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By *izzy. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I have one guy that sends me a message. Before i have chance to reply, he has sent 3 more.

He isn't repeating himself. It's just daft one line messages. What are you doing today ? You still free Friday? Is it sunny there ? I do like your photos smiley face.

He is filling up my inbox. I have said I don't mind chatting, but send me one message with all the chat, not one sentence per message.

Anyone else had this ? I am accompanying him to a club Friday, so can't ignore him. He seems pleasant enough, but how do I stop him sending me 3 messages every 5 minutes whenever I am online ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully he'll see this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell him your going to block him till Friday and put an "lol" at the end x

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By *izzy. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Hopefully he'll see this post "

I dont think he has discovered the forums yet. But it might help if he does. Me asking him not to write messages one sentence at a time hasn't registered with him !

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

You've asked him to do one simple thing and he's ignored you. I'd be having second thoughts about meeting him to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully he'll see this post

I dont think he has discovered the forums yet. But it might help if he does. Me asking him not to write messages one sentence at a time hasn't registered with him !"

Have been asking L to stop doing this when texting me, and im pleased to say after 3 years, she still does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had this before.. i was blunt and said quit with all the mesaages or al just not reply lol.. ended up blocking him as he never listened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it a put off and block after a while, I had one I was chatting to and because I hadn't reply he copied the message and resent it, I ignored he then sent a further 2 saying my name so I blocked him. A needy guy is a instant turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've asked him to do one simple thing and he's ignored you. I'd be having second thoughts about meeting him to be honest. "

I think she's getting a lift so unlikely x

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By *izzy. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"You've asked him to do one simple thing and he's ignored you. I'd be having second thoughts about meeting him to be honest.

I think she's getting a lift so unlikely x"

Lol. I wouldn't have a lift from someone I haven't met. No I said I would meet him and keep him company at my local club until he finds his feet. I do enjoy calming people's nerves and introducing them to the club scene, but if he keeps on, he might get blocked. !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have one guy that sends me a message. Before i have chance to reply, he has sent 3 more.

He isn't repeating himself. It's just daft one line messages. What are you doing today ? You still free Friday? Is it sunny there ? I do like your photos smiley face.

He is filling up my inbox. I have said I don't mind chatting, but send me one message with all the chat, not one sentence per message.

Anyone else had this ? I am accompanying him to a club Friday, so can't ignore him. He seems pleasant enough, but how do I stop him sending me 3 messages every 5 minutes whenever I am online ??? "

I have had the same from one or two guys and they call me rude when I say I can't be answering several messages as it's get confusing. That one at a time is more than enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've asked him to do one simple thing and he's ignored you. I'd be having second thoughts about meeting him to be honest.

I think she's getting a lift so unlikely x

Lol. I wouldn't have a lift from someone I haven't met. No I said I would meet him and keep him company at my local club until he finds his feet. I do enjoy calming people's nerves and introducing them to the club scene, but if he keeps on, he might get blocked. ! "

Just block him till Friday then lol To be fair tho he's probably just nervous and excited. He'll be full of confidence tho if he reads this thread pmsl x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Simple. Say you are looking forward to going to the club with him on Friday but if he continues to send these messages you won’t be going anywhere. Xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can u imagine how bad he’s going to be in person .....but at least you will have someone to hold your drink alnight

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By *izzy. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Can u imagine how bad he’s going to be in person .....but at least you will have someone to hold your drink alnight "

Shit, never occurred to me that he might be chat chat chat in my ear all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I got carried away

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

Regardless of what's plans you have , I'd have to block him. I can't be doing with needy people like that

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By *izzy. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Sorry I got carried away "

Glad you got the message. See you Friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not just the chatting ....why did u walk off and leave me ...where are you going etc etc but hey only you know if your doing the right thing or not

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