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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Hi all

As a male submissive and one of many on this site I’d like to start a chat.

This is with the sole hope that one dominant lady is able to meet one submissive man!

Whilst I know that may very well not be me I’d like to at least try!

So!

Ladies please post 3 things you’d want from a sub.

Men please post 3 things you would like from a mistress / domme / lady.

Hopefully something will match up!

Don’t be shy xx

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

I’ll start, I’d be willing to offer

1) utter loss of control and clothing

2) body worship

3) entertainment and cleaning for her or an audience!

Please get posting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Restraint

2. Edging/tease & denial

3. Body worship.

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By *ackofnotradesMan
over a year ago

Worthing

(Hi first post)

My three things I would seek from a dom Lady would be.

Chastity, cock control.

Pegging.

Humiliating tasks to prove my submission.

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By *essica101TV/TS
over a year ago

kettering

1 bottom worship

2 pegging

3 total obedience

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple, anything she wanted

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Anyone else? Ladies roll up?

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Anyone around?

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By *ivianVanDammeWoman
over a year ago

West Coast

Oh it’s such a shame no men closer have posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) always have me stripped in her presence

2) spit and piss on me to degrade me

3) have other Dom friends to group up with in abusing me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We looked for a submissive guy within Leicester a while back but could never find one.

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

"We looked for a submissive guy within Leicester a while back but could never find one."

I can travel to Leicester?

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera

My sub has to be under 25, slim and compliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub guy here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her telling me to strip

Then tying my hands

Then hitting me with a whip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent topic. When I’m in sub mode I like to offer: worship and restraint, massage, being spanked and flogged, and pegging as a reward for excellent behaviour...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"We looked for a submissive guy within Leicester a while back but could never find one."

Did you go to club 29? There are more sub men there than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We looked for a submissive guy within Leicester a while back but could never find one.

Did you go to club 29? There are more sub men there than anything else. "

Yeah we tried it once when it was another name.

Our problem in find one was we only wanted a sub guy that's straight and as most sub guys are at least curious it would be unfair for them to only have to do straight play all the time so wouldn't feel right, kind of like we taking part of there fun/kink away and they wouldn't be fully satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Totally restrained and tied in many positions

2. Edging me for her amusement

3. A total cock tease!

*** the more you tease me and please me.... The more I'm going to ruin you after! **** yes that's right ladies I'm a switch! It's in your best interest to ruin me first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to add this to our set up as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always happy to help darkangel

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

"Would love to add this to our set up as a couple

I’d be happy to help, I’m midlands so I assume not too far away! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We looked for a submissive guy within Leicester a while back but could never find one."

Hi, i,m wanting for a lady or a couple to be dominated, i will do anything for you, please try me, please take me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We looked for a submissive guy within Leicester a while back but could never find one.

Hi, i,m wanting for a lady or a couple to be dominated, i will do anything for you, please try me, please take me"

Hiya,

As we said a couple of posts down from that, was a straight guy we was seeking, sorry.

Was a long time ago and we're sorted now

Thanks for the offer though, appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Strap-on

2. Edging/tease & denial/chastity

3. Body worship (esp ass).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Restrained teased and fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Restrained teased and fucked.

Mmmmm heaven x

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience it would be good to have a sub who is not a cheat !

How can any sub submit when he has a partner.

I am still searching for that elusive sub and not a wannabe like so many are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound and look like a goddess xx

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

"From experience it would be good to have a sub who is not a cheat !

How can any sub submit when he has a partner.

I am still searching for that elusive sub and not a wannabe like so many are "

Put them in a chastity cage! Job sorted

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

Sub under 30, obedient, BI , worship/serve me and my man. Lol

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill

Ideally for us 25 or under, bi or bi curious, willing to please, obedient and likes being pegged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Someone who i connect with

2. Single

3. And on a site carered for bdsm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Respect - for themselves, others and their Dominant.

2. Trust - in their Dominant's decisions and actions.

3. Obedience

Mistress Amelia x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) intelligence - always goes a long way in these kind of things. Specifically emotional intelligence.

2) Respect - doesn't need much explanation, surely

3) A caring side. Always good for aftercare

Anyone else just really enjoy the gentle side of bdsm? I love the idea of being controlled without the need for beating the ever loving shit out of me to get me to comply/conform. I do understand the desire to be hurt sometimes though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pegging

Foot worship

Widen my horizons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1) I love the idea of being controlled without the need for beating the ever loving shit out of me to get me to comply/conform. I do understand the desire to be hurt sometimes though "

If you need to be beaten to comply your not submitting. If you wish to be hurt then a sensible Dom/me would use that as a reward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) be within reasonable distance (no more than an hour drive)

2) have availability that matches mine

3) don't expect any weird or dangerous stuff

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By *lintshire72Man
over a year ago

North Wales

"Would love to add this to our set up as a couple

What part of Wales are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the dominant female in a relationship with a submissive... it always amuses me how most 'sub' men have a whole list of kinky stuff they want the woman to do to them. When a guy says to me "I want to worship your feet/lick your ass/massage you all over/have you kick me in the balls/etc.' he isn't being submissive, he is trying to use me as a fetish dispenser: "Do this stuff to me the way *I* want!"

My submissive:

1) accepts that - although I value his input - I make all the final decisions.

2) is not allowed to masturbate or orgasm without permission.

3) is expected to do everything in his power to make my life easier; shopping, cooking, chores, driving etc.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

2) is not allowed to masturbate or orgasm without permission.

3) is expected to do everything in his power to make my life easier; shopping, cooking, chores, driving etc. "

My wife is on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2) is not allowed to masturbate or orgasm without permission.

3) is expected to do everything in his power to make my life easier; shopping, cooking, chores, driving etc.

My wife is on here

Hi honey!

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By *woyoungbunsCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We switch but have never had an additional domme for FFM with two dommes on one sub man, or FFMM with another femdom couple. Think these would be really fun. Would need to be a woman or couple who:

1) are reasonably laid back. Don't take things too seriously.

2) are pleasant and nice outside of play.

3) would like similar things to us - oral, humiliation, facesitting, pegging, filming...

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