FabSwingers.com forum: Reasons for Swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone, first post

Just curious to know peoples opinions on the reasons for swinging.

Is it for:

- the sex,

- the social interaction,

- the attention,

- to find love (which i have found to be a reason for a couple of people)

- (mainly for women) to gain the power that the women within the swinging world have over men?

or other reasons.

Thanks.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Sex! Always for the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha definetly the sex, if it was for social reasons take up tennis or something instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure I've seen this one before!! Ended up here completely by accident but now that I'm here I love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure I've seen this one before!! Ended up here completely by accident but now that I'm here I love it!!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

sex although we enjoy the social side too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex... as we find it very hard to have gangbangs without assistance.

cali

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

The Sex.I enjoy having sex with attached ladies,but wouldn't do the dirty on some poor bloke.Swinging, the perfect solution.

Not the reason i started though.I started when i was working Nights,and my socila life wasn't what it is now.Strted goinh to cubs and a well known north London spa to improve my chances.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

the sex...the social side is fun but we have plenty of friends

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

"The Sex.I enjoy having sex with attached ladies,but wouldn't do the dirty on some poor bloke.Swinging, the perfect solution.

Not the reason i started though.I started when i was working Nights,and my socila life wasn't what it is now.Strted goinh to cubs and a well known north London spa to improve my chances."

i meant clubs, not cubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

started as a dare from billy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sex and she does love the attention of horny men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both the sex and the social side have made some good friends from swinging.

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By *uAndAlCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

I don't think you can catagorise the reasons people swing. The human brain is so complex that if we took a survey I'm sure we would soon run out of space for the reasons let alone the answers. I also think the way you first become aware of the notion and practice of swinging could play a role in your reasons. I my self come from a Penticostal church back ground but always felt a drive to fuck dirty from an early age, even before i new what fucking was. I remember geting some, for the time, realy dirty european porn mags. These had close up pictures of penatration, DP, cock sucking even come shots. Of course I was wanking all the time then, and now, and your mind takes over. Eventualy my mum found them and gave me a 1 hour lecture on women are not for sex they are for reprocreation and how women don't enjoy sex the same way a man does, while we waited for the pastor to come and give me the same speach before he exorcised all my demons. I tended to keep my sexual fantasys to my self after that. Even when i met some one who was as dirty as i was it was hard to tell a woman that you want to see them getting fucked infront of you. Thank God for PORN ;].

Even after getting turned on talking dirty to women about seeing them get fucked by other men it was years before i actualy did it because i wasnt sure how i would feel, during and afterwards, and what it would do to any relationship i was in. When i did swing eventualy , a lot of things turned me on that I had never thought of. How i loved seeing a woman loving cock, sucking and being fucked and seeing another man enjoying using my woman. My own personal reason for swinging is because I'm a dirty bbc fucker. My philosophy now is "if it doesn't hurt any one, make do against ther will, if it feels good do it and if it doesn't don't. Sorry to go on : ]

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

the sex without the attendant emotional hangups...

and the social side is a bonus.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

the sexual side initally brought me here... it is the social side that now keeps me here.....

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

When you have a great thing it just seems rude not to share...

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

i am here for the sex and also the social side...i love the attention..its great..

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Dipped my toes with the late wife before she died. After she passed away I missed sex, so threw myself into swinging as a single guy. I did not want a relationship with anyone (ironic really as I met my wonderful partner Jackie at Chams) and did not want to "go on the pull" at a weekend. Peoples emotions can get dented if both parties are looking at it from different points of view, plus beergoggle syndrome might kick in. Mind you with my looks she would need beer goggles.

I knew swingers before so knew there was a social side to it, but I never realised how great the social side is. Now the social interaction is the main thing I take from swinging. Oh and plenty of photos of Jackie enjoying all the extra guys out there lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex excietment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good sex

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Originally just curious and then it gave me a social side(chat rooms) then meets happened and then realised what good sex could be as never experienced it before.

Now its for sex. I get the social side from other areas but also enjoy the social side that goes with meeting people and met new friends too but always based on the sex.

Have been on dating sites but ended up with a stalker so stick with just the sex side and hide away from any relationship now lol.

Sex all the way for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with different types of men.

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