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"I'd never knowingly facilitate a cheat, regardless of whether I knew the innocent partner or not. It comes down to consent as far as I'm concerned- I wouldn't have sex with someone without their consent, so why would I then allow someone to cheat when their partner is not consenting to what is happening behind their back. It's basic respect and humanity in my opinion." | |||
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"No. I wouldn't get mixed up in someone else's shit. A fuck is never worth that. " | |||
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"A few mixed responses I see. I have friends who are married & play as a couple as well as separate with full consent from each other. These friends met with a female they knew last year, first time was just the male from my friends but second time was as a couple. The females partner has found out almost a year later that she had sex with the male but has told her OH nothing about playing with the female in the couple or that it was consented with her too. Now the females partner is led to believe that the male in the couple is a cheat & a liar etc when actually (other than having sex with the female knowing she was in a relationship) he's done nothing wrong. The couple, especially the male, are now worried people are going to hear he's a cheat (female lives a couple of villages away) when he isn't at all. Hoping the distance between them this isn't going to happen but male is really worried it's a possibility. The female they played with has had to rebuild her relationship with her OH & admitted to cheating with other people too over many years, she liked the swinger lifestyle but she's never been able to talk to her OH about it. " If people think something about me that isn't true I don't care. If people think the guy of the couple is a cheat and his wife knows he's not that's all that matters. Whose husband won't talk about swinging? | |||
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"Would you meet & play with someone you knew was in a relationship but their OH didn't know & would it make a difference if you knew who the OH was even if you didn't know them well. " Yes and no respectively! | |||
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"Would you meet & play with someone you knew was in a relationship but their OH didn't know & would it make a difference if you knew who the OH was even if you didn't know them well. " No. To us that would be simply cheating, not swinging. | |||
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" If people think something about me that isn't true I don't care. If people think the guy of the couple is a cheat and his wife knows he's not that's all that matters. Whose husband won't talk about swinging?" This is what I said, if anything is said to them just say it's simply not true & move on. I definitely think it's lesson learned for them though. From what I've heard the females partner is very vanilla & won't talk about sex let alone even think of swinging. | |||
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" If people think something about me that isn't true I don't care. If people think the guy of the couple is a cheat and his wife knows he's not that's all that matters. Whose husband won't talk about swinging? This is what I said, if anything is said to them just say it's simply not true & move on. I definitely think it's lesson learned for them though. From what I've heard the females partner is very vanilla & won't talk about sex let alone even think of swinging. " It'll be old news and people will move on to the next person soon enough. The woman doesn't sound as if she gives the whole story to anybody so what she says about her husband is likely to be edited. | |||
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"No. I wouldn't get mixed up in someone else's shit. A fuck is never worth that. " | |||
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