FabSwingers.com forum: Why don’t most women meet younger guys?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve been on this site for a while now and I’ve noticed that although I’m respectful and mature, it’s really difficult to meet women.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we have children your age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand that. Should’ve aimed this question more specifically to women without kids.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Despite your own assessment of your maturity it will be blatantly obvious to experienced and mature ladies that you are not on the same page. At 19, you should be in bars and clubs learning your trade so to speak. If you are to dip your toes into this world try a club, you are hardly likely to get many meetings from a computer keyboard. We have a son your age !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old "

*body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text is rather off-putting for me. You obviously believe your cock is awesome and people should be begging you to pleasure them with it. Sorry to break it to you but cock is not the only part of male body that can be used to pleasure a woman. The tongue and fingers can give much more than a cock, at least in my opinion.

Also, 'STD free' line- great for you, but we only have your word for it. And you'd only have whoever you're meeting word for it too.

Maybe different profile pic? More understated erotism, if you even know what it is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old "

This

I couldn’t help but wonder why a young man would want to have fun with me when younger ladies (who are less time stamped) are available. So I would assume they were in the any hole is a goal gang ... plus I don’t recall sex with teenagers / young 20 yr old men being that great when I was younger, so not sure it would change. Especially since I know better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old "

looking at your pictures you have nothing to worry about great body

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

"Despite your own assessment of your maturity it will be blatantly obvious to experienced and mature ladies that you are not on the same page. At 19, you should be in bars and clubs learning your trade so to speak. If you are to dip your toes into this world try a club, you are hardly likely to get many meetings from a computer keyboard. We have a son your age !"

This

Right now you're young, dumb and full of cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old

This

I can only assume OP finds the body

of an older woman more appealing

- like how some women chase bbc or whatever.

I’ve alwaus fancied older women - from my twenties and into my thirties. And for what it’s worth - a woman’s time stamps are damn sexy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies guys, although I laughed at few responses I respect your opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old

This

I can only assume OP finds the body

of an older woman more appealing

- like how some women chase bbc or whatever.

I’ve alwaus fancied older women - from my twenties and into my thirties. And for what it’s worth - a woman’s time stamps are damn sexy."

That’s great, but I would rather be desired for me, than what seems to a be minor fetish of the older woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people want to get to know and meet people on the same page and wave length some not all younger guys are not really going to be on that page and it would be quite obvious to an older women especially on a social meet which would most likely happen before anything develops to see what type of person she is going to be having some lets say "fun" with so usually instead of wasting their own time they would maybe just go for someone around their own age who they would more than likely connect with a bit better on a more chemistry and intellectual level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and if anyone mentions tiger stripes / real body etc

I just want to vomit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that. Should’ve aimed this question more specifically to women without kids."

My sons older than you and I’ve met men your age

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I can’t speak for women ..

But I don’t meet younger girls because if im going to meet someone you simply can’t beat experience x

Girls in there twenties look good but that’s not enough..

Women in there forties and fifties are having sex on totally a different planet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I’m 21 and most men my age or younger are extremely immature. I won’t meet anyone under the age of 27ish - I’m simply attracted to older men.

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old

This

I can only assume OP finds the body

of an older woman more appealing

- like how some women chase bbc or whatever.

I’ve alwaus fancied older women - from my twenties and into my thirties. And for what it’s worth - a woman’s time stamps are damn sexy.

That’s great, but I would rather be desired for me, than what seems to a be minor fetish of the older woman "

I agree, everyone wants to be desired for who they are. But - you don’t really get that online though in the beginning... in the beginning looks play a big part right?

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

"It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old "

I’m 27 and your body is far better than mine.

I wouldn’t meet a 19 year old because at 19, sex with 19 year olds was shit. They’re generally cocky and arrogant and think they know exactly what to do.

Which is how you come across to be perfectly honest OP. Modesty goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old

This

I can only assume OP finds the body

of an older woman more appealing

- like how some women chase bbc or whatever.

I’ve alwaus fancied older women - from my twenties and into my thirties. And for what it’s worth - a woman’s time stamps are damn sexy.

That’s great, but I would rather be desired for me, than what seems to a be minor fetish of the older woman

I agree, everyone wants to be desired for who they are. But - you don’t really get that online though in the beginning... in the beginning looks play a big part right? "

Exactly. Looks, not simply my age - which in this context is what the OP cares about (not mine personally but older women)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old

This

I can only assume OP finds the body

of an older woman more appealing

- like how some women chase bbc or whatever.

I’ve alwaus fancied older women - from my twenties and into my thirties. And for what it’s worth - a woman’s time stamps are damn sexy.

That’s great, but I would rather be desired for me, than what seems to a be minor fetish of the older woman

I agree, everyone wants to be desired for who they are. But - you don’t really get that online though in the beginning... in the beginning looks play a big part right?

Exactly. Looks, not simply my age - which in this context is what the OP cares about (not mine personally but older women)"

I guess age is part of looks - but we do agree I think. In any case I hope I didn’t make you feel fetishised!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Would you really fuck someone who is probably older than your own mother?

Do I want to fuck someone more than half my age? Not a chance in hell

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I understand that. Should’ve aimed this question more specifically to women without kids."

Because if we did have children they would be your age or older

I have absolutely nothing in common with teenagers - I even hated the company of other teenagers when I was one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always said age is just a number.. but in this society people look im disgust if someone young(male or female) is with someone of age.. and some older tend to stay away from the young ones because of the stigma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you really fuck someone who is probably older than your own mother?

Do I want to fuck someone more than half my age? Not a chance in hell

I guess that’s what’s great about sexuality - it’s diverse and different things float different peoples boats!

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I’ve been on this site for a while now and I’ve noticed that although I’m respectful and mature, it’s really difficult to meet women. "
At age 19 there is nothing that would possibly attract me to u! Yeah if i was 19 possibly! Dont expect anything from this site theres hundreds of boys like urself who are expecting women to drop their knickers at the sight of their cock! Go to a nightclub be a 19 yr old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a 19 year old last year for mmf sex, my former FWB arranged it. XXX

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Would you really fuck someone who is probably older than your own mother?

Do I want to fuck someone more than half my age? Not a chance in hell

I guess that’s what’s great about sexuality - it’s diverse and different things float different peoples boats!"

It does indeed! But I just wish people would:

A: Be truthful about ages

B: Respect ages (and preferences)

C: How other people meet

D: Read others fucking profiles

E: Stop bloody whinging if they are not included!

I had 3 x messages last night from a 25 year old who blatantly ignored all of mine, so is that an age thing of feeling entitled or just that individual thinking he could change my preferences about who I meet and when?

Plus a teenager proclaiming to know it all about sex and able to turn on a women double his age? Pull the other one it has bells on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because my daughter is older than you.youngest I would go is 28

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, we'd have absolutely nothing in common. I don't just want sex, I want conversation, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old

I’m 27 and your body is far better than mine.

I wouldn’t meet a 19 year old because at 19, sex with 19 year olds was shit. They’re generally cocky and arrogant and think they know exactly what to do.

Which is how you come across to be perfectly honest OP. Modesty goes a long way. "

Thank you beaut, but you’re gorgeous xx

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We don't worry how old a person is (provided they're over 18) we've had some great experiences with lads & lasses under 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this today 21 year old lad thought that he was the best thing since sliced bread x but he wasn’t for me x I have kids in there late 20’s and I just have no interest in so much younger than me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ages just a number... but many younger lads/women are rushed and not bothered about a mental connection... im 33 and have met with women of all ages, i find older are seductive, confident, unrushed & know what they want and how they want it.

I quickly learnt from a older fwb how rubbish rushed wham bam sex is and how the best sexual encounters are about the build up, triggering all the sensors & energys this has taught me so so much and now i turn down 99% of advances whether in person or online, and why im not into 'group sessions'

I used to sleep with literally anyone, i dont now.

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By *heangelWoman
over a year ago

wonderland

Not enough experience to know a woman’s body . And not mature enough or manly enough ( in my opinion )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on this site for a while now and I’ve noticed that although I’m respectful and mature, it’s really difficult to meet women. "

Op. What’s the difference between a whore and a bitch?

A whore is a woman that will sleep with anyone

A bitch is a woman that will sleep with anyone but you....

Take rejection with a grain of Salt ... in this thread you have two women posters that have met and played with men your age. So there is hope for you... btw I wish I was 19 again

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By *harliebluestockingsCouple
over a year ago

london

Guess I'm not most women then

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"I understand that. Should’ve aimed this question more specifically to women without kids."

What does having kids have to do with it? We don’t have kids and we still wouldn’t meet a teenager!

Why would we go out of our way to meet someone who is going to inexperienced, most likely more interested in their own pleasure than mutual pleasure for all, won’t be allowed into a club because of age, unlikely to be able to host as living with parents? Not mention how much common ground and interests is there likely to be when we’re 25+ years older than you.

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

"It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old

I’m 27 and your body is far better than mine.

I wouldn’t meet a 19 year old because at 19, sex with 19 year olds was shit. They’re generally cocky and arrogant and think they know exactly what to do.

Which is how you come across to be perfectly honest OP. Modesty goes a long way.

Thank you beaut, but you’re gorgeous xx"

thank you

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I wouldn't meet anyone your age because

a) We would have nothing in common to chat about after sex.

b) You're not much older than my son

c) I prefer experienced lovers

d) I'd think you were meeting me to tick a box off

e) You might call me mum by mistake!!!!

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

"I’ve been on this site for a while now and I’ve noticed that although I’m respectful and mature, it’s really difficult to meet women. "

Never mind all that - got any Panini stickers you want to swap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the replies here made me laugh you def get an insight into how woman work on here

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

"Love the replies here made me laugh you def get an insight into how woman work on here "

So does the little green arrow and profiles give an insight into how men work on here.

Especially those who can’t be bothered to read the FAQs of the site

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I’ve been on this site for a while now and I’ve noticed that although I’m respectful and mature, it’s really difficult to meet women.

Never mind all that - got any Panini stickers you want to swap? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on this site for a while now and I’ve noticed that although I’m respectful and mature, it’s really difficult to meet women.

Never mind all that - got any Panini stickers you want to swap? "

Not this year unfortunately 80p a pack..!

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
over a year ago

fairy land

Omg my youngest son is 19! My oldest is 30 and a mother too, I'd be way too self conscious to even think about it.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Ages just a number... but many younger lads/women are rushed and not bothered about a mental connection..."
I recommend you keep reading that back to yourself until it clicks.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Get along to a social, show people that you are more than just a cock.

You might get a few verifications, that could lead to a meet or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not enough experience to know a woman’s body . And not mature enough or manly enough ( in my opinion )"

Same. I met a guy from here who was 21. He was nice enough but seemed inexperienced and it was off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty on here meet younger guys in my experience, plenty more that I really wish they did

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I’ve been on this site for a while now and I’ve noticed that although I’m respectful and mature, it’s really difficult to meet women. "

Cock pictures won't help. No matter from what angle. Age and lack of veries will be another. Along with most people's children are around your age. You have to look for women who want a toy boy. Don't worry though. Once you get older this place will be a joke by then and you'll have found somewhere better

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We would only meet at a club and tend not to ask for birth certificates to check age... alot of clubs are for over 21s though.

We try to take each individual on their own merit and if we found chemistry with a younger man then it may progress.

However... Im a mum. My gut feeling is that at 19 you should be out with your mates pulling girls your own age, finding a nice girl to explore the world of sex with together. This place can suck every ounce of confidence and self esteem out of you. You are putting yourself up againt 1000s of young men, all looking for the same things.

I cant help but feel sad that you want to rush to fullfil fantasies and try everything. Sex from sites like this can give you a very warped impression of relationships and women in general.

We are old and have done the teenage hormone fueled fumbling, settled down, learnt the ropes slowly, raised a family, lived a bit, found ourselves ready to push our sexual boundarys further, and only then started swinging....

If you do it all now what are you going to have later in life?

Just slow down and dont be in such a hurry to grow up and do everything is all this old mum wants to say x

Happy fabbing, stay safe and enjoy

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"I’ve been on this site for a while now and I’ve noticed that although I’m respectful and mature, it’s really difficult to meet women. "

I do meet younger guys.... that is my preference..however there is a limit to the younger. You are younger than my eldest. To my mind that's just wrong on so many levels. Nothing against you as an individual just as a parent it's a no go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met younger gentleman and played at parties but if im honest i prefer men in their forties because they have the experience to know what an older woman likes.

On the other side of the coin ive also met men my age and some have been extremely arrogant as they think they know it all.

So the nitty gritty is finding the gents you like that suit the way you play and stick with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would only meet at a club and tend not to ask for birth certificates to check age... alot of clubs are for over 21s though.

We try to take each individual on their own merit and if we found chemistry with a younger man then it may progress.

I cant help but feel sad that you want to rush to fullfil fantasies and try everything. Sex from sites like this can give you a very warped impression of relationships and women in general.

If you do it all now what are you going to have later in life?

Just slow down and dont be in such a hurry to grow up and do everything is all this old mum wants to say x

Happy fabbing, stay safe and enjoy

Well said. An actual nice, polite, well thought out reply.

Totally beats the dismissive, nasty ones!!! The only thing good about those types of replies is that the op will know, very quickly what some of the people on here are really like!

Get yourself on some of the apps op. You'll have so much more fun on them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on this site for a while now and I’ve noticed that although I’m respectful and mature, it’s really difficult to meet women. "

Most men find it difficult to meet on here. It might not be your age that's the issue.

I don't mean that in a bad way.

Of all the reasons I've read on this thread of why people won't meet a 19 year old, the majority could also relate to a 40 year old man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not even about kids..

my kids are younger but I’m insecure about the difference between my boy and that of a 20 year old "

Insecure about your body.....looks pretty damn sexy to me

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Personally, I don't like extremes in anything. Sex wise, no one old enough to be my dad or young enough to be my son.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of reasons: some mentioned on here.

The main one for me is connection, it just wouldn’t be there. You were born when I was at university!!!

There’s also a need to filter on here to make it manageable and unfortunately for the OP, age is one of the easiest ways. The young, full of cum wide-boys mean I need my age high!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

OP, you're in Bradford so why don't you get yourself across to Cupids for there Cubs and Cougars night, that way you'll be moving in the right circles, might get private meets as a result too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, you're in Bradford so why don't you get yourself across to Cupids for there Cubs and Cougars night, that way you'll be moving in the right circles, might get private meets as a result too.

Do we have something like this in the midlands?

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By *esjMan
over a year ago

salford

I’m sorry but some answers on here are outrageous

In my opinion being young doesn’t mean your inexperienced and being old doesn’t mean you are good in bed,

Everyone has their own preferences and that’s all there is to it

I’m 25 but I’ll only get a meet if someone is attracted to me regardless of the age of them or me

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