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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not that I'm Beeing picky i was just wondering if anyone felt the same way as me that regular status updates give the site more of a alive feel sometimes seems like a ghost town with days old status still there, would also create better conversations I think.

Any thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk moan about them comparing it to Facebook.

Personally I'm not sure why people get so irritated. You take and leave what you want from the site. None of it's force fed.

As for the question...I like to see what people are up to...it's like people watching and intrigues.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Mine would say “watching SPECTRE” so hardly tantalising tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine would say “watching SPECTRE” so hardly tantalising tbh. "

Actually you gave me an erection, imagining you watching Spectre is a hot mental image.

*taking my cock out*

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By *harliebluestockingsCouple
over a year ago

london

Can’t see why you would moan about them. Just a little fun.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Not that I'm Beeing picky i was just wondering if anyone felt the same way as me that regular status updates give the site more of a alive feel sometimes seems like a ghost town with days old status still there, would also create better conversations I think.

Any thoughts."

They only last two days?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Depends on what they say lol

Some in our updates just constantly whinge and name people .

I do like funny ones though

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that I'm Beeing picky i was just wondering if anyone felt the same way as me that regular status updates give the site more of a alive feel sometimes seems like a ghost town with days old status still there, would also create better conversations I think.

Any thoughts.

They only last two days? "

Long time when no one is meeting you maybe??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny is good.

Cryptic or anything with mmmmmmm in is not good.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Funny is good.

Cryptic or anything with mmmmmmm in is not good. "

Mmmmmn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny is good.

Cryptic or anything with mmmmmmm in is not good.

Mmmmmn "

Hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are usually funny little quotes

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Mine are usually funny little quotes "
I definitely like your current such a refreshing change from the usual “too many messages” etc

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Some make me laugh. Ive said before without crossing into the facebook world it would be good if you could like a status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they're good and they can be little ice breakers for people when they don't know what to say in a first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are usually funny little quotes I definitely like your current such a refreshing change from the usual “too many messages” etc"

Thanku

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was one on my local updates last week from a couple asking if anyone had any coffee to spare them. Shameless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like status updates, they tell me something about a person. I post new updates fairly regularly, and quite a few conversations have been initiated as a result.

What I don't like, are negative, whinging, or passive aggressive updates...what do people possibly hope to achieve from posting them!?

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree with you all really I wouldn want a running commentary of someone's life like Facebook I do like to read them though, when it's been the same for 2 days or without a status at all it just feels a bit like an empty place.

I understand that people have lives to lead and come on maybe just to look around or browse obviously and there's nothing wrong with that, I think it's just a stage experience on here sometimes maybe it's just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they're not Local Updates!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Handy for seeing the repeat two day profiles that pop up with same picture after they go UNLOS.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Handy for seeing the repeat two day profiles that pop up with same picture after they go UNLOS. "

Not so much those that go UNLOS but I don't get the repeated photos that get posted from time to time. Is it a case that if a pic gets 50 fabs on one day, it gets taken down and a couple of days later gets another 50 fabs that it has a 100 fabs, or is the fab counter reset? And can these pictures be fabbed by the same people time and again?

I do like some Status posts to (getting back on track) Funny ones will always make us smile, its the "Thanks for last night, you know who you are..." type ones that make us think why, particularly as they will be verified 10 minutes later and they reveal to the world that we all know who they are. Why bother

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

I generally don't mind them however, there is a couple locally that post a status like Facebook. The guy will post something and then an hour later the female will post another, replying to the first status. I don't know why but I find it so cringe-worthy. I've even blocked them in the past so I don't see it but they delete their acc quite often and then pop up again!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Can’t see why you would moan about them. Just a little fun. "

Because some must think that the site should be tailored to them ha. They're pribably the same ones who moan about winks

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I just use mine to lure in suggestible females who I can make laugh and hide the fact that I’m a bit crap in bed

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By *Cocksucker84Man
over a year ago

walker

I find some of the statuses hilarious.

'I can't reply to anyone cos I'm almost out of messages'

'Could Brenda please message me? I'm out of your age range/preferences but think we could really hit it off.'

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Nothing puts me off more than cringey begging statuses "so and so please message me" ugh reel in the desperation folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not the best at thinking of a catchy one. I think I’d have a very short career in marketing if I had a stab at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them, people should definitely do it more often. In the past I’ve actually messaged the more intriguing ones lol.

The creepy & desperate ones are also a good indication of who to avoid lol

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