a reply can take...sorry you thought you had signed up to instashag.com

i must not have made myself clear. they were constantly replying (like you would expect on msn) then when i mention setting up a meet, they stop replying, even after reading the message.

so feel free to be a little more hesitant before speaking in a condescending and patronising manor to me. - Thanks.

This is not my first time on the site, i created a new one when i moved to bristol from york. Same experience, different place.

Thanks for all the responses so far people.

If its not your first time its amazng you havnt learnt to spot someone after cyber yet...constant exchange of messages=no intention to meet.

And i will feel free to speak in any manner i want wthin the rules

yes but manners cost nothing !!!

You are the last person i would take advice from behaviour on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a week they fail to respond?

Has ot occured they have lives...meeting as a couple the procedure to sort a meet would go like this...

i read mail

When get time (swinging is not our number one priority)show to kev

repeat stages 1 to 3 for any replies.

A week is about how long a reply can take...sorry you thought you had signed up to instashag.com

i must not have made myself clear. they were constantly replying (like you would expect on msn) then when i mention setting up a meet, they stop replying, even after reading the message.

so feel free to be a little more hesitant before speaking in a condescending and patronising manor to me. - Thanks.

This is not my first time on the site, i created a new one when i moved to bristol from york. Same experience, different place.

Thanks for all the responses so far people.

If its not your first time its amazng you havnt learnt to spot someone after cyber yet...constant exchange of messages=no intention to meet.

And i will feel free to speak in any manner i want wthin the rules

yes but manners cost nothing !!!

You are the last person i would take advice from behaviour on

lol ditto..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feel free to be one of the many meets Katy.

Very sexy pics.

Would speak crude to you all night, whilst doing other things

Thanks Brad. Sadly, you're too young for me (and you remind me of my son's friend!)

Good luck on your travels through Fab!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Just out of curiosity....

How many people have done this to you in the last week?

Did you verify they were who they said they were before asking to meet? If so how?

Did you ever wonder why they wanted to talk about fantasies with you?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Dum di dum da tra lala ti tum tum.

Dallas?

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Hello Everyone.

2nd Post in the Forum.

I've been getting to know as many people from the site, from my location as i can, attempting to have as much fun as possible.

I'm finding that the majority of people i speak to are simply wanting a fantasy.

When we speak they are oh so interested in having fun (especially that of taboos) yet when it comes to meeting they simply fail to respond.

Would love to hear your opinions on this matter to this.

Thanks."

Hi hunny, welcome back to the site, I did wonder where you got too!!!!

Try casting your net over the bridge into Wales, have a few mates on here from your area!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why people are failing to respond to a meet request after email tennis. Only you know what the content and vibe was.

This is going to sound really arrogant and I apologise for it cos even I feel embarrassed to state it.

I have chatted to some absolutely lovely single guys and couples. There are loads of really great people out there, lots I'd like to play with.

I'm limited with my time, seems to be even more of an issue lately, so we find a spontaneous club visit suits, no arrangements needed, just wash and go so to speak.

Because of this I've ended up with a waiting list of guys who I haven't got around to playing with. I don't have the time or the will to fit everyone in.

Because of the ratio of single guys to women and couples, single guys may be laying all there eggs in one basket with the hope of a meet, women and couples may be jiggling 20 possible playmates.

That's why we get called timewasters by some guys. This is a problem faced by lots of single women and couples.

I'd say patience is the key OP, swinging is not a quick fix for sex, it takes more effort than chatting a girl up in a club on a Friday night. Good luck

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Along with a lot of other people, I'd advise you to have patience, cast your net wide, send individual messages to people you fancy meeting (copy and paste jobs/circulars are never good) and hope for the best. You will get meets, if I get meets dressed in a skirt, I'm sure you will do ok for yourself!

Regarding the notion of being able to rate people, I'm against it. Too many people send messages at odd times, wanting a meet there and then, regardless of them being miles away, having no pics and so on and it would be too easy to take revenge by unfairly rating someone down.

Tina

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