FabSwingers.com forum: I give up

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nothing more frustrating then chatting to someone for a while and then they randomly block you with no explanation..

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Don't give up...Keep calm and carry on contacting people.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Nothing more frustrating then chatting to someone for a while and then they randomly block you with no explanation.."

Possibly. What would you like us to say about it?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Welcome to fabland

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahh just venting frustration...

I know men get a bad rap on here but some of the women are just as bad for timewasting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always a reason.. lol, your obviously not for them just move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's always a reason.. lol, your obviously not for them just move on"

To be fair that would be understandable.. if we hadn't been chatting back and forth for an hour and she hadn't then given me her number... only to suddenly block me on here and whatsapp..

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"To be fair that would be understandable.. if we hadn't been chatting back and forth for an hour and she hadn't then given me her number... only to suddenly block me on here and whatsapp.. "

Maybe she’s just thorough, and asked for your number for a future-proof block-pocalypse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing more frustrating then chatting to someone for a while and then they randomly block you with no explanation.."

Splinter in between your toes. My dad had to pin me to the bed while my grandad got it out with tweezers. Pretty frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing more frustrating then chatting to someone for a while and then they randomly block you with no explanation..

Splinter in between your toes. My dad had to pin me to the bed while my grandad got it out with tweezers. Pretty frustrating. "

Sounds more painful then frustrating!!

To be fair when the ring pull breaks on a can is very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing more frustrating then chatting to someone for a while and then they randomly block you with no explanation..

Splinter in between your toes. My dad had to pin me to the bed while my grandad got it out with tweezers. Pretty frustrating.

Sounds more painful then frustrating!!

To be fair when the ring pull breaks on a can is very frustrating "

Really painful as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing more frustrating then chatting to someone for a while and then they randomly block you with no explanation..

Splinter in between your toes. My dad had to pin me to the bed while my grandad got it out with tweezers. Pretty frustrating.

Sounds more painful then frustrating!!

To be fair when the ring pull breaks on a can is very frustrating

Really painful as well

It sounds it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing more frustrating then chatting to someone for a while and then they randomly block you with no explanation.."

I'm with you there buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's always a reason.. lol, your obviously not for them just move on"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention whore. They place is loaded with them and you're supposed to put up and shut up.

Unless you're a woman. Women get pity, hugs and virtual Kleenex for the tears.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Attention whore. They place is loaded with them and you're supposed to put up and shut up.

Unless you're a woman. Women get pity, hugs and virtual Kleenex for the tears. "

Haha for a minute you were calling me a whore...

Yeh it was really frustrating as we seemed to be into similar things but oh well... guess not everyone is as kinky as they actually pretend to be lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There usually is a reason. I've exchanged numbers with people and then blocked them for the following reasons:

They got sulky and demanding when I wouldn't give them my full attention.

They kept bugging me for pics and/or videos.

They wouldn't stop calling me.

They made creepy personal remarks or decided to jump straight into telling me all about their personal fantasises.

Something came out in the conversation that made me realise we were incompatible and I was not in the mood to deal with nasty messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There usually is a reason. I've exchanged numbers with people and then blocked them for the following reasons:

They got sulky and demanding when I wouldn't give them my full attention.

They kept bugging me for pics and/or videos.

They wouldn't stop calling me.

They made creepy personal remarks or decided to jump straight into telling me all about their personal fantasises.

Something came out in the conversation that made me realise we were incompatible and I was not in the mood to deal with nasty messages. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or they start sending me random pictures of their dick. Dude, if I want to see it, I'll ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If it helps I literally only got to text them hello..

But yes I've moved on just wanted to vent frustrations for 5 minutes!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe you said something disgusting to her that made her vomit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/04/18 15:51:36]

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"Attention whore. They place is loaded with them and you're supposed to put up and shut up.

Unless you're a woman. Women get pity, hugs and virtual Kleenex for the tears.

Haha for a minute you were calling me a whore...

Yeh it was really frustrating as we seemed to be into similar things but oh well... guess not everyone is as kinky as they actually pretend to be lol "
perhaps you took it too far?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel your pain... I got told a load of woman on here are actually men... And gay

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You should have stuck with sailor jokes and comments such as:

“Can I park my torpedo in your harbour?”

“Can I see your open port hole?”

Etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 09/04/18 15:51:36]"
I'm in the same boat at less they talk to you so do not give up

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"[Removed by poster at 09/04/18 15:51:36] I'm in the same boat at less they talk to you so do not give up

what you're both on the boat together? maybe that's what scared her off?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"Feel your pain... I got told a load of woman on here are actually men... And gay"

people just say that to wind folk up

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How does “can I pump your bilge?” sound as a chat up line? (Boat related)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I was chatting to a guy about DIY and family stuff. I wasn't meeting at that time as my son was very unwell. We weren't even talking about sex. He asked for Whatsapp, I didn't have it so joined it specifically. He sent me a video of him wanking and Cuming and then got pushy demanding a meet. I blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feel your pain... I got told a load of woman on here are actually men... And gay

people just say that to wind folk up"

There’s a lot less fakes than you’d think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About right for this site, and plenty of others to be fair!

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"Once I was chatting to a guy about DIY and family stuff. I wasn't meeting at that time as my son was very unwell. We weren't even talking about sex. He asked for Whatsapp, I didn't have it so joined it specifically. He sent me a video of him wanking and Cuming and then got pushy demanding a meet. I blocked him. "

ah the diy thing must have got him going!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well if nothing else some of the comments have made me chuckle

Just to clarify if texting "hey" is too disgusting or taking it too far then guilty as charged!!

However much fun it would have been had we been on the same boat sadly I'm on leave and no females on my ship when I am there lol!!

Yes men are dicks given by some of the comments in here but I'd like to think for once I was innocent!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

At least with a block you know for sure they’re not interested even if they haven’t actually said so. I don’t know what’s worse, the sounds of silence or “ya fookin’ jokin’, pet wi’ face like that, tha needs t’ be down coal mine”

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At least with a block you know for sure they’re not interested even if they haven’t actually said so. I don’t know what’s worse, the sounds of silence or “ya fookin’ jokin’, pet wi’ face like that, tha needs t’ be down coal mine”"

Haha true... or is that what you would say to me

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 09/04/18 15:51:36] I'm in the same boat at less they talk to you so do not give up

what you're both on the boat together? maybe that's what scared her off?"
its a saying that all because i had the same thing happen to me even get block without talking to them or fab there photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing more frustrating then chatting to someone for a while and then they randomly block you with no explanation.."

I know the feeling mate to many fucking time wasters and egos on here just after attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing more frustrating then chatting to someone for a while and then they randomly block you with no explanation.."

Totally get where your coming from, and couples and women have the cheek to call single guys,,!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing more frustrating that going to the barbershop, telling her what you want, listen to her saying: 'sure, no problem I'll do that' and ended up with a fucking haircut that not even close to what you wanted !!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Welcome to fabland "

This ^^^^^^^

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Nothing more frustrating then chatting to someone for a while and then they randomly block you with no explanation..

I know the feeling mate to many fucking time wasters and egos on here just after attention"

It's because they get so much attention is why they do it. If tumble was rolling through their inbox they wouldn't do it. I blame the single men myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There usually is a reason. I've exchanged numbers with people and then blocked them for the following reasons:

They got sulky and demanding when I wouldn't give them my full attention.

They kept bugging me for pics and/or videos.

They wouldn't stop calling me.

They made creepy personal remarks or decided to jump straight into telling me all about their personal fantasises.

Something came out in the conversation that made me realise we were incompatible and I was not in the mood to deal with nasty messages. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nature of the beast. Don't dwell on it, they aren't worth it. Just move on.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I quite fancy sluicing down some dirty decking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I quite fancy sluicing down some dirty decking"

Best make use of the pms then ;p

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Maybe it's a bloke

Maybe she changed her mind,but didn't want to say

Maybe you said something she didn't like...

You will never know op, happens often judging by forum posts .

Don't drive yourself mad debating it.

Miss

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

I got blocked for making remarks to someone. I jumped straight in at the deep end. What I saw as innocent lustfulness she saw as creepy. It's a learning journey and a mistake I won't make again.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I quite fancy sluicing down some dirty decking

Best make use of the pms then ;p"

Yeah sorry just thinking up some crap boaty suggestions. They won’t work. They just make me laugh - there again, I have a sinking feeling I have a diff sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Attention whore. They place is loaded with them and you're supposed to put up and shut up.

Unless you're a woman. Women get pity, hugs and virtual Kleenex for the tears. "

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And those who lead you on to say something you don't want to.Then send a nasty message and block.Such ignorance.Both happened to me, I am just an honest guy looking for similar people and get treated like dirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And those who lead you on to say something you don't want to.Then send a nasty message and block.Such ignorance.Both happened to me, I am just an honest guy looking for similar people and get treated like dirt."

How can someone lead you on to say something you don't want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t give up OP! I know it’s frustrating. Tomirrow’s a new day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t give up OP! I know it’s frustrating. Tomirrow’s a new day

Cheers for the positivity

yep new day today.. wonder if much changes today though lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t give up OP! I know it’s frustrating. Tomirrow’s a new day

Say tomorrow again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving up is for quitters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t give up OP! I know it’s frustrating. Tomirrow’s a new day

Say tomorrow again."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha damn typing on my phone!!!!

Honest I'm not illiterate!

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